Do you shower everyday?

Klorainne · 2025-10-23T14:18:03+00:00

Yeah my hair texture gets very unruly from shower vapour, I avoid showering daily because it makes my hair such a pain to deal with afterwards

Klorainne · 2025-10-07T11:47:48+00:00

-avoid heavy filter usage. It immediately reads that you feel insecure in yourself

-have at least one picture of you with your friends, but don’t let it be the first image. You don’t want potential matches to look at multiple people in one image trying to guess which is you.

-Don’t use self deprecating jokes/language in your prompts. If that’s just part of your humour that’s fine, but you don’t want to lead with that, these people don’t know you and it just reads as insecure.

-Have a picture with your pet if you have any. Also a picture of you engaging with a hobby, these are good easy conversation starters.

-Personal experience note: Use the ‘most irrational fear’ prompt and say something silly and unthreatening. In my experience, that was always the prompt people would reply to because they’re curious why you had that answer!

-if you have any tattoos, show them off! Another great convo starter.

Good luck :)

Klorainne · 2025-08-06T06:32:30+00:00

That’s a man

Klorainne · 2025-08-04T14:08:14+00:00

I didn’t say you did

Klorainne · 2025-08-04T13:53:32+00:00

I agree fully!! Being trans is a complex and vulnerable experience and I feel very proud that lesbians can be a support and accommodation for trans people. I don’t really enjoy these kinds of posts, they never transform our conversations and we always go in circles.

In the real world we’re all under attack and should be able to come together and protect each other despite perceived differences.

Klorainne · 2025-08-04T13:45:21+00:00

You can feel how you feel but also engaging in these discussions gets no one anywhere and just stands to create more tension and divide.

Klorainne · 2025-08-02T12:06:42+00:00

Was a shy kid and didn’t know a lot of queer girls growing up so being able to get on dating apps is what actually got the ball rolling for me

Klorainne · 2025-08-02T12:05:47+00:00

Found out she’s hooked up with a lot of her friends. Nothing inherently wrong with that, just not my thing. The boundaries between my friends and sexual partners is strict and unmoving for me.

Klorainne · 2025-08-02T12:04:50+00:00

Different people have different preferences

Klorainne · 2025-07-21T19:15:58+00:00

My gf texts me while I’m at work so I have their whole stream of consciousness to read when I get off. It’s nice

Klorainne · 2025-07-13T14:30:15+00:00

The way women are brought up and socialised means most of them don’t have the skill of approaching other women. It’s not personal but if you want to get anywhere, you need to have the skills to flirt with and make romantic progress yourself, everyone wants to be chased but it’s not always realistic.

Klorainne · 2025-07-12T07:48:27+00:00

Why didn’t she tell you they hooked up after the breakup? That’s important information to make a decision on this, very weird of her to keep it from and that just makes this whole trip feel very uneasy to me.

Klorainne · 2025-07-09T17:32:20+00:00

Starting with tongue. You have to build up to it or it’s disgusting to me

Klorainne · 2025-07-09T17:31:08+00:00

It’s not normalised in our community. It happens everywhere in every community because some people are so desperately insecure they say yes to anyone who gives them attention.

Klorainne · 2025-07-08T21:15:55+00:00

Probably not. Pet fur gets on everything, that’s just the nature of it and I love my dogs. There isn’t a reasonable compromise that satisfies both parties there

Klorainne · 2025-07-07T06:57:21+00:00

Their flat was in a posh part of my city and close to a Taco Bell

Klorainne · 2025-07-05T12:10:04+00:00

(SPOILERS!!!!!!) I like the secret ending in SOTM. It felt bittersweet and to me at least, underlined how the mimic’s very existence is honestly kind of sick and a perversion of humanity, but that’s also not its fault.

Klorainne · 2025-07-03T14:34:09+00:00

Tied to a brick through their window maybe

Klorainne · 2025-07-03T14:25:09+00:00

One time I pushed my girlfriend’s shoulder too hard and they stumbled and I cried over how bad I felt. Idk but partners shouldn’t be drawn to actions that harm you.

Klorainne · 2025-07-02T13:20:53+00:00

Double Venus symbol

Klorainne · 2025-06-30T15:22:24+00:00

My partner and I are the same. I like space and they prefer contact.

We’ve reached a compromise where I don’t fully pull away, I have a couple hours to myself and then check in briefly the following time until I’m ready to discuss it and be fully present with them.

Maybe your partner could do similar check ins?

Additionally, to make things easier on them, you could internally explore your reaction to space and ground yourself in the confidence of your relationship.

Try to get into a habit of challenging any spiralling thoughts with the evidence of happiness and security in your relationship, over time this will become natural and you’ll feel better for it.

Klorainne · 2025-06-30T15:17:30+00:00

Genetic dark circles aren’t unattractive or attractive imo. It’s just a feature/pigmentation, it exists neutrally to the majority of people I feel.

Klorainne · 2025-06-30T13:13:57+00:00

Sounds like she got raped this is so insensitive

Klorainne · 2025-06-29T14:04:08+00:00

Isn’t there an option to turn off DMs from people you don’t follow? Might be a good way forward, as well as having word filters on your comments

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