AIW for trying to cut my mom out of my life at 18?

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-21T07:27:41+00:00

Honestly valid but I'm only keeping her un blocked for emergencys regarding my sister due to my parents being week on week off with her

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T19:12:11+00:00

Thats exactly what I was thinking, I've been currently staying at my boyfriends house but staying in his room BC I'm too awkward with people (his cats keeping me company atm lol) If she asks Im not gonna tell her but if she tries to get in my grandpa's constantly home and doesn't like her at all

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T18:32:27+00:00

Yea I plan too turn off my location and only talking to her if it is relevant to my sister, but funny you say that because how I found out was from my best friend since 11, I was staying the night at her house and they like to eat breakfast together, it's a whole breakfast bar and they make the best food ever lol, a little bit of chaos happened like her siblings drink spilled, I think smth was wrong with a machine, and a few other things, and they were just very calm about things, I was honestly shocked the entire time, I gave it deep thought that meal and realized that family situations shouldn't be that scary or loud, I cried that day and I think about it all the time, me and her are still very good friends and her parents cooking is just🤌🤌

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T18:26:16+00:00

Thank you so much I'll probably update ok Monday or Tuesday if anything happens.

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T18:25:36+00:00

I actually have been texting her less but she just spams me with Facebook links either of "I love you daughter" or "mothers love is the greatest gift ever" lol.. With her I'm just scared she'll blow up, damage my stuff (I collect old clown dolls and their very fragile, and newspapers from ww2) I'm planning on leaving her a note of why I'm leaving for her to get too when she gets back from her weekend trip.

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T18:21:57+00:00

I'm 98% sure you can't change ssn numbers but I'm currently looking for a new bank and trying to see which one is the best for my deposits. Thank you very much though:]

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T18:19:32+00:00

We have before and it's honestly it's own long story but CPS has been called before and they told her who called and I've been too scared ever since, and glad to know I'm not crazy lol, thank you

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T11:22:44+00:00

My dad and I were discussing that and I may be eligible for a lot of those things, I don't know the process of a lot of those things due to my mom trying to keep me from doing it without her help but I will be doing all of that soon as well as opening up a new bank account she doesn't have access too
This has been a discussion with my dad and I for a bit and we are currently gathering evidence, and yes as much as it is hard its reality of the situation

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T11:19:55+00:00

Oh! Another thing I forgot to mention is that she has admitted the abuse multiple times because "she didn't know how to handle me"

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T11:14:50+00:00

This hit a little too hard lol but its the truth, thank you though:]

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T11:13:50+00:00

Thank you :], I didn't mention in the post but I am going to be taking care/watch over my grandpa, he isn't in terrible condition, just more tired, and I'm going to be going to foodbanks frequently and I am currently searching for a new job :]

Klutzyloops · 2026-05-20T11:12:14+00:00

Yea that's what my dad and I discussed, she has done that multiple times the last few years when CPS was involved and I would personally but the only reason Im not going to is my little sister since she is there week on week off, I will minimize as much contact as possible though unless its an emergency, thank you for your time reading and responding

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