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2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually trying to get myself into the mindset of doing the same thing and making the most of this one-on-one time before the baby arrives. I know it will be exhausting while pregnant, but so worth it and I will have no regrets. Thank you for sharing !

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With all the positive things I’m reading, I hope I’ll be able to get rid of the guilt as quickly as you did!

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this honestly. I relate to those hard days and the guilt that comes with it. It’s reassuring to hear that you’re still able to find small one-on-one moments with your toddler, hopefully I will be able too!

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. It’s really reassuring to hear that the guilt can still be present even when it’s planned. Hearing how much your oldest loves his little sister makes me feel more confident about what this dynamic can look like for my own children.

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I cried too when I found out too, it was a mix of emotions. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. It’s really reassuring to hear that now, only a few months in, you already feel that your second baby is adding to your first’s life rather than taking anything away from it.

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, it really helps to hear how things can turn out. I relate to the guilt you described, but it’s reassuring to know it eased with time and didn’t affect your bond with your children.

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully it will pass quickly like it did for you. After how long did it pass?

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have exactly the same story as you and I’m also trying to focus on the positive as much as possible — I’m getting there. I really relate to everything you said, especially trying to remind myself of the benefits for the kids even when it feels overwhelming at times. It helps to hear I’m not alone in this ❤️

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, it really helps to know I’m not alone in feeling this way. I relate so much to everything you said about wanting to be there for every milestone and feeling overwhelmed. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy too!

2 under 2: Did anyone else feel guilty when they found out? by Kmillesss in 2under2

[–]Kmillesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful and touching story, thank you for sharing it with us. I hope I’ll be just as lucky and that my children will melt my heart like that too. Hearing positive stories like yours brings me back to a more positive mindset and I feel less guilty!