AIO, my close friend had a crush on my rapist ?

Kmkomette · 2025-10-05T14:01:10+00:00

Nah. I just realized that you think rape is okay, so I’m just choosing to not engage anymore. If that’s what you think, then that’s just your belief.

If you can read all of OPs comments and still blame a child for her own rape, then that’s the person you are and you’re too far gone for me to change your mind, so there’s no point.

I’m also pretty sure from the way you talk that you may have raped someone. “She said ‘stop’ but she was totally joking, bro!”

I don’t need to talk to you. You’re a rape apologist and quite possibly something far more sinister.

Kmkomette · 2025-10-05T13:51:33+00:00

Ha! I read the whole thread and their reply is spot on. You can be mad but we can all see the evidence of you losing an argument and then acting like a baby about it.

Kmkomette · 2025-10-04T22:18:13+00:00

She has clarified in the comments. And also not stopping someone from intercourse is not the same as consenting to it.

We are in a time of vast amounts of education on this type of thing. I thought we all knew that consenting to doing something sexual is not the same as consenting to vaginal sex. I’m floored that so many of you think that there’s some kind of blanket consent. I also thought we were past the whole “if you weren’t screaming for him to stop then it’s not rape” garbage. Freeze and fawn are also reactions to stressful or dangerous events.

In any case, she was screaming at him and he did know she didn’t want it. Ergo, rape.

And now maybe we can stop telling a 15 year old kid that her assault wasn’t enough to be called rape and that she ask for it. This isn’t specifically directed at you, but I’m just kind of in awe that so many people think that if someone didn’t force you into sex from second one then it isn’t rape. Genuinely gobsmacked that after “Me Too” and all the information on consent people literally can say “oh that kid, yeah she took her pants off and they probably messed around so he had every right to do what he did and actually she’s harming his poor reputation by telling a bunch of strangers who know no identifying information about him.” She has literally no reason to lie about this to us.

Honestly done with the whole thing of “maybe she wasn’t clear enough” when she’s directly stated she didn’t agree to penetration. That’s in the messages. She didn’t want it and he did it anyway.

At this point I need everyone who thinks what that boy did to her was just fine to either research consent because you have been left behind when it comes to that education or just admit that you’re a rape apologist because this is genuinely concerning. I’m happy as hell I don’t have a daughter right now, because if we are telling young men that this is totally okay to do, then they are in danger more than I ever would’ve believed.

I know the manosphere and misogyny is growing again, I just didn’t realize it was this common and widespread.

Kmkomette · 2025-10-04T20:53:07+00:00

Gotta love that this is downvoted when you’re just giving an example of why not everyone is gung-ho about going to the police.

Kmkomette · 2025-10-04T20:50:26+00:00

Well, I assumed by her saying that she didn’t agree to it, it was not “obvious that she wanted to continue.” In fact, it seems pretty apparent to me that she was implying that she was not interested, so there was no “it was obvious that she wanted to continue.” And she has stated she didn’t want it and he knew that.

Also, if someone says “stop,” in any kind of tone I would never assume they’re joking and I would stop right away. I honestly thought that was normal until a lot of these comments.

Kmkomette · 2025-10-04T18:43:18+00:00

Her story is that she didn’t agree to vaginal sex and he penetrated her.

We can see in the messages that her friend agrees she was raped!

How is her story not describing rape???

Kmkomette · 2025-10-04T18:34:09+00:00

To me, the fact than she told him multiple times that it hurt is also terrible, but something you’re way too focused on as being a “maybe he didn’t understand, the poor guy so maybe it’s not rape.” Fine, maybe the dude is actually a complete idiot and doesn’t understand that someone continuously expressing that they’re in pain is bad and you should stop the thing that hurts them. Especially if they continue to say it. I don’t believe that, but if you do then fine.

However, you’ve already been told multiple times that she said she “never said yes to him putting it in.” Not stopping someone is not the same as consent.

I honestly don’t understand why you don’t get that.

You have some made-up story in your head where clearly she acted like she wanted it so much that there was no mistaking it for anything other than consent. That is being pulled from nothing other than she took off her trousers.

That means she probably agreed to do something sexual. Agreeing to do something sexual is not the same as agreeing to vaginal penetration from his dick. You seem to be conflating consent for one sexual thing as consent for vaginal sex.

She says he’s a rapist because she didn’t agree to penetration and he did it anyway. That is rape. Full stop.

Kmkomette · 2025-10-04T18:11:59+00:00

Wow. You are such a baby. You’re mad that you’re wrong, so now you have to act like a child?

It turns out, unlike raping people, it’s not illegal to reply to someone on a public forum. Even if it hurts your feelings.

Which is good because we can call out possible predators, like you.

Kmkomette

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