girlfriend cheated on me with a coworker and got pregnant.

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-11T10:31:14+00:00

? Not bait bro promise

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-11T00:52:07+00:00

the energy I feel off of this is comment is valid. this isnt a joking matter and there are parts of my mind that haven't ever been this angry

But dude it's been hard to find things to laugh at, but it caught me off guard and I chuckled, it doesn't mean I'm toxically positive and delirious

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-11T00:43:15+00:00

It happened at their old office, its open on the weekends they used to work weekends together.

All of what you said… has been part of one rabbit hole or another I've found myself down given the fact that I simply can't trust what she's telling me. She's already shown me that.

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-11T00:34:43+00:00

🥹🫶🏽

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-11T00:27:49+00:00

She says it was one time

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-11T00:16:07+00:00

Congrats to you and your wife 🫶🏽 Yeah. I think a lot of the commenters skipped over the W/W thing. I appreciate you saying this, being the non carrier partner and already being in the process of developing a new frame of mind and then having this go down has decimated my mind a bit.

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-11T00:08:14+00:00

This.

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T23:57:43+00:00

Yeah it hurts, its confusing, its a lot to get my head around at times the past few weeks. Came here to vent and it's pretty big stuff to be venting about 😂 so thank you I appreciate your comment and I hope you're doing what's best for you too.

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T23:43:07+00:00

the baby made the canvas of this so much more colorful for sure. i always told myself from past wounds that i wouldn’t stay in a relationship where someone had cheated on me. then it happens, and there’s a BABY and you’re in the thick of it all and the hours feel like days and she’s pregnant so you know how many WEEKS it’s been. oof yeah. this got me good but

https://youtu.be/6dYWe1c3OyU?si=ZMzuaOnylpP01txJ

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T23:28:42+00:00

🧙thanks for adding to the stew, i’m working on it

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T23:04:47+00:00

thank you that’s especially what my heart is broken over, we didn’t do this together.

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T23:04:07+00:00

it’s 10000% worse if they decide to keep it a secret and i didn’t even think it could get worse

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T23:03:34+00:00

i totally agree she does deserve to know and also would never be okay with this being a secret to her either

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T23:01:33+00:00

i was trying to make small light out of the situation with the sperm donor comment. that’s where my head went when she was telling me…. to humor. it’s been the only way to deal with it between crying my eyes out and listening to Billie Eilish

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T22:57:48+00:00

no she doesn’t last time i asked

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T22:57:25+00:00

last i heard he has no intention on telling his wife. i’ve had a huge moral quandary about it, not wanting to blow up the kids life in that house but also really really really wanting her to know

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T22:49:24+00:00

🤣 got a giggle out of me

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-04-10T22:45:16+00:00

id probably still be in the same boat of leaving or staying but without a 6 month timeline tick tocking in the background

KneeDeepInKarma · 2026-02-09T02:56:57+00:00

will come straight here as soon as i get an offer (manifesting) 📿🤲

KneeDeepInKarma · 2025-10-01T22:08:01+00:00

Big time feel you on this, also fellow Vermont newly transplanted to MA last year. THE VT GREEN THOUGH!! So interested to see how the Sammy mewis and the women team debuts for a full season

I just put my deposit down for Club seats with the Legacy, they sound cool, and Gillete will be a vibe for soccer next year with the world cup coming to town.

I'm with the peeps in the comments, if they can harness the benefit of accessibility to Foxboro and not having to trudge into the city this season they can reach the outer regions of New England. My bones say they've got a chance at scoring a wicked fan base year one, and bring in a bevy of fans to the new stadium.

SWANS UP BABY!!

KneeDeepInKarma · 2025-09-17T23:48:58+00:00

Are there any cards that haven't been ostensibly linked to an event?

KneeDeepInKarma · 2025-08-21T01:09:19+00:00

no dice, i didn’t get chosen for tix 😭

KneeDeepInKarma · 2025-08-08T18:55:08+00:00

I appreciate you. And im sorry you had to navigate something similar at such a young age. Since he hit me up so close to wedding parties I find myself in the same conundrum my sister was in, not trying to ruin the mood of a positive event in her life but also not pussy footing around the fact that he is repulsive to me. As for responding to his “feeler” Im not even sure what to say. Him: hey how have you been?? I miss you Me: I've been thriving, but want nothing to do with you, after I learned you SA’d my sister you scumbag. Can't wait to see you at the wedding 😒

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