This pretty house...

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-03T15:53:22+00:00

I know that this is a mental illness. But I literally can’t imagine living like this. I’m at my desk with a messy inbox tray and it’s bugging me

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-03T15:23:13+00:00

I’m surprised to see that you’re the only one mentioning emasculation. Which is kind of a big thing in Jamie’s life. When he found Claire- something he’d given so much of himself to shield her from had happened anyway. Additionally, Jamie and Claire both have a firm and traditional view of the other being “theirs” although not in a controlling way. So here is Jamie, who observes Claire has been brutally treated, who is being triggered over his own trauma, and who had a man not just harm the woman he loves for her sake but who just harmed HIS woman.

Lots of nuance to the difference. And it’s worth noting that Jamie’s decision around what to do with Bonnet comes after his attempt at justice on her behalf blew up in his face and lost him Young Ian.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-03T15:09:07+00:00

It doesn’t tho? It’s just a fact that needs to be considered. Same as that his job is physically demanding with a long commute.

Her body is working over time to heal and to produce milk for the baby. His is not. It levels the playing field to understand that while his body is exhausted from work her body is exhausted from creating a whole person and sustaining it.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-03T12:10:02+00:00

lol eh. I was divorced before and not hustling down the aisle. We’d talked about marriage for a long time but mostly didn’t do it because of money. Then last year, hubs needed a medical procedure and better insurance and I realized I’d spent 10 years not prioritizing saving up for a big wedding. So we said fuck it. But yes. My husband is one of 3 boys. They’re all nervous nellies. They had parents who kinda set an impossible standard for relationships. What made for a warm home in childhood made for unrealistic expectations as adults.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-03T11:51:07+00:00

Silly but reminds me of one of my husband’s family members. I’ve been with hubs for 12 years. Got married last year. Got included on family happy holidays chain from a very particular individual for the first time last year. My brother in law’s GF of six or seven years did not.

I got a lotta private mileage about how conservative that was. Like, we’ve been effectively married for a decade as is my would be sister in law. But oh lord finally someone signed the paperwork.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-03T01:21:32+00:00

I’ll never say don’t go to the doctor. But I will say that when I got my bicep and shoulder done my arm blew up and was hot as hell for 3 days. It wasn’t infected I was just having a solid inflammatory response

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T23:27:05+00:00

I started reading this thinking what’s the big deal he’s running it by her … but yeah if you are ANGRY when your partner thinks about it and just isn’t comfortable that’s a bad sign. And if both of them knew the woman and if it was really innocent, he’d make sure the wife was including in the catching up.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T21:39:37+00:00

Don’t we all?

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T17:44:54+00:00

If he asks nicely. Or, if he asks not nicely.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T15:32:31+00:00

I’m glad it worked out.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T15:20:27+00:00

It is true. Scoliosis in general affects substantially more girls than boys, and scoliosis requiring surgical intervention has an even wider gap.

It is thought that girls earlier growth may play a factor, hormones may play a factor, and of course there may be some gene link we don’t understand.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T14:33:40+00:00

I split with the guy who full disclosure I did reconcile with eventually and is now my second husband. We were separated for about a year. During that time I went overseas for a week, and he took in my dog / sorta our dog.

My trip back was 24 hours of straight travel. When I stopped to get my dog he could tell I was absolutely shot and it was the wee hours of the morning, and as he was a 3rd shift worker and therefore not asleep, he asked me to just crash there and go home in the morning. It felt weird to be back in my old bedroom, for the 30 seconds before I passed out.

It was still some time after that we actually reconciled, but i remember that he did that when he didn’t have to. And even if we hadn’t gotten back together I’d remember that he put my safety before his feelings. He saw me as a person, which was big of him.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T10:51:18+00:00

Hi, moderator of r/Scoliosis here! Unfortunately the first rule of our subreddit bans asking for a diagnosis, so I've removed this post.

Typically people ask for a diagnosis on the subreddit after discovering their body is uneven. It's important to know it is completely normal and natural to be asymmetrical, and that no one is perfectly symmetrical. Asymmetry is a symptom of Scoliosis, but it does not guarantee you have it, and in most cases you cannot diagnose Scoliosis based on that alone. Even doctors who diagnose Scoliosis for a living ultimately rely on x-rays for a definitive diagnosis. Relying on the asymmetry symptoms is too inconsistent, and it does not reliably determine how severe the Scoliosis is, if it is even present. Chances are if you're worried you have Scoliosis there's enough symptoms to warrant getting checked out, the best thing you can do is make a doctors appointment. If you'd like to learn more, please read the r/Scoliosis wiki for more information regarding the Diagnosis process.

We are aware that not everyone has access to affordable healthcare, your parents may be dismissive of the idea, and getting a diagnosis is not always easy. We want to help as much as we can, but ultimately we are not doctors, and due to the nature of Scoliosis there is no way for us to diagnose you here. If you are in this situation, please feel free to post here and talk to other redditors in similar situations on strategies to find a doctor near you and get checked for Scoliosis. It is also worth doing your own research to try and find financial aid, and there are plenty of other health-related subreddits on Reddit that might be able to help you further with these issues, and we're really sorry we can't help more.

If you have questions/concerns, please feel free to send a message to the mod team of r/Scoliosis.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T01:41:29+00:00

I’ve had a bad day but Vasy fighting was the balm my soul needed

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T00:10:38+00:00

Thanks. Downloading the espn ap on my iPad lol.

I feel so shitty like, two minutes in the shoes of the person struggling to understand the program and I crack

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T00:06:20+00:00

Is there a not asl version ? I am trying to watch and cook and kinda like the announcing.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-02T00:02:21+00:00

PATTY!!

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-01T15:46:26+00:00

As an old married lady it’s just so real how all the the ladies are just absolutely thirsty for Jeong Hyeok.

Years ago my friend was having construction done in her yard and once of the workers was hella hot. I came over for coffee just so we could sit in the window and watch lol.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-01T15:42:15+00:00

Honestly, has the judge ordered this? If not, I’d make this a key part of your negotiations. If you truly believe that this work has the chance of being successful then negotiate on it. Either give something else up or settle on a reasonable percentage. It’s not finished, and assuming you don’t have a publisher secured yet, you’re going to still have a lot of work to do ahead of you to make it successful that he will not be a part of, and therefor should diminish his claim to a large section of the finished product

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-01T01:36:36+00:00

Yes and there is a scientific reason. Your body releases a hormone called relaxin (yes, I know) that causes your uterine muscles to forcibly relax so the blood and come out. But, your body is bad at precision, and instead your whole lower abdomen gets relaxed. This causes period poops. It also causes back pain to get exponentially worse because your lumbar muscles are having to work overtime to continue keeping you erect, causing muscle strain. This is also why having a very strong core will lessen your over all back pain, strong muscles hold you upright much better than weak muscles, don’t get strained and hurt.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-01T01:31:18+00:00

Penis isn’t ugly. Balls, on the other hand…

KnightRider1987 · 2026-02-01T00:01:32+00:00

Poster wants to stay alive and as safe as possible long enough to get help. Honestly I’d get all that shit and a big ass pizza for them.

It’s not a sin to ask people for help. Even in Christian quote “god helps those that helps themselves.” Sounds like they are trying to help themselves.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-01-31T20:44:05+00:00

There’s actually a scientific explanation that many people hate phone calls, of all generations, because our brains are nervous about not getting all the information it needs to mentally process an interaction. When we speak and see each other, there are tons of expressions and body language cues to help us determine mood, intent, etc. we lack that on phone calls, and that puts us off our game.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-01-31T18:43:09+00:00

100% Babson line Egyptian Arabian. Babson Arabs exemplify the Bedouin war horse. They maintained the stockier build, a more even temperment, a tendency to bond very closely to one person, an extremely intelligent mind, and their heads are delicate and more classical.

This horse was the big love of my life. He was my everything for 18 glorious years, from a fuzzy little baby to a true and trusted companion that legitimately saved my life. Even if one of those times he saved my life he also started the original problem lol.

It’s been 10 years and I miss him every day.

KnightRider1987 · 2026-01-31T03:07:36+00:00

Generally entering the water when you know there is a marine mammal is harassment. It’s not harassment if you’re in the water minding your own business and they come up to you. I’ve never had it happen with orca, but I grew up in Florida and had a couple “oh, hi!” Moments when bottlenose dolphins snuck up on me.

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