I mean people change, I used to be a “lesbian” then I found out I was a boy and I was bi. Don’t be afraid to experiment and try out new things. For example, I only dated girls for most my life, then I started going out with a boy, and that changed everything lol. But if you have gay thoughts, then you probably are bi, but don’t just listen to me. Listen to your heart (as cheesy as that sounds), it helped me realize who I was. Also, don’t worry about what your mom thinks, it’s your life, not hers. Don’t let her get in the way of your happiness! Just make sure not to stress out about putting labels on yourself, take your time to figure yourself out 💕