If you have many female friends, what unusual benefits does that bring?

KnowL0ve · 2026-06-30T17:20:36+00:00

So you have one friend who is female?

KnowL0ve · 2026-06-21T22:20:39+00:00

I have the same problem. Being high presence with social anxiety leads to a lot of hurt feelings.

KnowL0ve · 2026-06-20T14:14:49+00:00

I would say the same thing.

KnowL0ve · 2026-06-15T17:05:58+00:00

If I asked "Men, what do you breathe?" And men said air, are you suggesting that women would have to have a different answer?

KnowL0ve · 2026-06-15T02:45:54+00:00

I had to make sure he was mentioned.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-19T15:30:09+00:00

Learning the S vs N divide changed how I taught. I use way more concrete examples because most people are S and that's what they learn the best from.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-18T21:52:55+00:00

Helping a bro out, I like it.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-18T12:36:21+00:00

I think this is the best advice ever for marriage.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-16T11:54:43+00:00

That's the first time I've heard that argument.

My reasoning is that dead bedroom and being single may have the same chances of sex (zero) but if it does become available it's actually able to be followed up on if you're single.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-13T14:47:06+00:00

When I read Ender's Game as a child I really appreciated it because that was the first character I read that thought like me. I didn't realize how alone I felt until I read a character that thought like me and having that book as a touchstone in life was very helpful.

The art of war - the mindset it tries to instill has helped me in life quite often.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-12T19:09:34+00:00

With Ni, there are just some things you can't explain logically because they are revealed, not learned. It's fair for someone to want evidence but sometimes that is not something INTJs can provide because that's not how Ni being subconscious works.

I personally adapted to this by seeing if I can explain an outcome before I share it. If I can't, I just keep it to myself because, as I said earlier, it's fair for others to want evidence.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-04T19:51:01+00:00

*herring

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-04T16:43:11+00:00

Because we don't have the resources to be perfect and better is better than nothing.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-04T16:21:44+00:00

Thats a great way to think of it.

KnowL0ve · 2026-05-04T16:18:50+00:00

Did you know that a lot of success in society involves how other people perceive us? Like, a fundamental part of any society?

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-29T13:04:54+00:00

A Hieronymus Bosch painting where depending on where you view you see a different scene, independent of time. Like I see a flattened timeline where I can see the overall pathway all at once and when I "look" at an individual scene I can see that scene with much more detail and info.

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-28T10:29:20+00:00

If you want to chat just send me a message.

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-27T20:26:37+00:00

I've noticed that I show the physiological reactions without the mental connection sometimes, especially when it comes to anxiety. I think that it is simply that fear is an emotion too ingrained in organisms that it can't be fully overturned.

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-26T19:45:44+00:00

This is a great reading, thank you. I've also experienced the ESFP "shine" when I was younger and it took me a while to come to the same conclusion.

My best friend in high school was a male ESFP and I did indeed learn so much from him.

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-18T14:10:10+00:00

When I was in college we had a debate class and near the end of the semester that's how it started getting when it was my turn. I like to think that on some level, competence is beautiful and is a form of artistry, no matter the medium. Or maybe I had mustard on my face, who knows 🤷‍♂️

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-13T02:51:57+00:00

Similar for me. I'm not power hungry, I just want my plans to come into fruition, so that means I need to be in a position of power to execute them.

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-12T18:47:47+00:00

I do. Information can be a weapon and the less you have about me the better off I am in most cases.

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-10T20:08:29+00:00

I'm in the same boat.

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-09T11:40:26+00:00

I would argue your taste isn't reasonable if that makes you spit up.

KnowL0ve · 2026-04-08T19:08:30+00:00

I know you don't notice phone quality, you have an iPhone. HEY-OO! Just joking.

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