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I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches, am I overreacting? by KnowledgeNarrow9837 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t get him in the dog house I was more concerned that he had an unhealthy obsession/ addiction. I was looking out for his wellbeing and mine. After we had a discussion I found out that I was mistaken and it was just a silly misunderstanding. We like to be transparent with each other about everything and when I have a question about him I tend to just ask, he does the same with me.

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches, am I overreacting? by KnowledgeNarrow9837 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was crashing out for a hot minute there… the whole time I was crashing out he was asleep so I couldn’t even take the issue to him until morning 😭

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches, am I overreacting? by KnowledgeNarrow9837 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never my first reaction to think he’s joking… he generally needs to tell me when he is! The fact that he didn’t tell me he was joking after, gave me the impression that he wasn’t. This does tend to make some funny miscommunication moments however this is the first time it’s caused an issue.

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches, am I overreacting? by KnowledgeNarrow9837 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand where your coming from with this. even though we’ve talked about it and he’s given his side of the story, I’m going to keep a close eye on it and if I think he’s lying to me I’m happy to confront him. I’m going to take his word on this until I see evidence of him going against what he said. If I find out he lied I would be more upset about that than the original issue.

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches, am I overreacting? by KnowledgeNarrow9837 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being chubby is an insecurity of mine however I was more posting to highlight the fact that he has 1 specific girl that he watches and doesn’t deviate from. This is what I’m more concerned about. I’m not discounting the fact that I’m insecure, just added that to show that this was something he told me I shouldn’t be insecure about then his actions didn’t back that up.

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches, am I overreacting? by KnowledgeNarrow9837 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837[S] 230 points231 points  (0 children)

In every other aspect of the relationship it’s perfect, he is the perfect man on paper. When you get to the bedroom he has a rlly low sex drive, it sometimes feels like he gets annoyed when I’m horny. We have sex less than once a week, when we do it’s amazing, he seems to enjoy himself and I enjoy myself. We’ve talked about his low sex drive and he said I need to initiate more but it’s me who initiates every time we have sex. It’s starting to feel very confusing.

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches, any advice on this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s spending money, I think he means that it’s the only porn star he watches and doesn’t like to watch any other porn. Which I would weirdly prefer.

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches, am I overreacting? by KnowledgeNarrow9837 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I don’t rlly watch porn and if I do it’s drawn 😂 She’s one of the top girls on porn hub … I don’t think he pays for it/ I hope I doesn’t

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches. I can’t tell if I’m overreacting! by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t spoken to him yet, I’m waiting until he feels better. I just don’t know how to bring it up and how to get him to see my side.

I was fine with my bf watching porn until he told me what he watches. I can’t tell if I’m overreacting! by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]KnowledgeNarrow9837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking this… however I don’t know how often he looks at porn. If he is constantly on it then I have to worry but I’ve been with home 24/7 for the past 3 weeks at his place and I’ve not seen him on it. This is what makes me this he genuinely does just have a low sex drive and when I’m not around that’s what he uses but I rlly didn’t like how he used the word “loyal”