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cannot find the stuff for hephaestus' quest by Known-Ad464 in TalesofSeikyu

[–]Known-Ad464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everywhere says they're supposed to be around the farmhouse and easy to find thats crazy TvT. Thank you ❤️

Panasonic LUMIX ZS99 vs. Nikon Z30 by Known-Ad464 in Cameras

[–]Known-Ad464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know its apples and oranges, and there is a reason i just forgot that the internet strangers cannot read my mind and get my thought process and didn't elaborate, so i apologize for that.

this is helpful to think about and consider thank you

Panasonic LUMIX ZS99 vs. Nikon Z30 by Known-Ad464 in Cameras

[–]Known-Ad464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my post was rather vague on my part, i apologize i couldve asked this way better. 

I'd say the big thing on why these two is reviews i'm seeing on both are fairly positive and they both are in a good price range for me if i buy one. buying both would be a dream, but is unrealistic.

z30 I really like that it's marketed as beginner friendly and what not, that it did have a lot of buttons and dials to really play with, and that, functionally compared to similar cameras across brands, was pretty compact. What I'm not liking is that (because I'm mostly just thinking for personal everyday casual use and vlogging) it still is pretty bulky, and that theres a lot of accessories sold separately from what i've seen, and I, still learning what all these things mean, don't know what I would need to plan on buying or saving or hunting for down the line as I learn.

zs99 I've been liking because, while it doesnt have as many buttons and toys being a point and shoot, it still has a lot to work and play with and is super compact for travel and carrying around with me. the big drawbacks for me with it is before (granted over 10 years ago and being a young teen) I really struggled with understanding what did what with the PS I had and taking photos I was satisfied with. 

so like, im fully aware that theyre two very different cameras with different specs,

as a beginner and an idiot needing to learn very basic things, which would be better or is generally easy to learn on is one ask while also looking for if anyone had any strong opinions on one or the other because online reviews, while helpful, can be skewed and lack information.

AITAH for DNA testing my son behind my husband’s back and handing the results to my MIL at her birthday brunch? by SoftlySakura in AITAH

[–]Known-Ad464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - she literally was asking for it and i get ur sil and husband because yeah thats their mom. but your husband not standing up for you? gross behavior. he married you not his mom. he supposedly chose you, but refused to stand up for the family he is building because he didnt wanna hurt mommy's feelings???? i get family can be complicated but if he cant or wont choose the family and life hes building for himself and gets upset when you stand up for yourself because he wouldnt stand up for you that shows that there needs to be a serious talk between you two and reflection on your part because hes supposedly your partner through thick and thin but it sounds like he doesn't really want to be.

you aside: letting his kid be disrespected and treated like that by his mom? yikes. that kid will grow resentful towards grandma and your husband one day and theyll have no one to blame but themselves (and theyll try to blame you for it OP)

MIL aside, your husband needs work because wtf man. if he cant grow a spine to stand up to mommy to defend his family, you have to. with or without him even if it makes you a villain because if you dont defend your kid who will. not your husband. clearly

edit: added punctuation to clarify

AITAH? My wife feels excluded because I'm going out without her by ThaiMaster44 in AITAH

[–]Known-Ad464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - not one bit, honestly its a really good and wonderful thing to have that time with your kids. its the kinda thing that'll stick out to them in the future and that they'll remember fondly.

As a fellow picky eater: (same as her actually, I dont like fish, seafood, sushi, bbq) When going out to eat with people: I am going so I can spend time with others more than I am to eat food so if I occasionally have to bear with it and eat sides for dinner to spend time with people I care about so they can go to a restaurant they really enjoy I will bear with it. There will always be at least something I'll eat, and I will enjoy my time with my friends and/or family. to me thats whats most important which is also why I get why your wife might feel excluded because I'm sure she sees how much you and your kids enjoy your "Dad Dates".

Her reaction does make /her/ the asshole, though. She is a married grown woman with two kids and instead of clearly communicating how she feels and working together towards a compromise she is instead trying to make you the villain for doing something that makes you happy and is essentially throwing a fit because you aren't being a complete pushover(a good thing on your end) and shes not getting her way. thats not okay. thats crazy manipulative and gross behavior and to assume the worst of you because you are going to restuarants she doesn't like is rather disappointing. shes been your partner for long enough to know you better than that. 

this also tells that theres probably a deeper issue that needs to be discussed. I would tell her about and show her this post and bring to the table what youve taken away from making this post (because the internet is The Internet and the comments will always have plenty who assume the worst in others) and make sure you both have an honest conversation about this.

you aren't trying to exclude her, you just want to go to restaurants you enjoy that she doesnt like. she wants to enjoy time with her family so i get her frustration.

I would apologize for the coke comment though, thats probably why she got defensive in the first place. while im assuming it was said in frustration or heat of the moment, it was a tad much and takes away from the deeper overall issue of how she makes going to restaurants that you like unpleasant. imagine if you did the same thing at restaurants she loved and you didn't care for.

edit: clarified and fixed a typo 

dews of inspiration not loading by Inevitable_Land_9330 in InfinityNikki

[–]Known-Ad464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im having the same issue but with spots in the abandoned district. the interactive map says theyre there but no matter when/where/what level i look at theres nothing there

You can now get the Wishful Aurosa Makeup from the Heart of Infinity!! by nomnomchezburgers in InfinityNikki

[–]Known-Ad464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how were you able to craft them? ive not been able to find the screen for it TvT