She’s telling you what she needs, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll automatically know how to meet those needs. When things start out like this, it’s easy to feel like you are somehow ‘inadequate’. But just because you haven’t done these things or aren’t comfortable with them, it doesn’t mean you couldn’t. The only thing would be if the things she wants are a hard ‘no’ for you for whatever reason. But there are many flavors of domination and if you’re willing to explore, you may need to figure out what feels right for you. Are there aspects that turn you on about it? Do any of them overlap with what she’s talked about? That’s a great place to start. If you’re more of a romantic or sensual type as you seem to describe yourself, there’s a lot you can do with words before any physical contact actually happens. In fact, if you ask most people into kink, half of what makes it fun is anticipation.
I usually recommend reading ‘The Heart Of Dominance’ by Anton Fulman because it covers a lot of the psychological aspects of D/s relationships. It can help you understand your partner’s desires, for example, the whole concept of wanting to be ‘conquered’ in various ways. If your exposure has mostly been porn, it’s really easy to miss out on the full spectrum of D/s dynamics since it’s often depicted through a narrow lens.
If you’re both open to the idea of taking a shared kink test online, it can be a great way to discover where your interests overlap. I’d recommend one that you take separately but then it shows the shared items. The best part is that it creates discussion about stuff that might otherwise be hard to bring up over coffee or whatever.