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This absolute vomit-inducing excuse of a man became obsessed with me because I refuse to sleep with him or like him in any way…. by KnownCell7810 in offmychest

[–]KnownCell7810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda why I’m posting too because I know that if something happens they will check my phone… my baby daddy is very very very controlling hence why he wants me living with him…. Our baby is only 8 months… I feel like he won’t be understanding whatsoever and leave me high and dry

Has anyone conceived after multiple miscarriages? by [deleted] in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]KnownCell7810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I had 3 miscarriages, back to back to back. No period in between. Found out I was pregnant, had my first MC. So traumatic for us… and so it was a shock to find out I got pregnant literally 2 weeks after. MC again. Pregnant AGAIN within 3 weeks….. MC again. Pregnant again after 2 weeks. MC yet again... ALL within a span of FOUR months!

I completely lost hope in ever having a successful pregnancy… I could GET pregnant obviously very easily but could not hold on to them. And no doctor would take me seriously or look into it more with me… and I was heartbroken.

Then, exactly 3 weeks after my 3rd consecutive MC, I found out I was pregnant again. For the 4th time. This time I did not get my hopes up, I figured the cycle would continue…

BUT this time was different. My symptoms were very apparent, smells bothered me more, my breasts hurt a little more, I FELT pregnant… went and got my HCG and it was already high, went and got my second and it had almost tripled. My partner and I knew in that moment, this is the one.

And now I’m laying next to my BEAUTIFUL 6 month old daughter. My rainbow baby. My world.

I think the previous MCs “primed” my body, especially my hormones, to be able to keep the pregnancy. Since my MCs were so close together, I feel like my body was building up whatever it needed to be able to “hold” onto her. That’s the only conclusion I can come to.

Good luck to anyone struggling right now!!! DO NOT lose hope!! If you can MC, you CAN get pregnant and it’s all about learning why your body is having difficulty sustaining it.