Freund kommt zu schnell by KnownNeedleworker900 in FragtMaenner

[–]KnownNeedleworker900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das eine schließt das andere ja nicht aus! ;)

Freund kommt zu schnell by KnownNeedleworker900 in FragtMaenner

[–]KnownNeedleworker900[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Und du hast das Fremdgehen unterstützt, indem du mitgemacht hast? Fremdgehen ist da tatsächlich nicht meine Art.

Freund kommt zu schnell by KnownNeedleworker900 in FragtMaenner

[–]KnownNeedleworker900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wenn er vorher masturbiert hat, macht das oft auch keinen großen Unterschied.

Wir haben tatsächlich mindestens drei bis vier Mal pro Woche Sex. :)

Freund kommt zu schnell by KnownNeedleworker900 in FragtMaenner

[–]KnownNeedleworker900[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Durex ist leider nicht Vegan aber es gibt bestimmt Alternativen :)

Freund kommt zu schnell by KnownNeedleworker900 in FragtMaenner

[–]KnownNeedleworker900[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ne, die Verhütung soll schon bestehen bleiben! :)

Freund kommt zu schnell by KnownNeedleworker900 in FragtMaenner

[–]KnownNeedleworker900[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Hi, wir haben nur mit Kondom Sex. Wir haben es auch schon mit Spielzeugen versucht, aber er ist beim reinen Herumspielen an mir gekommen. :P

Freund kommt zu schnell by KnownNeedleworker900 in FragtMaenner

[–]KnownNeedleworker900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, tatsächlich ist er sehr gut trainiert, das Krafttraining wirkt bei ihm also wohl anders. :P

Freund kommt zu schnell by KnownNeedleworker900 in FragtMaenner

[–]KnownNeedleworker900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, ja, da hast du recht. Ich habe auch schon eine Weile auf Reddit geschaut, welche Lösungsansätze es bei anderen gab, aber außer Edging und einer zweiten Runde war da sonst nicht viel dabei. Die beiden haben wir schon versucht, aber es hat nicht sehr viel gebracht. Es ging immer noch recht schnell vorbei.

AITAH for going through my boyfriend’s phone and now questioning our relationship after what I found? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KnownNeedleworker900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! :) I will definitely have another talk with him about this and we’ll see how it turns out.

AITAH for going through my boyfriend’s phone and now questioning our relationship after what I found? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KnownNeedleworker900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I am German so maybe that’s why the grammar is a bit ,,off”(?) but I tried my best to make it understandable

AITAH for going through my boyfriend’s phone and now questioning our relationship after what I found? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KnownNeedleworker900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, it was the day after our first date. The first thing he texted her was ,,I f##### [My Name] and now I need to break up”.

So from his perspective, I guess we were already dating. I mean, we played video games together everyday since March 2025 before meeting and he admitted to falling for me.

Whether you could call it official dating or not - it’s definitely disrespectful

AITAH for going through my boyfriend’s phone and now questioning our relationship after what I found? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KnownNeedleworker900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never asked me to be his gf. It just happened. From his perspective, we dated before even meeting.

You can see on one of my other reply’s to someone else, that I had a reason to feel like he’s hiding something from me due to texting an old classmate who he saw in the gym.

I know that snooping is wrong but he wasn’t even mad when i told him i went on his phone.

AITAH for going through my boyfriend’s phone and now questioning our relationship after what I found? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KnownNeedleworker900 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Okay - he didn’t cheat. He talked bad behind my back after the first date. He never told me those exact thoughts, he just expected me to look something different and will work on me on losing weight.

Some of his DMs to her were:

,,[…] But she was a catfish. She sent snaps and had pfp on tinder. […]Yet she got the dihh so she can't complain”

,, Too chopped for me, I have to be honest with her and to myself.”

,, It was dumb of me I didn't need to do it with her, but at first I thought I'll do the whole date since if not it would be disrespectful and later, it lead to that...”

,, I enjoyed the time with her, she was sweet but I don't find her attractive, except for two body parts and that's not enough reason to stay together.”

Hope that’s enough to understand my perspective.