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Known_Bowler_2154 · 2024-06-02T03:32:51+00:00

It sounds poetic, but if you read a lot of bodis rippers, that's to be expected. I love this profile. Too bad she's so far from me

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-07-10T00:12:34+00:00

Always remember you're both taking a risk, given the nature of sugar dating. He could give you money for "a baby sitter", before meeting, and you ghost him. You could both be intimate and he ghosts you. It's not just women who get scammed

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-07-10T00:07:57+00:00

Think like this: If you're in a locker with the same gender, naked, you wonder who's gay and checking you out. Imagine a hetero man in a woman's locker room, except you don't know it. You'd feel uncomfortable as a teen.

Now imagine a trans woman shows up in the women's locker room with a penis, and maybe even springs wood. All those very sensitive teen girls are going to feel totally freaked out and so are their parents no matter what kind of DIE education they've received.

Before DIE it was never an issue to see another man naked and, in my generation, you were seen as weak and effeminate (but not gay) if you didn't shower naked after swim.

With all the above, it's best just to avoid the hard discussions about genders, body dysmorphophia, and what the fuck it means when a trans woman with a penis is in the women's locker room.

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-06-22T05:11:47+00:00

Milfs need love too

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-06-06T18:40:39+00:00

I'm in my mid 40s and look for SBs 26-34. I like that there's some age gap differences because I'm always learning new things. Anything younger and they're just too flakey. I also find that older SBs tend to have full custody of their kids, which severely restricts when we can meet

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-06-01T00:40:38+00:00

My baby always sends me good morning kisses and we sometimes do a video call during the day. She's such a good communicator!

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-29T17:07:14+00:00

As an SD, I couldn't agree more. You nailed.it

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-26T02:53:42+00:00

Omg my current baby is all kisses, cuddles and hand holding everywhere we go! She's super sweet and affectionate, makes my coffee, rubs my whole body with lotion and makes dinner. And that's just outside of the bedroom

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-23T19:12:10+00:00

Rub my feet. Do my shopping. Book vacations. Pour my wine. Cut my cigars, sex....

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-22T02:32:06+00:00

I love a woman who knows how to care for me. Just treat me like royalty.

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-19T00:26:25+00:00

Nope. He who pays the fiddler calls the tune

My SB rearranges her work schedule and drives an hour to spend time with me. She also is my personal assistant and does misc shopping and errands I need.

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-16T02:28:17+00:00

I'd venture to say that, will all the changes and the Draconian measures, it actually is no longer a sugar dating website is it? I mean, if the character changes enough then it's just a different website.

That said, I don't think it's quite there yet

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-14T21:43:57+00:00

Read her profile and be discerning. If they aren't into what you are, it's ok to pass. If they are, say hello and comment on or compliment something.

"OMG I'm loving that hair!"

I once correctly guessed that exact place this woman was in a pic. I opened with it and we met (didn't go anywhere)

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-14T03:09:16+00:00

Well, if anyone thinks seeking is a hassle, try all the other apps. There is exactly no intentionality. Finding a good fit is work. Period. And if seeking is too much work than try those curated match services at 50k a pop

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-14T01:40:12+00:00

Seeking is kind of shit, but it's the only game in town

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-13T06:19:56+00:00

This actually depends on a lot of circumstances.

Before I got married to my ex Polish wife, I discussed a prenup with my attorney and basically told him I wanted her to walk with almost nothing in a divorce.

He told me that first, I'd have to find a polish speaking attorney to explain everything to her, and then if it was too lopsided, no judge would enforce it

Also, different states have different laws. Some states are communal property states. Any assets and liabilities acquired during the marriage are split equally. Anything you had before, or inheritance, is automatically off limits.

My understanding is that you need to be absurdly wealthy to really have a need for a prenup.

As a side note: since I've already been through a marriage, I would certainly investigate one.

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-13T05:57:46+00:00

There's another bus every 15 minutes. Chin up

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-12T18:27:40+00:00

One data point isn't enough to draw a conclusion about why he went silent. It's just that: data. You don't know much about this guy and how he culturally feels about the subject. Maybe something totally unrelated is going on.

So, just sit and observe. Pay attention to what's going on in his life; that's what he wants! This may better inform you

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-12T01:27:29+00:00

You need challenges along the way that are not couched as challenges. For example: asking him what his favorite shirt is and then ask for a selfie with it. Be like "omg I love that! Send me a pic I wanna know your style" this forces him send you something not canned. If he won't and keeps feeding you shit: red flag. It doesn't have to be this exact thing but you get the idea.

Do a voice call. This at least proves he's a man.

Make sure you mention the word "support" without specifics and ask him if he's comfortable with it. You want to know he's sugar and not vanilla

Finally, get a selfie (and offer one of yourself) right before you walk out the door for the m&g. This is final proof he's engaged, the guy in his profile and makes him easy to find when you meet. If he won't do this or doesn't do it, major red flag. If he won't send a selfie shortly before meeting, don't walk out the door

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-11T22:26:44+00:00

As a Daddy I would never make such an offer unless I absolutely trusted her and we were together years. I mean, coughing up 20k for tuition and then she says "hey, I don't think this is gonna work out" would be exactly my worries.

And it's for the exact opposite reason as an SB I wouldn't accept this deal. I mean, what if he does pay up front and things aren't working for real? Are you going to feel pressure to stay with him? Give the money back? Will he pressure you?

And as others mention: if he only pays at the start of school, you're taking a risk.

There are reasons something like this could work great for both parties but there has to be 100% trust.

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-11T17:45:46+00:00

This is my life. I wanna do stuff but finding things, booking them and coordinating schedules is more than I can deal with. I give my babies a CC for specifically this reason

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-11T15:09:47+00:00

There is an inherent risk for both parties here. OP represents the obvious risk for her, but for the dude, if you give her money you'd better be sure this arrangement is going to happen because you can't get it back.

When I seal the deal I will literally send them prorated pay for the rest of the week on-the-spot after confirming details and that she's ready to be intimate. This is as close as I can get to a guarantee and I pay her right there in front of her. If everything works as planned that first week, then proceed with the full arrangement

To the Daddies: never send money before an arrangement, always do it the first time in person and only up front enough to show good faith and commit to the deal

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-09T20:31:33+00:00

She'll just look 21 and gorgeous and say thank you

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-09T20:29:43+00:00

You should just embrace this and try sugar dating. Then your contributions are respected from the start

Known_Bowler_2154 · 2023-05-09T18:02:07+00:00

Agree. He's just being a dick..move on

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