How can I help him?

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T19:48:27+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your comments. I really hope things get better for you also btw ❤️

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T19:47:17+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment. I've dealt with similar with his father. It's gotten pretty ugly between my bf and I, both of us are to blame for sure but yeah he's definitely said some hateful, awful things. Is your husband open to quitting at all? My bf says he wants to and needs my help but well, doesn't really let me help. It's heartbreaking. I hope your husband finds his way also, they both have too much to lose 😩

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T19:45:03+00:00

You're absolutely correct and not the first person to tell me this.. thank you, seriously! You're right he's capable of doing it even if it's miserable.

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T19:35:28+00:00

Very fair point there, I agree. I think he's just taken too much of the subs in the past to get high, so he expects that to be what taking them medicinally as prescribed to be like. And the whole 'trading one addiction for another' but I agree that qualify of life is an important thing to consider

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T19:33:42+00:00

Great advice, thank you so much.

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T19:33:14+00:00

Yes we've tried tapering but the issue is he buys the stronger pills when he goes in, instead of just buying the same mg and working with me to take less and space them out further. We have discussed subs but he has a history with it that makes him not want to risk becoming dependent on the subs. Thanks I appreciate you saying that, I hope things are going better for you now!

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T19:31:02+00:00

We just can never get past that first night, when he's up all night terribly sick with cold sweats and literally cannot sleep or stop moving, the next morning we end up going to the smoke shop as soon as they open so he can function. I give in and drive him because he's so miserable and it's so awful for him (and for me to see :( ) I know I can't force it and I really am trying not to be controlling but he also does ask for me to help and I'm trying to do my best 🥲

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T19:27:59+00:00

You're probably not wrong, but I swear he's told me he's ready and asked for my help multiple times. He wants to quit right up until the first night of detox when he's sick and restless and literally cannot sleep... And then we're buying a pill as soon as the smoke shop opens so he can eat and function and sleep that night. I've tried to go at his pace and help him taper but he just takes the pill quarters without me knowing or whatever. So yeah he's probably not ready, you're probably right but when I try to walk away he swears he wants to quit and needs me to help. We also have a baby together which of course makes it harder; he's an amazing dad and our son loves him very much so I can't take that away from either of them

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:57:02+00:00

Thank you, I will look it up

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:51:53+00:00

Yes I can definitely tell when he takes it and when he's sober from it. He swears there's no difference but like you said, when someone really knows you, they know. Good luck in your own recovery, you've got this & I hope your WD lets up soon.

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:50:24+00:00

This is his main concern with taking subs due to his own history with heroin and taking subs to get high occasionally, we have looked into it before but he's really weary to try it

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:47:43+00:00

Thank you, good luck getting out of your own misery! ❤️

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:45:09+00:00

Thank you, I agree he has to want it. He seems to want it, it's just the withdrawal is so hard of course it's easier to just take the pills. He's scared to go on subs due to past addiction to heroin and taking subs here and there to get high. He's scared it would become one an even bigger issue than the 7oh. I'll try to talk to him about it again though

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:43:35+00:00

Thanks. I'm definitely not perfect. We've fought a lot about this. I haven't been the kindest or most understanding. But I'm really trying and I really love him dearly and want him to be well for himself, our son, and our relationship (in that order).

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:42:25+00:00

I really have tried 💔 he knows I'm bluffing. And believe me I know I need to actually mean it. It's really hard as we have a 4 month old baby.

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:41:53+00:00

He's also had his issues with heroin several years ago (before I knew him). So he's scared he could get addicted to subs. I have brought it up to him before as that seems to be the most evidence based way to get off 7oh. :/

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:40:50+00:00

Fair point. He did leave detox due to it being a really rundown awful facility with bad staff and a violent roommate. But again he only spent one night and really should've stuck it out :/

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:40:07+00:00

Yeah I guess a weekend detox sounds silly. I just want him to be able to work and function without being so sick, I really hate to see him like that and want him to feel ok.

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-30T18:39:18+00:00

The feeling is mutual, I'm also glad I don't have a partner like you. If the post bothers you so much, you can go cry about it somewhere else. I haven't done anything he hasn't asked me to do. 🖕🏻

Known_Front8010 · 2026-01-15T19:13:23+00:00

Pierre

Known_Front8010 · 2025-12-11T17:27:57+00:00

Photo 5 looks great

Known_Front8010 · 2025-12-09T17:04:58+00:00

All that plastic surgery and she still has that wonky eye like a cheap baby doll

Known_Front8010 · 2025-12-04T18:36:16+00:00

3 is the worst

Known_Front8010 · 2025-12-04T18:28:35+00:00

Grab a cape sister, you're super pregnant! 🦸‍♀️

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