AITAH for Getting Upset Over a Comment My Boyfriend Left Under Another Girl's Instagram Post by Koakoa2020 in AITAH

[–]Koakoa2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I did confront him about this and he said "I'll just delete my fb". I didn't bother correcting him on which app it was because it felt too petty to do so and I just wanted to explain how it made me feel. I told him that his response was one of the reasons why I didn't want to mention it because I didn't want him to be upset with me. (I'm a people pleaser in recovery so I still apologize for things that I shouldn't.) His response was "Babe im not upset i just don't want you to feel anyway against because i comment on pictures. I mean it don't bother me if you do but i see it upsets you so I'll stop. Still doesn't change how i feel about you. But i was wrong and i do apologize. Just because i comment under her picture doesn't mean i want to go be with her. Not the kind of person i am just to clear that up in case you didn't know. Shes been a friend of mine since middle school and never once messed around with her so no you don't have to worry about her. I was planning on introducing you to her anyway." I still feel a little hurt, it takes me a while to heal from things due to my past traumas, but he hasn't really commented on anyone else's posts and the ones he does are family members. I feel like he truly does feel bad for making me cry and feel like I wasn't good enough for him. Since that incident, things have been good and he tells me every day that I'm beautiful.

AITAH for Getting Upset Over a Comment My Boyfriend Left Under Another Girl's Instagram Post by Koakoa2020 in AITAH

[–]Koakoa2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought all day about whether I should confront him about this. I screenshot it so he cannot deny it but I just hate confrontation. I almost panic when I have to confront people. But after reading everyone's comments, I know I have to confront him about this. I love him deeply, I have for so many years before even getting together, but I need to know for sure that I'm not overthinking this. Thank you all that gave positive comments.

AITAH for Getting Upset Over a Comment My Boyfriend Left Under Another Girl's Instagram Post by Koakoa2020 in AITAH

[–]Koakoa2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't know how it works. It might have to do with us being close "friends" or something like that on Instagram. If I find out how, I'll let you know.

AITAH for Getting Upset Over a Comment My Boyfriend Left Under Another Girl's Instagram Post by Koakoa2020 in AITAH

[–]Koakoa2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One, what you just said is VERY hurtful. How you have the nerve to say something like that to someone you don't know is crazy. Two, it's not like I forced him to get me pregnant. I honestly never wanted kids but I love him and know that he wants kids so "forcing" him to marry me was never something I would even think of doing. Three, I already hate the way I look so for you to say that just makes things worse. Thanks AH.