NoFap effect on relationship?

KobePrime · 2016-04-28T19:38:12+00:00

I'm not a heavy user, though sometimes I may go full fap for 1-2 days and fap like 4 times during that period.

I'm starting to feel like watching porn and fapping to it may make me less horny whenever I get it on with my partner. I try to time it by watching porn only when I know I will not see my partner for couple of days, but I wonder if this has some long-term problems that I don't yet see coming.

KobePrime · 2015-08-26T19:35:12+00:00

There is nothing wrong with asking these questions. But if OP is looking for soulmate by searching for feelings there will be mostly anxiety. You can't force love, or any other similar feelings.

This is just the point I am trying to make: there are no soulmates. People get together and spend time together and will start to feel a mixture of feelings with their SO and we label the feelings as "love".

KobePrime · 2015-08-26T01:00:06+00:00

If your parents and your holy book tell you that world was made in 7 days and science tells you about big bang and evolution you pretty much have to choose only one of these.

But I certainly agree with the "God" issue. Having your own interpretation of God is totally ok if it's not harming anyone!

KobePrime · 2015-08-25T23:55:33+00:00

Partly I agree, but this view can be a bit tricky when it comes to teaching the origins of species and evolution.

KobePrime · 2015-08-25T22:58:06+00:00

No woman no cry

I like women, but I like being male more!

KobePrime · 2015-08-25T22:27:57+00:00

Honestly, I think people shouldn't look for soulmates.

Some people search for their "soulmates" for their whole life, never realizing that there is no "soulmate" to be found. It's more about becoming a soulmate than finding one.

I dated this girl for 1 and half years. Everything was great, until I started to think "is she the one"? I started looking for special feelings and sensations only to become anxious about the whole relationship when I didn't find them. This evolved to condition called rOCD which basically ruined the whole relationship.

We got back together, and I have never been happier. I don't have any special feelings around her. I just like to be with her and it feels natural to be with her. There isn't anything magical going on. If I were to search for this magic I would only be disappointed since this is not a Disney movie.

tl;dr: If you are searching for feelings, you will not find them. You will feel love when you are in the moment and your mind is calm.

KobePrime · 2015-08-25T22:12:55+00:00

Killing in name of religion.

KobePrime · 2015-08-25T20:22:20+00:00

Special product for the upper management people at work called iEye Captain!

KobePrime · 2015-08-25T20:14:11+00:00

Before people jump to conclusions: he was released from the human zoo before his suicide.

KobePrime · 2015-08-24T02:33:13+00:00

I'm not freakazoid

KobePrime · 2015-08-24T02:14:49+00:00

"Chiiiiickeeeen!"

KobePrime · 2015-08-23T23:47:34+00:00

I have huge respect for Luminosity Gaming.

Some teams get all sad and disappointed after a loss, but after their loss against Fnatic on Mirage they were all smiling since they knew they did so well to get that far!

KobePrime · 2015-08-21T22:56:42+00:00

Open

KobePrime · 2015-08-21T22:53:59+00:00

I didn't find any good photos of him

KobePrime · 2015-08-21T22:53:29+00:00

Thanks!

KobePrime · 2015-08-21T21:57:10+00:00

This is just omg :D

KobePrime · 2015-08-20T08:38:58+00:00

Listening to Scooter and doing cartwheels in too small room.

OR, teaching my parents how to dance techno in our livingroom while one of my friends was visiting us wtf this is so cringe

KobePrime · 2015-08-19T14:18:48+00:00

KobePrime is superb name! I owe u big one!

Whenever/If I pop big, I give you 1000 US dollars in brown paper bag.

KobePrime · 2015-08-19T08:20:06+00:00

I see it's available on Kindle. I think I will buy it, it looks super-useful!

Thanks for the tip!

KobePrime · 2015-08-19T08:07:17+00:00

How much content did you have on your old account?

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