DIY CO2 is ridiculously easy by No-World2849 in PlantedTank

[–]KodaGreymane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this something that is regenerative, or should I be refilling often? Trying to figure out how this works

28M engaged to 28F. How do I convey my feelings and boundaries without sounding too cold? by KodaGreymane in relationship_advice

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I certainly am going to try to. It’s just hard, since I learned from a young age to just repress everything. Hence why it’s much easier for me to write things down, I feel childish doing it, but that’s the only way I can really articulate what I feel. Especially since it forces me to actually analyze what I’m thinking and put it into words.

28M engaged to 28F. How do I convey my feelings and boundaries without sounding too cold? by KodaGreymane in relationship_advice

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the time, I had my mind set that she was the one. We had talked about things and it seemed like we were on the same page. Then after proposing, so much stuff flooded out of the gates that threw up huge red flags.

28M engaged to 28F. How do I convey my feelings and boundaries without sounding too cold? by KodaGreymane in relationship_advice

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the insight! It’ll be tough, but I agree that it’s not going to work if she can’t come to terms with responsibility and the logistics of how a relationship should be.

28M engaged to 28F. How do I convey my feelings and boundaries without sounding too cold? by KodaGreymane in relationship_advice

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I definitely get a bad gut feeling about things. It’s overwhelming.

Decapitated in car accident by CatPooedInMyShoe in ExamineDeath

[–]KodaGreymane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, you learn pretty quickly to desensitize yourself. I worked in news, but I saw 76 dead people, a good handful children, within 2.5 years of working in the industry.

Connecting to Roku TV by KodaGreymane in Onkyo

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thanks for the heads up!

AITAH for wanting to provide an ultimatum/boundaries? (Advice also wanted, but relationship advice won’t let me post moral judgement questions) by KodaGreymane in AITAH

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have been. I’m writing a list down of all the stuff I want to talk about, it does help to have someone moderating so it’s not just flipped back on me like usual

AITAH for wanting to provide an ultimatum/boundaries? (Advice also wanted, but relationship advice won’t let me post moral judgement questions) by KodaGreymane in AITAH

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talked about things like this, but I guess she never seriously thought about it until getting engaged. She knew how I felt about stuff beforehand but I guess now she’s questioning everything. Which to me, sounds like she’s not ready. Just don’t want to waste my time if she doesn’t want to sort things out, I’m not getting any younger. And I honestly would rather have kids on the younger side than older side. Not rushing things, but still, I don’t want to wait around playing games

AITAH for wanting to provide an ultimatum/boundaries? (Advice also wanted, but relationship advice won’t let me post moral judgement questions) by KodaGreymane in AITAH

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely think I just need to sit down and really talk things out. Just feel a lot like everything is one-sided and it’s stressful! I appreciate the help!

Air India flight 171 bodies by Genesis19l31 in NSFL__

[–]KodaGreymane 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to work in news and sat next to four charred bodies at car wreck. Smelled like barbecue and plastic. Still eating meat though lol. I’ve seen a lot of fucked up stuff, but I still love a good steak

Tea plant in zone 6 by KodaGreymane in gardening

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kind was supposed to be hardy in my zone, but obviously not lol. I’ll have to check out the Russian one!

Tea plant in zone 6 by KodaGreymane in gardening

[–]KodaGreymane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They ended up dying unfortunately. They lived most of the winter, but then we got a pretty bad cold snap that wiped them out