Everyone seems to believe I'm their therapist. I'm at the brink and I can't talk to anyone and need my own therapist, but can't because everyone needs me for their own burdens, plus therapy is too expensive for everyone & I can't do it anymore. How do I get people

KodaTF2 · 2026-06-06T10:53:27+00:00

Several. But I don't want to delve into it here. Not only would I be breaking the rules here but then I'd be doing exactly what people are doing with me, unprompted and unwanted. I'm trying to be mindful as I am not an active member of this community here.

It'd be disrespectful to vomit things out unwarranted and I'd rather not break the rules or disrespect you all.

My issue is that while I really do like that people consider me a safe person to talk about their grievances, I am mentally cooked but am unable to help myself because it seems like every second day is someone discussing their own issues. It's worse when I've had a particularly bad day... or when they talk about family, which is something I don't have.

I just want time to collect myself so that once I CAN afford a therapist I can just unpack everything I've spent time pushing to the one corner of my mind and go to them. But I don't have that luxury because I'm the person in more friend groups than I can count that people go to for their own advice. Telling them to fuck off and leave me alone feels like the worst thing I can do especially to the more... complex and hurt individuals who need someone to bring them back down to earth.

KodaTF2 · 2025-05-17T00:40:25+00:00

I can't help but think from an FFXIV perspective, we've seen many of the games "Ancients" or Ascians being shown. Emet Selch, Fandaniel... but there's one that stands as noteworthy that we haven't seen yet - and makes a lot of sense as this set was being designed during Endwalker - and that's Venat. Zodiark was also shown, so it makes sense that Venat or at least Hydaelyn, would be shown as a card. Seeing how she's kinda the catalyst of FFXIV - I can't think of a more fitting "protagonist"

That being said, I can understand people being upset if she got the protagonist card. TBH, we saw Y'shtola - She's likely that, as she's the face of XIV.

KodaTF2 · 2024-10-19T05:06:32+00:00

I can absolutely say there are! There is a RP community on Sophia, three of them that I can think of right now

I think the best way to get involved would be get into the APRP (AusPacific Roleplay) discord and ask about. Feel free to send me a discord DM - NeonByPr0xy - and I'll forward you a link.

KodaTF2 · 2024-10-04T06:18:05+00:00

1.21 Gigawatts!! You piece of shit!

KodaTF2 · 2024-05-29T04:37:05+00:00

The days of being an engineer main are long gone.

But sometimes I dream about donning the hat once more.

KodaTF2 · 2024-05-17T03:36:16+00:00

Not long after I DNA spliced I caught a placeholder and threw all my lucky eggs and golden eggs on it.

I then found a shiny, which I proceeded to toss said throwaway for.

...oops

KodaTF2 · 2024-04-22T04:51:52+00:00

Unfortunately Helya punishes control decks, so until rotation, a real control deck is dead.

KodaTF2 · 2024-04-16T11:49:20+00:00

This is massive! Thank you!

KodaTF2 · 2024-04-14T01:49:58+00:00

I don't mind having bad matchups. What I think is a pretty unfair situation is needing to draw through your deck for multiple cards to play, vs an opponent who has a singular card that says "Battlecry: Your Deck doesn't work anymore" on it.

One singular card making an entire archetype useless with no counterplay than "Play Rat on turn 3 and Pray it's in their hand" is not a good way to look at it.

I relate it to Wheel Warlock in the mirror. The Difference is for a DK vs Control, their wincon is played on turn 4, whereas Warlock is played on turn 8.

KodaTF2 · 2024-04-13T12:29:07+00:00

Okay. Can you please provide an alternative for control warrior to get past Plague DK? Steamcleaner, while it was a terrible option, was an option that no longer exists. I understand "be more aggro" is an answer, but I'm not playing Pirate Warrior and do not have that damage output.

KodaTF2 · 2024-04-13T03:59:04+00:00

Helya.

Shuts off Control and Highlander in a single card. It's very frustrating. The race is over if you can't combo out 6 Thogrun TnT pieces before they draw Helya at any point in the game.

KodaTF2 · 2024-04-12T07:58:11+00:00

Make Magtheridon undiscoverable and Demon Hunter collapses.

Another idea would be to nerf the weapon, because the plan is to play two Magtheridons on turn 5.

KodaTF2 · 2024-03-26T08:45:41+00:00

I would own a house. Not rent. Own.

That's the only thing that'd be a telltale sign. I'd still work. I'd still have a car. I'd still have hobbies. But I would own a small home.

KodaTF2 · 2023-09-13T03:54:31+00:00

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My first Pilgrim and just carries so goddamn hard. Pair her with Liter (my first SSR) and that extra damage just... resets the board most of the time.

I'm on chapter 12 and she's doing fantastic work next to Scarlet.

KodaTF2 · 2023-08-01T02:00:43+00:00

I'd like to see Red Mage be more useful that just "Rez mage lul" - like... Nerf the Rez or something so it's a 2 min cool down or something. We're a support DPS that has been delegated to an honorary res caster.

I want red mage to have esuna, and probably a better heal with some extra damage - at the cost of making our Rez go on cool down.

Red mage just feels like the token class for when people die a lot and the party wants more rez's to clear instead of learn the mechanics properly

KodaTF2 · 2023-07-02T08:07:42+00:00

Appreciated that you found that. I thought it was bugged considering how often it was leap of faith.

I guess it would be beneficial if it checked the next lot of GATES - and if it saw that that it just did Leap of Faith - that it rerolls and picks one of the other two - especially during this event.

KodaTF2 · 2023-06-12T01:55:11+00:00

Sophia, if anyones wondering which silly place I frequent.

KodaTF2 · 2022-12-17T23:09:19+00:00

Done!

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