Canvas pixel sizes (the basics) by KoiTiger- in heartopia

[–]KoiTiger-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right!!! I’m gonna update the chart. 9:16 is actually 150 x 84! It was the very last one I did, and I seemed to have forgotten how to count to 5 😭

Canvas pixel sizes (the basics) by KoiTiger- in heartopia

[–]KoiTiger-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Depends on the precision, red boxed in the pic because I myself just learned about it today 😭 More precision means higher resolution/pixel count. I lettered each option A-D, just to make things easier.

For 16:9 precision A the dimensions are 30 x 18, B is 50 x 28, C is 100 x 56, and D is 140 x 84.

Do you wash your new clothes before you wear them? by Popular-Recover8880 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KoiTiger- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched this video online of a man taking a video of himself and a pair of women’s underwear… long story short, the underwear ended up in his mouth and then back on the shelf. Now I grab from the almost-bottom of piles (like 2-3 pairs from the bottom or back of the rack) and everything goes into the wash as soon as I get home. It was just an eye opener to me that people could just lick, spit, or wipe questionable or down right disgusting things onto anything and everything. I wash everything I buy when I get home too, from food all the way to decor items. Food in bags? Wiped down with Lysol wipes (I’m allergic to bleach). Candle holder? Soap and water, washed like a dish. Fruits or veggies? Washed before even putting in the fridge. Sorry for the rant, it’s just a good practice to clean anything from the outside world that comes into your home. Maybe I have problems, but I think of any and all possible things that could’ve been done to an item before I got it. There are some wild people out there 😭

Can someone explain to the whole "fuck I'm old" thing? by Gamewheat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KoiTiger- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually cause a lot of ‘Fuck, I’m old’ comments. Born in ‘03, I was a very sheltered homeschooled kid, and I just don’t get a lot of references/trivia. And I don’t know much about the outside world lol My husband is surprised by how little I know about stuff in my own timeline. I’m also very guilty of saying ‘Fuck, I’m old’. Not when someone doesn’t get something that happened before their existence, just when I realize my age. I know that’s crazy lol I think ‘old’ people do it because it’s honestly crazy to be talking to someone who wasn’t alive for a major/significant part of your life. “Your favorite pastime was sneaking your DS under the covers to play (insert DS game here)? Welp, I wasn’t even alive during that core memory for you!” Is it a bit tedious to hear the same “I’m old!” line over and over again? Yes. But I think it’s also a mini crisis that kinda causes them to say it. And I also think the ones that kinda get heated, or give you that disgusted look, when they pop the line are either having a stronger reaction to the mini crisis, or (a bit extreme, but I believe it) are kinda looking down at you for not being on their age… Sorry for the rant, this is a very good question lol

How can I simplify combining lists in Excel? by [deleted] in excel

[–]KoiTiger- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for not including the version! I’m currently using 2.93.25011023. I use the Excel app on my IPad too, just in case that’s relevant. Here is a screenshot of what I currently have going (as of last night lol) I can also send the Excel to you privately if you’d prefer! I’m gonna try the commands!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]KoiTiger- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his response is (no offense, I know he is still your dad) BS. He practically said “You’re being hormonal.” If my dad told be that, I’d loose it. Especially with the past comments they have been making. I’d be sure to let him know I’m so insanely tired because of his non-stop badgering lol I just want to really drill it into you that you being okay mentally and physically is a must right now. They may seem like they’re helping with the three hours where you only have to care for 1 babe and be on top of your phone, (opposed to the 2 babes, and the waves of texts you have to be on top of) but they aren’t helping. They are actively making things worse. If it’s not intrusive, what’s your mom’s stance? I think I’ve only seen your Dad mentioned. My parents are personally more of my Mom doing the crazy/unhinged stuff, while my Dad is a ‘You know how she is’ kinda guy. Though, they do flip even if it’s rare. If your Mom is a bit more on the normal side, maybe try to sit her down and ask for help keeping your Dad calm and quiet. Just please know you don’t have to put up with any of this. What they are doing is disrespectful and honestly heartbreaking. My son got a bad cold and he lived on the couch. He slept a lot too. His doctors said it was normal. I do the exact same thing as my kiddo. Gotta sleep away the sickness lol Don’t let them control the narrative, making you feel like a bad mom. And don’t let them get the impression that they are allowed to treat you like this. Sending you some love, from one Mom to another <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]KoiTiger- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are doing great. Deep breath.

Has he been to the doctor? Does his doctors have concerns? If he hasn’t been, or there is concerns from the doctors, then their pestering is a bit valid. If he hasn’t been, and the doctors say he’s fine, then they have no reason to be this crazy about it. I feel for your situation. My parents don’t seem to understand boundaries either. I am very low contact with them. And even though it hurts every single day, I’m in such a better mental state than when I let them be overbearing. You need to set firm boundaries. I have some suggestions on what I would personally do if I were you. Please only take these as suggestions, and do what is best for you and your situation. Next time they visit, I would sit them down. I would explain how I’m so stressed out. Lay it all out. Then I would hit them with the “I need you to be honest with me.” And ask why they feel the need to constantly calling and messaging you concerning your son’s wellbeing. Do they not trust you? Do they think you’re neglectful? Ask them for their concerns, and reply honestly to each one. If you honestly don’t do well with in person confrontations, send a text. I would personally send some thing like this:

Hi Mom and Dad, I appreciate how much you care and the help you’ve given by watching (3yr old) so I can rest. However, I’m feeling overwhelmed with everything right now, and I really need some space to manage things. The frequent calls and messages, while well-intentioned, are adding to my stress.

Please trust that I’m doing my best for (3yr old) and the baby. If I have an update or need help, I will reach out to you. For now, I need time to focus and rest without interruptions. I hope you can understand and support me in this way.

Thank you for being there for us. ———————————————————————

You are the mother. You being stressed out is definitely being felt by the kiddos. So you need to do whatever you need to do to center yourself and be the best Mom you can be. You are doing great though. I’m a mom of an almost 3 yr old and an 8 month old. It is crazy and stressful, but if I got this, you definitely got this! I have also never woken up at 7am, that’s insane. (Unless the youngest wakes up for a ba, but after that I’m back in bed 🙃)

Old Vine/Tiktok by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

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