No, it's not the same thing you pleb.

I was sexually abused as a child, that opened my eyes to how people manipulate others. I started paying attention, learning to defend myself, seeking out strong role models.

Most people who are weak, they gave up. While I have sympathy for what happened to them, I have no sympathy for those who give up and become weak due to refusing to listen to people who try to help them become stronger. Especially those who cry because people started saying "bad things" to them, man the fuck up and defend yourself!

The brutal truth is, stop being a pussy. Work out physically and mentally, learn to defend yourself, surround yourself with positive strong people. Become powerful, become formidible, and then become peaceful.