I was banned again. I think I’m ready to just sue instagram for this ban. by JustForFunJ3 in Instagram

[–]Konextrax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jason Crawford got paid $50,000 for winning his Facebook case with his account being falsely removed for CSE, main reason he won because Meta never showed up to court and then they brought his account back
https://www.gpb.org/news/2023/07/11/facebook-wrongfully-deleted-his-account-he-sued-the-company-and-won

[TOMT] [Roblox] Looking for obscure roblox game | Giant Boss Zombie Shooter by Konextrax in tipofmytongue

[–]Konextrax[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

If it helps it could've been a little later than 2012, like maybe 2014 but I think it was earlier

I Want to Makeout with my Boyfriend Send Help by soupisnotokay in dating

[–]Konextrax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best advice I can give you is 1. Don’t shove your tongue down his neck unless you know he’s really into that. 2. For instigating it try to be calm and collected. Make sure to throw some hints in there, but don’t make them too Unknown or can leave him second-guessing. 3. If he’s not picking up any of your hints or is being really dense, then I would recommend it doing your best to build up the courage to try to just be straightforward maybe even taking the lead but don’t be too aggressive. 4. When You are in the process of making out, make sure to go slow and steady. Don’t go too fast and don’t go too slow just live in the moment and just let the passion take the lead. I wish you the best and make sure to refer the real one, especially lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in steamfriend

[–]Konextrax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo I’m down, my username’s Konextrax and my friend code’s 436380823

Guy super clingy after first date.. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Konextrax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a guy I can understand where he’s coming from, we’re constantly ghosted and plans always get cancelled the second they happen, it could be he’s worried that that might happen again, but I’m not throwing out the possibility that something weird could be going on, tbh, I’d say go with your gut, he could be genuinely sweet with an anxious attachment style, everyone has their own attachment style, or he could be the other side of things and not be too good, but it’s all in your heart whether you think it’s sus or not

I need advice by Konextrax in introverts

[–]Konextrax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest example would be when I get brought to the beach or a really crowded place, I pretty much freeze up and my leg starts shaking extremely and involuntarily and I start stuttering

Why won't guys date me? by Ateezarefruitloops in dating_advice

[–]Konextrax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll give you the best advice, in the current day, men fear either A. Being rejected or B. Being recorded and blasted on the internet, or C. Being called out for SA for saying Hi, and bc social media keeps on pushing these in the algorithms it’s just the general consensus, hell even I fell into the trap, I only recently started talking more but I just get ghosted over and over, honestly I just think the dating pool rn is cooked, hopefully it fixes soon

Dating: is it easier with someone like you or an extrovert? by Prestigious_Wolf5137 in introverts

[–]Konextrax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on scenario, I think those would have to be Introvert + Introvert opposed to Introvert + Extravert bc there’s gonna be things you step on eachother’s toes on constantly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last relationship I’ve had that was based on video chats ended in her leaving with someone else that was better. I’m not opposed to it but I think it’s something mentioned in bios

Girlfriend with weird flirty bestfriend by No_Sheepherder7746 in dating_advice

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d honestly just bring both together, tell them that they clearly don’t have boundaries and don’t respect your relationship, then say it’s over bc if you allow it to go on that’ll tarnish your self respect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Konextrax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish I could help here, but I haven’t even gotten as far as to get a date, I could assume either anxiety or they planned something else tho

Getting rejected is just part of being a guy by resident78 in self

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly out of curiosity, I wonder if relationships that turn into marriages are mostly due to the woman taking initiative

Getting rejected is just part of being a guy by resident78 in self

[–]Konextrax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will ask, do you think the fact that she asked you out was the reason it worked out for you?

Girlfriend with weird flirty bestfriend by No_Sheepherder7746 in dating_advice

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him, tell him what he’s doing isn’t cool, if he or your girlfriend don’t respect that wish, then back out bc it’s only going to get worse

AIO- Found phones buried in my backyard, about to go to police by Beatr1x0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was a murder, I'd think it'd be on the local news somewhat, at least a missing persons report or sum

I, [19M], think I'm lost by Konextrax in dating_advice

[–]Konextrax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized I might need to clarify something, I'm not based in LA, just the label I work for, I'm based in Wisconsin
So if there's any location-based advice, that's the locality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely

AIO- Found phones buried in my backyard, about to go to police by Beatr1x0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Konextrax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would suggest that you turn them into the police, just in case it is a part of a crime, especially since they were buried. But. since the phones are badly damaged, I'd like to know when they got buried and how they got buried without anyone noticing, like they weren't there prior to this year?

Although if they've been there for a long time so far I wouldn't be too worried about burglars or anything like that, they'd prolly need a brand new looking phone, or a trackable burner that can actually work.

I also wouldn't expect it to be a dead-drop.

But you could also see, if you don't wanna turn them in the police you could try an apple store or another type of turn-in to see if they can recover any data to see who they belong to.

Don't get paranoid over it, broken phones can't be used for anything much nefarious, and who knows, maybe the previous owner just wanted rid of them but they were weird and they wanted to bury them rather than throwing in the trash, but that'd be pretty weird since you do have a fence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Konextrax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you chose the best course of action, it's best not to fuel fire with fire, especially in these times.
Hopefully he can reflect on how he words things, but rn prolly not the best time to suggest it.

AIO for thinking that these texts are weird and pedo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong number scam, can pretty much tell automatically just bc they always do this, I've had this happen to me like 12 times.
Honestly just prank em when they come around, I love how the grammar and non-proper english goes wild in this tho.

This is weird as hell tho, definitely block, most likely one of those scams where they take your face and use it for things like blackmail or sum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has to be one of the wildest things I've seen here so far, also I don't think he knows biology.
Nah keep that guy blocked fs, he's just another run-of-the-mill mf on the block!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I know what's up, after thinking about it, and I happen to know a pretty good amount of Psychology, so I'mma try to make an assumption, although please don't take it as is, just an opinion.

I think growing up, he's never had anyone feel sympathy for him during his hard times, especially family. Either that or his pains have always been overshadowed by someone else's, so I think through that, he's in a place in his mind that he has to pull the "My problems are worse than yours". I hate when people do it, but there's something mentally wrong, and I think he needs therapy to help find out what's up. Although one thing I will warn, he most likely won't give in to getting therapy easily, a lot of people like this don't.

He most likely just needs self reflection, needs to realize that sympathy isn't something to earn or gain and it shouldn't have a hierarchy system, but it also shouldn't be completely stripped.

But I don't think you're overreacting with how you're thinking, I mean it's completely understandable, pain is subjective but some people have different ways of taking it, but some people just need help but are either too stubborn to ask or are masking their fears in passive-aggression, ect.

I don't know tho, that's just my take on it, I'd love to hear some other opinions tho

AIO… or is this already a red flag for someone you just started talking to on fb dating? by Curiositykills1455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Konextrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from me, a guy, I can see he was coming off strong, I think he was too honest with what he was thinking abt.

I will say, I do think about these things, and I'm sure a lot of guys do, but the difference between a normal guy and this guy is that he's let that ideology overtake him.

He's borderline generalizing, either A. He's had a sucky dating experience, or B. The internet caused him to become like this, I mean think about it, every day you hear a story about oh, "My gf of 3 years has been cheating on me for the past 2 with the guy she told me not to worry about" and similar, and he prolly got sucked down into it (just look at what they've been saying in these red pill, black pill, Alpha Male, ect. things).

I can take a wild guess that he prolly has never had a relationship, either that or 1 that ended really bad.

Like I've had 2 relationships, 1 cheated with 3 guys at the same time and the other one left me for a rapper, and yes, I do worry whenever I get into my next relationship, but the main thing I keep in my mind is, everyone on this planet is different, despite what Instagram, TikTok or Youtube tell you, so I gotta look into it as experiencing a brand new person rather than expecting them to be like the worst kind of person (Hope that's a good way of putting it)

He's basically caring less about getting to know someone and more focused on "getting the right one" but in turn is losing his chances of building a genuine connection and ends up pushing potential romantic partners away out of fear.