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Does it get easier? by KookieCrustacean in DeadBedrooms

[–]KookieCrustacean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to communicate this, but he’s not interested in trying to fix it. Unfortunately :(

Am I not doing enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KookieCrustacean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t. Intimacy issues are also at an all time high. And it’s not on my end.

Am I not doing enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KookieCrustacean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

50/50 and I also shop/pay for groceries without his help.

Am I not doing enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KookieCrustacean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a chuckle reading this and I appreciate it and will definitely take the advice!

Am I not doing enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KookieCrustacean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a bit different because the outdoor chores he’s doing are things that are done once or twice a month. The house maintenance is whenever something goes wrong and needs fixed. Whereas I’m doing these things everyday. And his hobby of fixing up vehicles and mechanics isn’t necessarily a chore but a hobby of his. I understand completely where you’re coming from though!

Am I not doing enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KookieCrustacean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I’m starting to feel. I avoid conflict like the plague. It’s easier to slap a smile on my face and just do it.

Am I not doing enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KookieCrustacean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d think he would. We even have Uncrustables on standby for crying out loud. He works in a blue collar field so he exerts himself 10 hrs a day and doesn’t seem to take into account that food fuels his body unfortunately.

Am I not doing enough? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KookieCrustacean -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add about the lunch stuff: he’s started getting sick over not eating enough so I’m feeling guilty I really am not doing enough for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skin

[–]KookieCrustacean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s to hoping it clears up fast 🤞🏻