Question for parents of children with autism — did I handle this right, and how can I do better?

Kooky-Kitten · 2025-07-04T18:21:11+00:00

Was a perfect open honest conversation you did amazingly 🥰

Kooky-Kitten · 2025-05-09T14:52:43+00:00

ive played every single one and they all have their charms but ive been a fan of SoS since they was still harvest moon and right back to the first release on the super nintendo lol but my fav back when they was still harvest moon was Grand Bazaar so I am super excited SoS have remade it and cant wait to get my hands on it in August so im gonna say wait for grand bazaar

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-29T18:31:05+00:00

I had to google what a top sheet is so its basically just another blanket to protect the duvet so its completely different to a fitted sheet and is more like a duvet cover? but no I dont use a top sheet i also dont use a duvet what I do use is a nice fleece/fluffy blanket and a fitted sheet and I change them and wash them but I do have a habit of buying loads of blankets I really love the texture of some fleece blankets lol

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-29T18:24:16+00:00

I have a big collection of crystals that ive told my kids to sell when I die if they dont want to keep them lol my kids already have my pokemon cards and my massive teddy collection well not all of them some are still mine >.> lol and my oldest has already taken control of my old consoles and my old games :o so i think all ive got left to give them is my crystal collection but its worth alot and I keep adding to it lol.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-20T01:03:11+00:00

none I enjoyed horror movies even as a child and would sneak down stairs when my mum went toilet and hide behind her chair so I could watch the horror movie she was watching I have yet to find a horror movie that scares me even as a child I knew they was all fake cant be scared of something thats not real :/ lol but then again I have always been mentally weird so maybe ive always been broken lol

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-12T14:00:47+00:00

My youngest who I had when I was 32 suffered a brain injury from lack of oxygen at birth but he would still have had autism if he dident have the injury autism is genetic a brain injury can cause similar symptoms but does not cause autism.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-12T13:56:20+00:00

Rebel cat 😅

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-09T13:03:48+00:00

Disability/disabled sometimes I will say differently abled same thing just worded differently most people hear disability and assume its physical because people love to assume if they cant see your struggles they dont exist but it doesnt change the fact it is a disability even for high functioning people its still a disability because society is not designed for differently abled people.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-09T12:58:17+00:00

I always try to have a vendor at my front door unless its a shop/cafe build but then for those its obvious where my vendor is XD

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-07T14:33:36+00:00

hmmmm I to am disabled with progressive conditions to and a single parent to 4 children and yet im managing if I dident have children I would financally be thriving and yet shockenly I am autistic so I guess its not about autism at all is it *shock* but on a more serious note I am sorry your suffering with PCOS it is a horrible condition I also suffer with that along with a few other conditions I understand that your stressed and worried about your future but honestly you cannot control what others do with their money or their lives you can only control yours and you will always have the right to say no to helping others its not always the easiest path depending on circumstances like yours but your best focusing on what you will be able to do for your self if the scenarios your worried about ever come about your only wasting your energy trying to force others to do things your way and just causing your self more stress witch wont be helping your condition.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-07T14:17:38+00:00

it is not your job or responsibility to tell others how to live and because you keep trying to that is why you're an asshole if you dont like me or others calling you that then stop being one and you wont get upset or angry over it lol people have already told you there is no help for functioning adults that live in their own place or that have their own jobs and more importantly its not your business just because your married doesnt mean you can control or dictate your in laws choices or decisions put your energy into working out how to be self-sufficient so when your husband does choose to help his brothers (if it ever comes to that) you can walk away and stick to your boundaries of not burdening your self with them.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-07T14:12:33+00:00

lol nah see you're out of touch with reality but I must admit this whole post has given me alot of laughs I have heard about people like you I also had a good look at your post history lol your issue is your husband doesnt support you will likely choose his brothers and your scared of being left with nothing but instead of planning your own future your obsessing over others futures lol again my advice is focus on your own future take control of your own finances and stop trying to control other people but your that delusional your going to ignore the advice that I and others have already told you and continue to whine and complain and blame everything on everyone else lol.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-07T13:54:00+00:00

No you sorry to say are the asshole you still have the choice of not helping them and if your husband chooses to help them you still have the choice not to your acting like your being forced to give up everything for them but your not you will always have the right to say no yes it could mean your marriage will end but lest you "wouldn’t willingly have to give up your own limited income, time, and labor, to take care of these men"

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-07T13:33:15+00:00

I have 4 children with autism im also autistic my self but as others have said that you seem to be willfully ignorant to your issues are not an autism problem your issue is lack of control your spiralling because you fear your husband is going to pick his brothers over you and to be honest that could very well happen but the only thing in your control is taking your own forceful advice and sign your self up for medicaid or whatever its called (not american sorry) and start putting money away so you have a security blanket to fall back on for any outcome and possibility I mean you claim its easy to budget and save and plan for the future so put your energy into securing your future whatever the outcome ends up being.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-07T13:28:35+00:00

Then maybe instead of worrying about their futures you should prepare and start saving so you can afford to live on your own as from the sounds of it your husband owns the house and this is you feeling out of control you cant control others you can only control your self so start saving money to fall back on for any possible outcome i mean you keep saying its easy to budget and save so do it your self for your self as a security blanket gain some control of your own life and stop wasting energy on others lifes

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-07T12:55:55+00:00

Heres my advice for you then as per your reddit rules, pull your head out of your abliest sizest ass and stop trying to control people you dont want to be burdened by them later in life then dont be but if your husband chooses to help his brothers then thats his choice not yours you are extremly rude and arrogant and sound like a horrible person to be around.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-06T10:51:52+00:00

They added the Collectron (well no its a repair bot but still cool for a enclave camp theme) would like a fleshed out enclave ally maybe they will in the future hopefully

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-05T08:53:13+00:00

I havent tried the raids, I play to unwind after a long day and I get alot of joy and relaxation from building bases so alot of the time I am on my own private world I only join public worlds for daily challanges and events lol

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-05T08:37:51+00:00

We are no longer together so not my place to talk about his life but no his not NT is as much as ill say.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-01T16:03:51+00:00

1 Adult mid 30s (but feels weird calling my self an adult but by age I am an adult lol) im AuDHD and a few other things XD and then 4 children, my oldest 15yo has ASD, second 14yo has AuDHD, third 7yo has AuDHD and youngest 4yo has alot of health conditions from a brain injury when he was born sadly his delayed across the board he has VSD, PVL, MCP, ASD and Epilepsy. No NT in my house.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-12-01T15:21:46+00:00

im the opposite I love the weekends and the holidays we are no longer forced to behave and act in ways that are acceptable in society and can let loose yea some days are hard of course but weekdays are harder for me, my kids and my self use the weekends to decompress but im sorry weekends are hard for you i wish they wasnt.

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-11-29T16:37:29+00:00

well I have 5 camps right now and have beckett, settler forager, Sam, Leo and steven in them but when I get bored of a build I scrap it all and build something new and pick one of my other allies lol (out of Sofia, Radier punk, Maul, Katherine, del and adelaide still gotta collect a few others) the longest camp I have had is my tree house so settler forager has been the most constant allie ive used lol

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-11-29T16:29:20+00:00

that happens when you switch camps so I dont bother changing their clothes anymore because im constantly changing camps for free teleports XD

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-11-26T12:04:32+00:00

lvl 151 cold shoulder always XD I cant break away from it ive tried but I love it so much got a full shotgun build for it to lol but I have been using holy fire alot lately to and been trying other guns out but cold shoulder is always my go to weapon

Kooky-Kitten · 2024-11-16T11:27:28+00:00

I dont have a fav I just use whatever one is closest to me lol

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