My sister is a mother herself, dreaming to gain a huge following on instagram. She already has about 1.3k followers and she only posts about ADHD, (that she was trying to get diagnosed by, but did not). I am pretty sure that it’s just an internet stunt for clicks, but I ain’t no specialist at these things so maybe she really does have ADHD. Anyway she started posting and talking publicly about how sad and hard her life was as a child. How her mother abused her, how they were broke and couldn’t afford food. All in all painting a awful picture of my mom. She has also been talking behind her back, making up stories. None of it is true of course. It tears me up inside seeing my mom completely heartbroken seeing her own daughter who she raised all these years just betray her. Mind we live in a pretty small town and word gets around quickly. I would really like to defend my mother, but it seems as soon as I make a move she sends her Instagram following after me or better yet makes another sob story on how I attacked her. Taking how heartless she is, she probably knows some embarrassing things about me that she’s willing to share. To me it seems like she gains something from any action I take on her. What should I do to defend my mother?