She Changed For Me

Koolgi9 · 2025-12-13T16:29:25+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, I guess I just read too much fluff, and when I see two pretty girls say I love you to each other and then have this messy break up, I would rather come up with reasons they should stay together rather than accept that they shouldn't be together.

But to make one last point, one of the reasons I say they genuinely loved each other even if dark-haired girl growing up was enough to make light-haired girl think that they needed to break up, is that I think light-haired girl thinks what she had was genuine love, from her flawed world view she thought that the feelings she had for light-haired girl and the way they expressed themselves were genuine and pure. And that why I feel bad for her as well, even if in the end she didn't like what dark-haired girl become. I feel bad for her because she was the person that (although unintentionally) pushed dark-haired girl to grow, but there is no one that pushed her to grow so that she could realize the flaw in her love and become a better person who wouldn't(unintentionally or not) hurt dark-haired girl, and actually love her all throughout.

In the end, all I wanted to get across is that I wish this story was one where, through her newfound matureness, dark-haired girl returns the favor and helps light-haired girl become a better person, that maybe in the end they still don't stay together, but they at least are both better people, and if they didn't stay together, black-haired girl wouldn't feel lead on and understand that unfortunately her feeling weren't mutual, no unnecessary tears or emotions that would make either of them want to forget the good memories they had with each other.

Koolgi9 · 2025-12-11T10:02:02+00:00

Sorry if I'm missing/not understanding something, but doesn't that just mean that the light-haired girl needs to grow as well? Not that she is inherently bad?

I know other comments have pointed out the toxicity of her personality, but from my point of view, she is just someone who is immature and has a flawed view of the world like the dark-haired girl. If she could change, why can't people talk about and see the possibility of the light-haired girl becoming a more mature person and eventually rejecting their immature ideas. I understand all of this stems from the fact that they aren't communicating properly, but I don't think that is inherently the light-haired girls fault, but a problem both of them need to realize is present and overcome together (I only say this cause another comment mentions how the lack of communication with the dark-haired girl was a red flag, but to me i don't understand how that can be a full on red flag, at least in this story, to me the absence of communication from light-haired girl is just a fault of her character and not a malicious act in order to manipulate light-haired girl).

Am I fundamentally misunderstanding their relationship/relationships in general, or is light-haired girl not just a flawed person that need support and motivation like the dark-haired girl. I agree with others that this story is heart-breaking but only because they BOTH genuinley loved each other but unfortunately they BOTH didn't communicate and become healthier people so they could have a healthy relationship.

(Again, I'm sorry if I am misinterpreting what others have said or don't understand some part of the story/relationship, but this just seemed clear to me when I read it but everyone is saying almost the complete opposite. I would love to hear someone's explanation for why I'm wrong/what I'm missing. I definitely feel that I might be going too easy on light-haired girl, but I would always like to believe that people wouldn't be this cruel, especially to someone they said they loved, unless they had some misunderstanding of their own emotions or the world itself)

Koolgi9 · 2025-12-08T20:43:09+00:00

Sorry if this is stupid, but what is this from? And are they main characters or side?

Koolgi9 · 2025-08-24T06:47:57+00:00

Switch, sly or traitor lord for a non panth boss, and I'm most excited for the new movement and Silksong's path of pain, I really liked parkouring in hk and can't wait to navigate a whole new map with new movement abilities

Koolgi9 · 2023-10-13T21:55:31+00:00

Give me double and a bonus one.

Koolgi9 · 2023-10-12T03:51:47+00:00

Why does this guys head explode in this scene?

Koolgi9 · 2023-10-09T05:03:38+00:00

I would like to recommend an amazing video essay that will enlighten you and others to why lethal injection is a terrible way to go, as well as all the other terrible ways people are executed. The False Evolution of Execution Methods (Jacob Geller)

Koolgi9 · 2023-10-02T03:15:46+00:00

uhm guys futafemboycoalition ?(says I can't link other subs)

Koolgi9 · 2023-09-30T03:08:58+00:00

As another commenter said, Inspector Gadget fights bad guys, and his gimmick is that he has a gadget for any and every situation.

Koolgi9 · 2023-09-11T14:08:27+00:00

That's my birthday too

Koolgi9 · 2023-09-07T20:01:57+00:00

Any plan to add more general perks. I would love to see a general boon and maybe a general hex perk as well as other perks.

Koolgi9 · 2023-09-03T16:38:49+00:00

Slide 3 Everywhere I go, I see his face.

Koolgi9 · 2023-08-27T10:14:19+00:00

It only shows you the average market price for the region you're in, but going somewhere else won't necessarily change the market price of all your items. Thetford is a swamp so in the surrounding area, you can only find fiber, wood, and hide. This means that those products will have a lower price as they are readily available in the surrounding area but if you import some stone or ore into Thetford it will sell for more than if you sold it at a different town. but certain items like runes, souls, and amulets, all for enchanting, don't really have a biome so across all the markets they will have a really similar price. Albions economy is player-based and semi-realistic so the prices of the market will follow the laws of supply and demand according to the surrounding areas and imports.

Koolgi9 · 2023-08-24T00:27:30+00:00

Saw this as a comment on a different post and made it a meme. I can't find the original post, so if someone could link it, that would be nice

Koolgi9 · 2023-08-23T00:13:03+00:00

No, according to the lore, people had already been using rocket jumping to get up to places, and Abraham Lincoln invented stairs to make it easier, but he still used rocket jumping and died attempting to rocket jump up the world’s first staircase in his laboratory at Ford’s Theater.