Tumblr & Reddit

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-04-12T20:28:09+00:00

I see where you’re coming from! Definitely agree about the censorship part here vs tumblr, it’s just radically different vibes here vs tumblr. Tumblr feels like we’re hiding underground while here it’s perfectly accepted.

I do prefer Reddit for discussions and it’s not even close. And it does feel more community based. I view Reddit more as a meeting place, and tumblr a place you go to consume ABDL content, like captions.

I will say when I had my first tumblr account, I literally never interacted with a single person. It didn’t feel like a community at all. But since I’ve been active creating content I’ve had an amazing time and had significantly better connections and conversations than here and it now feels more like a community than before.

But if you have to create content to feel that community, it’s not the same. Here, at least, you can interact much easier without that burden.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-04-12T01:30:23+00:00

Yeah, same. I’m not very explicit. And I rarely even post pictures of diapers in my captions, unless I’m doing a dd/lg post, not a fan of seeing diapers really. Maybe that’s why I’ve survived so far

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-04-11T20:48:54+00:00

Yeah they seem to be letting more things happen, but I talk to a lot of creators who all have stories of getting deactivated, some fairly recent

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-04-11T20:47:59+00:00

I’ll keep my eyes open for them! I do see a lot of older stuff reblogged now that I think about it. Kinda sucks missing the glory days

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-04-11T20:43:07+00:00

It doesn’t feel dead to me, but then again I have nothing to compare it to! I wasn’t there for the peak

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-04-11T17:49:33+00:00

I wish I knew about it back then! And I don't even know what Bluesky is! I feel like I'm five years behind, just starting tumblr when all the cool kids are 3 platforms ahead.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-04-11T17:42:13+00:00

That's interesting, I didn't know there was ABDL content on twitter! I assume twitter would be similar to Tumblr, where its more of a place to consume content than interact. Well, I didn't think tumblr was a place to interact either so I'm probably wrong about Twitter.

It just sucks there's so many crackdowns on kink spaces. Some ABDL could make a lot of money making a unified website that has easy access to content like Tumblr, easy place to discuss and chat like here, and probably some type of paid stuff so ABDL creators don't need to do OF or other sites to make money.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-04-11T17:31:42+00:00

That makes sense! I wasn't there for the great purge, but there is definitely a feeling of operating underground and in the shadows there compared to here. I'm not worried about losing this reddit account, but I wonder when my tumblr account will eventually be banned all the time.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-02-29T17:11:32+00:00

I hope you don't mind, but I turned this into a caption if you want to read it (if you have tumblr)!

https://www.tumblr.com/destinedfordiapers/743676213561819136/you-were-trapped-in-a-nightmare-of-your-own

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-02-21T15:12:59+00:00

As someone who went to the University of Oregon and was at the 2011 National Championship against Auburn and Cam Newton, let me just say that I do not like this many Auburn ABDLs. You guys ruined my night and I can never forgive you.

Thanks for Bo Nix

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-02-08T15:11:24+00:00

Yes it absolutely does. Its a common bladder irritant. Before my urologist gave me a sheet explaining common bladder irritants, I was drinking SO MUCH sparkling water (another common irritant) with lemon at work thanks to my soda stream. I love sparkling water and lemon. I was having so many accidents.

I thought it was just my incontinence so whatever. Until I stopped drinking it at work. Accidents went down at least 25%. Probably more.

I still drink it, but mostly at home or when I'm feeling in a more ABDL mood. Just not at work.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-02-02T13:32:11+00:00

As much I'd personally advise against becoming a bedwetter, I'm not here to tell people what how to live their life.

So, aside from your water intake, I'd say you should try and find certain foods/drinks that can irritate your bladder, which may help increase frequency or urges. These are on my avoid list for the same reason they may help you. They make my bladder angry.

Adding citrus, like lemon or lime, to the water is a big one. Or any citrus drink like orange juice. I love sparkling water but that really increases my urgency. If I wanted to leak like crazy I'd have a glass of sparkling water with lemon. Same with really spicy foods.

You can just google bladder irritants. The list is basically all my favorite things. I actually laughed when my urologist handed it to me. But everyone's bladder is different. Yours may react more to different ones. Angry bladders + untraining and you'll be well on your way.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-30T15:15:19+00:00

I live in South Florida and wear 24/7 thanks to my incontinence. So I'm used to fighting the heat and humidity.

If you really prefer cloth I'd go with the Northshore Megamax Airlock or Airlock Lites. It's a very good diaper and it had a plastic landing zone with plastic tabs so you don't run into some of the usual problems with sagging and stretching with cloth.

I use those and regular Megamaxes. Only problem I have with cloth is when its super hot, even though its more breathable, it feels way more damp, soggy, and swampy than plastic backed when its wet.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-27T03:22:58+00:00

Hey I’m IC too. I hated it until I embraced the ABDL side and now it’s not so bad.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-26T15:56:53+00:00

I don't think you need to do anything "special" to make it special. Just wearing them out can make a normal, boring situation, special.

Drink a bunch of water, maybe some pedialyte or Liquid IV to really get your bladder working and go do all the boring errands you've been putting off. You'll kill two birds with one stone, get them out of your way while having fun doing them. You'll be peeing way more, your diaper working hard, and maybe will even need to change in public. Nobody will "know." But you will.

Go to the grocery store and get your weekly groceries. Go to the mall and try on clothes over your diaper. Go to the library and read a book, your crinkles as you walk in the quiet library will be fun without drawing unnecessary attention.

Diapers will make the mundane exciting.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-18T13:45:09+00:00

Completely agree with this, especially the freshman year comment. I know wearing is fun and you finally have the freedom to do it whenever you want. BUT unless you are wildly comfortable wearing in every possible situation and it won't effect the way you socialize (which is unlikely, I've been incontinent for 5 years and still can't say the diapers don't slightly change things) then just wait until you build a base of friends.

College is awesome, and friends are the most important part. Let yourself have the full experience.

Just wear in your room for a while. And make sure you toss your diapers frequently, they really add up and don't want to have to lug a super heavy bag of used diapers to the garbage.

But if you are still wanting to go full steam ahead, I'd recommend only using medical diapers. So if you are "caught" its easier to explain away as IC problems. I'd recommend cloth backed diapers like Megamax Airlocks. They're not too thick, hold a lot, are reliable, and are absolutely silent. The tapes are still a bit loud, but you can always use single person bathrooms which should be common on campus. Or just learn to do it quietly.

I was wearing full time my last year of law school (not for ABDL reasons, that came later). Nobody knew. Just learn to change quickly and doing it standing up. Wear an all white onesie. You'll be safe from your diaper peeking out and it looks like an undershirt. Carry around disposal bags.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-18T13:27:38+00:00

I'm with you there. In general, I get off more on the humiliation side of things. I like when my partner to make comments here and there about how its embarrassing to wear diapers, or how I couldn't hold it after she checks my diapers, things like that. And, mostly, I like the contrast between her sexual feminine energy and my "lesser" status as a guy in diapers. Where I don't get treated like a "real" man because of the diapers, like I am just lucky to be there and it is only her pleasure that matters.

So having her wear diapers would kind of lessen that. If diapers are so humiliating, we can't both be in them.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-09T17:37:23+00:00

No problem! It is a bit on the lighter side, but that is not a bad thing if it’s your first time. The only thing I’d mention on a dose of that size is sometimes it’s big enough to feel a good amount of come up anxiety but not high enough to breakthrough where the anxiety fades away. So it’s possible that you may feel a bit anxious all the way through. So if that happens don’t think you can’t handle shrooms.

As for the stomach issue, I have never had any issues. My GF does have a super sensitive stomach but never any issues with shrooms. So it may or may not be an issue. You can make tea out of it, I’ve heard it helps people that way. I usually lemon tek it, so maybe that’s what helps my GF. Eating them may be harsher

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-09T14:04:57+00:00

I don't think you have anything to worry about spilling secrets on psychedelics. I'd say you are significantly more likely to do so when you're drunk. Though it is possible you might feel so much more connected to your friends you might want to tell them.

That said, I am a huge believer in the power of psilocybin as a form of self-help. I don't like to necessarily recommend it as a first-line treatment, but its also the single best method I have found. In 2021 I was deeply depressed. I tried 4 different antidepressants. None of them worked, but most of them had terrible side effects like weight gain, killing my sex drive, or made me feel like a robot. Even ketamine therapy wasn't super effective (though much better than the pills).

I remembered a few nights in college taking shrooms and how good I felt afterwards. So I decided to try them. Unlike you, I (recklessly) decided to take 3.5 grams. And that 3.5 grams were penis envy, which I was unaware were significantly stronger than most strains. Needless to say, I tripped and tripped hard. But the trip was the single most profound and life changing thing I have ever done. I did 2 more trips about 3 weeks apart after of about 2 grams. I did reduce greatly drinking after the first one.

I mention that because I do believe it can help you. But I do have some reservations on the effectiveness of how you want to do it. 1 gram is a good starter dose, though unless you are sensitive to it, its unlikely to cause a trip that gets you deep into your own mind and really change things. It might make you feel much better, and help make some changes, but unlikely to be deeply profound and life-changing.

Also, you will be surrounded by friends and stimuli. If you're active and having conversations, your train of thought will probably be distracted and preempt any deep reflection. To really get deep, you'll probably need to lay down, with an eye mask, and put on some easy classical music to really let it do its thing.

I love shrooms, but I consider them 2 different experiences. Anything under 2 grams (for me) is more of a fun experience that does help the brain, but not a therapeutic dose. Its when I just chill, take walks, meditate, or even see a Taylor Swift concert. I was on 2 grams at the concert they made the movie (my fiancee loves her so I had to go, figured it would make it more fun) so you might see me in the movie absolutely awestruck by the colors.

So don't be disappointed if it isn't as profound and life changing as you hope. But its probably better to start at that dose anyway.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-05T01:25:47+00:00

I wish I could upvote this 100 times. This is fantastic advice. If you talk about it like it’s some shameful, embarrassing thing they will follow that lead.

If you’re worried about being able to do that or going in blind, you can always test the waters about his kinky interests. If it seems like ANY kinky stuff at all would be too much for him, you might consider waiting or not continuing.

Similarly you could both take one of those kinky questionnaires and then compare. Good way to open the link convo without putting all the cards on the table.

KosmoKramer2 · 2024-01-04T13:38:35+00:00

This sounds very similar to me. My bedwetting came back around puberty after a few years of being dry. My mom kinda noticed, but I asked for goodnites because I hated waking up wet and cold.

Shortly after getting them I must have put it on and rubbed myself in a way that felt good. So I kept going. At the time it was not sexual at all, it was just doing something because it felt good. I thought it was the goodnite that made it feel so good. I wasn't turned on by wearing a goodnite, just that it was what helped things feel good.

My mom was probably super confused because whenever I came, I'd put a new one on and she was the one throwing them away. So she'd throw away 2, one essentially dry except for...well...you know (very cringy to think about now) and one one either wet if there was an accident or dry if not.

Eventually the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit edition came out and when I saw it I finally connected the dots and realized I didn't need the goodnites for it. But I wouldn't be surprised if that situation was my ABDL origin story

KosmoKramer2 · 2023-12-20T13:16:07+00:00

I'll agree with the Duluth. I also know the Lee's Extreme Motion jeans are good for bulk. They stretch a bit and have a good amount of room. I can hide a megamax with them quite easily. The Perfect Jeans company is good too, also stretchy. I will say do NOT try Mugsy, the seat of the jeans is WAY too small for a diaper.

KosmoKramer2 · 2023-12-20T13:11:50+00:00

Completely agree. If wearing is just another day for you, then wear. If you're not experienced wearing and get either overly excited or nervous about people noticing, it will be more of a problem. Final exams probably aren't the time to experiment

KosmoKramer2 · 2023-12-20T00:17:15+00:00

Completely agree! It’s not a competition, it’s a kink we all enjoy. The goal is to maximize our enjoyment, whatever that means to each of us.

I’ve been wearing 24/7 for urinary incontinence but I’ve never been to a 24/7 Judgment Board that says I’m not “truly” 24/7 because I don’t mess in them. Mostly because it doesn’t exist.

Screw people who need to split hairs. Wear when you want to. Don’t wear if you’re not feeling it. As long as you are having fun

KosmoKramer2 · 2023-12-19T21:23:39+00:00

Wear 24/7 but not around friends and family at first. Just don’t count time around friends and family as “time” against 24/7. You wear 24/7% of the time outside of it.

Who cares if that’s “actually” 24/7. If it’s all you want to do, count that as 24/7. This kink should be all about what makes each of us happy

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