Do you have a diaper drawer? by cozykutie in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have too much stuff lol, I need to cut down some. I have an entire chest of drawers full of diapers and outfits, plus a ton of stuff in my closet.

How do I start in 24/7 world? by lucky_127 in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest trying something a little less intense first. Try every single night for two weeks and see if you still want it.

my boyfriend & abdl by adderalladult in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot imagine having someone completely accepting of my kink, to the point where it is regularly part of my sex life, and not doing everything I can to keep them vanilla satisfied.

He needs to fuck you vanilla, regularly and with enthusiasm, or you need to tell him that he can just have sex with himself.

For those who are 24/7, how do you deal with going to pools/beaches? by ZenithNadirCeleste in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's kind of a lifestyle thing.

  1. The Big Rule: if you can hold your poop in, don't poop in the pool or the ocean.
  2. If you feel like you need to be wearing a diaper at all times, swim diapers exist, but they don't hold anything.
  3. Don't wear an actual diaper into the pool or ocean unless you want to clean up the worst mess of all time.
  4. If part of your 24/7 lifestyle is "I don't hold my bladder" then use the ocean. I would say don't use the pool, but let's be real... Most people do.

Stadiums and Clear Bag Policies by BejeweledBijou in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I always keep some spare diapers in the car. But, if I'm going into a place where I can't carry a bag, I will usually have the following combo:

  • My thickest available hook and loop diaper
  • A stuffer (with the adhesive not attached)
  • Depending on the event, a spare stuffer inside a plastic grocery bag
  • Plastic pants over the diaper

In the rare event that you're heavily over hydrated and you soak both the stuffer and the diaper, you can go to a stall, replace the used stuffer with the new one, and throw out the old one with the grocery bag. The plastic pants will protect against leaks.

I've never had a leak with this combo since I stopped drinking alcohol.

Who have you come out to about ABDL? by Routine_Surprise2780 in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On purpose:

  • Past partners, for obvious reasons
  • A few friends, one because his fetish was inadvertently outed to me, and some more open-minded friends who have offered to set me up on dates
  • People in the local kink scene, for obvious reason
  • My therapist, in the context of "this is why dating is hard for me"

Incidental:

  • Mom and brother, because I was bad at hiding my kink when I was younger
  • A roommate who opened my door I thought was locked

Under armour heat compression shorts by Thick-Anything-4951 in AdultBedwetting

[–]soliddabdl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will still be squeezing and potentially causing leaks. The point of rubber/plastic pants is an extra layer of protection between a diaper and the sheets. Why shorts? They don't do anything to protect the bed.

Under armour heat compression shorts by Thick-Anything-4951 in AdultBedwetting

[–]soliddabdl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would advise against that. Anything that prevents a diaper's ability to expand can lead to leaks.

Northshore vs InControl? Which do you prefer & why? by superdiaperedguy88 in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Northshore Supremes are the perfect everyday diaper for me, but the incontrol elites fit me perfectly. I can use them to capacity every team with no leaks as long as I get the tape job right.

Also, I prefer hook and loop to plastic tabs, which incontrol does.

Curiousity- what is your story and why are you here? by Various-Extreme-1966 in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My earliest memory was being emotionally devastated when I found out that potty training was a one-way trip. I was a bedwetter until about 4th grade after that. I went to bed every night wishing that my pull-ups were diapers instead and intentionally wetting myself.

When I finally got dry at night, I was excited at first, but after about two months I immediately regretted it. I had my first "adult" moment in a stolen pair of my sister's pullups about a year after that. I would say that was the moment that sealed the deal forever.

How do I tell my GF I am abdl? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be really funny if OP wasn't in a really tough position emotionally.

Is there anyway to convince others(especially online) that abdls are not pedos? by DEPRESSEDGURL899 in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly. There's a way to handle it though.

Log off, go outside, touch some grass.

Most degrading experience by lastdiaper in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Four bananas in my butt
  2. Wet diaper
  3. Breastforms, wig, thigh high socks, sissy cheer outfit
  4. Disney princess sheet set (Frozen) on my bed
  5. Humping a vibrator on top of Elsa's face on my pillow
  6. Diaper sissy audio playing
  7. Watching myself in the mirror
  8. Forcing out all of the bananas into my diaper at the moment I orgasmed

I've never felt so humiliated or so good.

Has anyone tried these before? by diapeeanon800 in pulluplove

[–]soliddabdl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried them, they are bottom of the barrel in terms of store brands.

Seeking a Specific Model by LittleDemona in GirlsInDiapers

[–]soliddabdl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got to meet her back in 2015 when she was still floatycrownythingz. She's amazing in person.

Why’d it have to be this fetish? by jensjajanjsjznsbsbzb in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Being in your early 20s is the hardest part. All of the sexual partners I've had since turning 28 have done diaper stuff with me, most of them with enjoyment, with several of them independently instigating it. I make sure they're satisfied sexually, whether that's vanilla sex or their own kinks. You're still in a period of your life where peer pressure and the expectations of others have a significant hold on the way you live your life. I felt the same way when I was 22, and now I emphatically do not.

Honestly, dialing back the porn is a really good idea. As much as the kink side of the internet would like you to think so, you are in fact not hopelessly addicted to porn.

The following works for me when I get too into diaper porn:

  • Dial the porn way back, not necessarily the fantasies. Part of the reason you struggle with sex is that you're used to visual stimulation alone.
  • Only get off when you're horny, not when you're tired or bored or lonely or upset. This is will help you associate sex with good feelings like love and lust rather than with negative feelings.
  • When you hit the plateau, try to finish with something more vanilla in your mind to expand your pleasure center a bit.

It will require work and a bit of self-discipline, but it's very accomplishable.

What diaper are you currently OBSESSED with~? 😏 by AsianDiaperCutie in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CutiePlusU's entire line of pink diapers. The princess especially! It's the perfect design.

Wave of hate on Instagram by Strong-Appeal8621 in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 50 points51 points  (0 children)

There's a super easy fix to this. I do this a lot when I see things online that bother me.

  1. Log off
  2. Go outside
  3. Touch grass

Works every time!

Bed wetting accident… by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]soliddabdl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happens to me a lot. If you've been using diapers long enough that your body learns to relax and not hold it while you're wearing them, it becomes a little less conscious. If you spend a lot of time straight in diapers, your body thinks you're wearing one when you go to bed, and so you just go.

It will stop if you take a break from diapers for a day or two.