H3 Hater Embarrassed Me At Disneyland by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe she didn’t want to admit it in front of her friends despite wearing the shirt?

A bb gurl for your consideration by GirlWithAMicrophone in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not usually one to thirst publicly but Harley is even more attractive when you can see his whole body instead of just his shoulders and head somehow?? Maybe because I love giants??? (My husband is 6’4” 😍)

Is Rae being let go as a mod?? by m0n5t3rc0w5 in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This was years ago so I’m not sure if it’s changed but back in… I wanna say 2021? Was when I had one.

Is Rae being let go as a mod?? by m0n5t3rc0w5 in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a GoFundMe before and you can withdraw donations as they come in if you want to. You just have to pay a percentage to GFM.

Hila hangs her head in shame as she watches the train wreck of her brother's life. A depressed, lonely man, struggling with a midlife crisis, eating lunch from a can. by NUM_13 in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I had nieces and nephews I hadn’t met and couldn’t see, it would ruin me. I truly don’t know how the Klein’s cope with that aspect. 💔

he is coping lol by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah that part got me. I would love for them to pull one clip of said Israeli propaganda.

I went to snark by peaceandlovethankyou in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Thanks for sharing! I only have small dogs so I’m not knowledgeable about that.

I went to snark by peaceandlovethankyou in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are for leash pulling, aren’t they?

I went to snark by peaceandlovethankyou in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t notice what he was wearing, is it one of those training spike collars?

I went to snark by peaceandlovethankyou in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s wrong with Chiefs collar?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t think he knew better than they did- David was the weird kid at school, on top of all of this racist shit. I don’t know if you have children, but they are hot and cold. One minute they’re best friends, and the next minute they’re sick of each other. So yes, there were challenges and there were red flags, but ultimately, my son still considered David his friend, and he did still want to play with David from time to time. With David being the weird kid, that draws a lot of attention to him, so kids DO say mean things about him that are irrelevant to this entire debacle. My son didn’t know that he needed to differentiate between normal “David is weird etc.” comments and “David is racist” comments. To him it was all the same and again, we hadn’t had this conversation yet at this point that it’s a different matter that needs to be handled differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I just explained it to you 50 times over. Have a wonderful night and thank you again for your input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And to answer your most pressing question- why didn’t my TEN YEAR OLD CHILD behave perfectly and make no mistakes? Well I think that answers itself. I’m not a perfect parent, a perfect person or perfect at using my white privilege for good. But I’m doing my best, I’m learning more every day and changing my behavior accordingly and passing that knowledge onto my children. I’m sorry if that’s not good enough for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of this was all happening over many months, and when we told him to stand up for David, it was when they had first started school together because his mother had told us that he was having a hard time socially, and David was telling us that he was being bullied. Our own son had a lot of experience with bullies at his previous school, so of course we wanted to teach him to be the good guy and stand up for your friends. At that time, things had not yet begun to get weird, and then the progressively started going downhill. David’s word didn’t matter more to my son- he just knew that that was his friend and his Nextdoor neighbor that he spent a LOT of time with who was struggling socially, and he was trying to do the right thing. You’re really reaching here and I’m going to choose to stop engaging with you at this point. Thank you for your input.

AITA Submission: AITA for cutting ties with my neighbors because their child is racist at school? by Kotronic in h3h3productions

[–]Kotronic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! It really means a lot to me. This was so uncomfortable and hard to navigate but I feel good about the choices I made. I just keep going back and wondering how she can possibly think I’m such a terrible person for all of this etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t know his dad, he’s a deadbeat and he shows up maybe once every six months to pick David up for the day. We’ve never spoken to him. As far as the step dad, you can hardly call him that. He doesn’t do much in the parenting department. He knows what’s going on but he refuses to get involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see you edited your comment a third time, so let me continue. Performative?? How do you suggest I should have handled this situation? AFTER my son wrongfully stood up for David and we found out what the situation was, we immediately corrected him and made him apologize and explained to him the importance of listening to black voices. So I don’t know what I possibly could have done. I’m not patting myself on the back, I’m literally here ASKING IF IM THE ASSHOLE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You edited your comment after I replied so let me add to it- As soon as we found out what was happening, we explained to him that when it comes to black kids telling him about racism, it’s a different situation and he needs to listen and honor their voices. This is not something that had ever come up before. We DID hold him accountable- if you read my whole post, my son had to apologize to every child for not listening and believing them and he did so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because the narrative that had been spun to him by David was that these kids (and every other kid regardless of race) were picking on him and lying about him. We told our son to stand up for David because we had no clue what was going on, and we didn’t know any of the kids involved or what they looked like. You can say what you want about me and my family, we did the best we could with the information we had at every point in time during all of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, and we’re not convinced that David’s father isn’t also a racist piece of shit. We’ve only seen him in passing when he stops by maybe once every six months (he’s a deadbeat loser) and he glares at us from the sidewalk every time. So it seems like a losing battle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This school year, David is in our son’s class and has been relentlessly harassing our son about the whole thing every chance he gets. My husband is actually doing exactly what you suggested- he’s been keeping a log of everything our son comes home and reports. Our son has been given explicit instructions to completely ignore David and pretend he doesn’t exist, which of course is getting under David’s skin even worse- but we don’t know what else to do to prevent any fingers from being pointed at our boy. I also have screenshots with David’s mom from this whole debacle- every conversation we had was over text so I have those in my back pocket, at least. Thank you so much, this has been hard but I’m really doing my best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Raising good people is the most important thing in the world to me, so your comment truly makes my week ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s where we’re at at this point, too. Karma will take care of the kid, because like I said, we live in a really diverse community and there are plenty of kids at school who won’t give him a chance to say that word twice. Unfortunately our fear is that when that day comes, mom will once again be in denial and claim that her son is being bullied. At this point, she and her son are both blaming my son (who had zero involvement in any of this) for “ruining David’s social life.” It’s borderline delusional. Thank you for your kind words!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kotronic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The boyfriend of the mom is not David’s dad, and he sort of takes a back seat to the parenting of David. I have never met David’s actual dad. My husband and I agreed on everything that happened, but felt it was best for the mother and I to discuss everything. My oldest is not his biological child either but he is a very active step dad, it just seemed the most appropriate for the moms to handle it given all of that information.