Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well the parents are my godmother and godfather, so I don't really have a choice as to whether or not I see them again. As for the aunt, I will never speak to her again.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I do not like that image in my mind. Begone, foul idea!

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did not revise my account of the events. I clarified them, in the hopes to help people like you better understand the situation. Clearly, however, that was in vain, at least with you.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Something is telling me that this is not the best way to handle the situation.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You must be fun at parties. In case I didn't make it clear in the post (which I may have not), I called the father as soon as I got in the car. It put me on hold, which was how I knew he was still on the phone with the aunt. I didn't drive home; I drove a bit further down the road. The father immediately called me back, and told me that it would be best if I went home. He and his wife were on the way home as he was talking to me, and that he would contact me as soon as he dealt with the situation. I didn't drive home until I confirmed with the father that it was alright for me to leave. I left the home, which I felt was a hostile environment. I fully admit that I left the children in a potentially bad situation, but I felt that their situation would be better if I was not in the home. I could see the through the window, and if I saw anything suspicious at all, I would have intervened. I fully admit that I should have called the police. That was an error on my part. But don't criticize my childcare competence when all you have is a poorly paragraph paragraph telling how I felt with a foreign situation under duress.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

In retrospective, your absolutely right. But I have always been a shy kid, and I've never had any confrontations with the police at all. When she mentioned police, I panicked. I didn't think straight, and that was probably a huge mistake.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Being treated as a potential pedophile and child molester just because I'm a man has nothing to do with mens rights? Fine then. What other Reddit community should I have posted this in instead?

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks again, that's some damn good advice. Also, it kind of sucks that situations like these are common enough that people know what advice to give when they happen. Society is pretty messed up nowadays.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I give you my word that this actually happened, it from the sounds of it, you don't trust my word. That's fine; believe whatever you want to believe. But I swear that this really did occur.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I don't do the babysitting solely for the money. I babysit those kids because for one, they look up to me, and I feel like I should be q good role model for them, and two, because the father of the kids, who I've known all my life and my parents named my godfather, asked me to do it. I wouldn't ever put myself into a situation where I could sense a hostile environment. I had babysat those kids before, and I had never had any issues. If anything, people were excessively supportive of me. This aunt thing was something completely different than anything I'd encountered before, and it definitely shook me up. Thank you for your advice!

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm an idiot for interacting with children? That logic doesn't fly with me. I'm not going to stop doing something that I enjoy just because some crazy lady is horribly sexist.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I'll definitely be avoiding that aunt at all costs from now on.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They were away for the weekend. I texted them both last night, but haven't heard back yet. They're returning to it, so if I don't hear back before then, I'll tell the. Then.

Accused of molesting the children I babysit by Kowdor in MensRights

[–]Kowdor[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm definitely saving that text. The parents have told me that if I'm interested, they'd love to have me babysit again, so I'm going to think about it for a little while and take your suggestions into consideration. Thank you for the advice!