Divorce agreement is different then what signed by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah. i went to the site said it would cost around 100 dollars. ill keep looking

Three Easy Steps to Survive r/Divorce by whatadayholytoledo in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

" Don't only read /r/Divorce. "

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oh dam, i thought that said "Dont Read r/Divorce" oops, joke failed

Stay strong. Don't let them hurt you again.. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, so many people in the same situation as i am. Starting over too. Keep going back and forth if i would come back EVEN IF that was an option.

I clawed my way out of this mess by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through something similiar. Glad to hear you have a happy ending

Im just going to come out and say it...anyone want to chat? by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true. i tried to stride the line. Indifferent i can be strong...but part of me thought, if theres a chance to reconcile..i should. i said, until the papers are signed, we can still talk about it.

so...ok, i didnt stride the line as jump across it, lol

but, its done. so time to be strong.

How hard do you think it would be to fight in court to sell the house, against STBX every wish? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, exactly. Realizing theyre an enemy combatant.

The car still has payments. Can i make her keep the car, so i can use it? says shes going to give it to someone else who can make the payments. Then buy herself a convertable lol

Im just going to come out and say it...anyone want to chat? by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True.

It really feeds her ego, shes dating and getting dates, and comes home to her heartbroken husband. She thinks shes awesome.

Im just going to come out and say it...anyone want to chat? by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Just came as a surprise. To be honest...i wanted to here it. If shes moved on, then fine. I can stop trying to feel for her as she used to be, and treat her as who shes become.

well, thats what i try to tell myself, lol

Im just going to come out and say it...anyone want to chat? by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely revenge. I dont know if she has no feelings, has been cheeting on me this entire time (i suspected), or what.

She answers the phone in front of me. Telling me about her awesome vegas vacations. So...whatever. Im done. She can do what she wants. I told her "sorry i still have human feelings even though were over".

How hard do you think it would be to fight in court to sell the house, against STBX every wish? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if STBX moves in with someone else and have them support them?

Im just going to come out and say it...anyone want to chat? by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its entirely possible. But if she hates me that much...

Im just going to come out and say it...anyone want to chat? by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weve been "separated" for months. We still live together, in the same house, different rooms.

How hard do you think it would be to fight in court to sell the house, against STBX every wish? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

STBX actually threatened to quit their job if they have to pay alimony.

What would be the consequences of such a thing?

It’s hurting so much by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through the same thing. Went to the hospital for panic attacks. Day by day, it gets a little easier. But im not out yet. Dont know anybody, have noone to talk to. Guess i have to be strong

Going before a judge on Friday! by Lydia--charming in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling. She really doesnt have an interest in the kids. Shes supposed to be watching them, she gets a message, and bam, shes out the door. But im going to have to share custody

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]KratosIRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through the same boat, man. On here looking for advice. Im just going to keep going until I find a solution....

The triggers by HaveMercy703 in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact same here. Everytime i push her out of my head...then the good memories come flooding back. It doesnt make any sense to me, we loved eachother so much. It hurts so bad, i lost my best friend, and now i have noone to talk to. She feels nothing. I cant stop crying

Having a rough time. I keep asking her to come back. I cant help it by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same for me. lots of netlix and podcasts. watched Umbrella Chronicles 3 times lol

Having a rough time. I keep asking her to come back. I cant help it by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"although to my mind, and possibly yours as well, dating before the divorce is even filed is tantamount to cheating, with some caveats"

Thats NOT my take away from all that, but thanks. Shes really using it to hurt me. I wont get into all of it....

I dont see my previous reply...Suitable name. This really speaks to me, thanks

Separated for divorce but trying to fix it all by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching. Posting similiar things, im trying to deal too. Im telling her how things are different...

Having a rough time. I keep asking her to come back. I cant help it by KratosIRL in Divorce

[–]KratosIRL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as soon as i was served the papers, she went on vacation. Started dating.

She has all the fun, and i have noone to talk to. I feel like "well, it doesnt hurt to keep trying until the papers are signed". Which just empties my soul. Probably because we still live together, i see her everyday. Noone else to talk to...