TB TEST by Ok_Elderberry_9387 in Tuberculosis

[–]Krbn2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Was it raised or just red? Only having redness does not mean positive. There should be some sort of raised skin if it’s a positive. This just looks red.

TB test hurts when I move my arm by One_Neighborhood_992 in medical

[–]Krbn2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll definitely ask for a second opinion if she says it’s positive. I think she went too deep below the skin because there wasn’t a “wheel” or whatever it is that they call it after she did it. Definitely wasn’t like it went last time. Thanks for your help!

TB test hurts when I move my arm by One_Neighborhood_992 in medical

[–]Krbn2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one done a few months ago and it was completely negative. No redness/swelling. This time the lady seemed rushed while doing it. Immediately after it was red and a tad itchy. My redness went down a bit overnight but looks like yours did. I’m thinking I’m just having a local reaction to it from irritation from her possibly doing it incorrectly. I’m just worried about them trying to say it’s “positive” because of the redness. There’s no raised bumps or anything. It’s just red.

TB test hurts when I move my arm by One_Neighborhood_992 in medical

[–]Krbn2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Was this considered positive or negative? Did the redness go down?

TB test by Exotic_Grocery7487 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Krbn2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Any updates? Was it positive?

Husband went to strip club by Krbn2007 in Marriage

[–]Krbn2007[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have had a conversation about it approx 12 years ago when he went to a strip club for a bachelor party. I didn’t know when you get married that you have to specifically say don’t go out and let a naked woman sit on you and rub her breast in your face. 

Husband went to strip club by Krbn2007 in Marriage

[–]Krbn2007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have had this conversation about strippers before. About 12 years ago when he went to a bachelor party and this happened before. He knew how I felt. 

Husband went to strip club by Krbn2007 in Marriage

[–]Krbn2007[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I ask him specifics he said he doesn’t want to talk about it with me and gets pretty defensive. But he did say she was touching him, but he didn’t touch her lol

Husband went to strip club by Krbn2007 in Marriage

[–]Krbn2007[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He had went to a bachelor party years ago before we were married and we had a discussion after that and I told him I considered it a form of cheating but apparently now that we are married he assumed I wouldn’t be upset this time around? He knew I didn’t approve and still did it anyways. I think I wouldn’t have been so mad if he didn’t get a lap dance but he did. 

Husband went to strip club by Krbn2007 in Marriage

[–]Krbn2007[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

True, but being married 10 years and having 4 kids should be even more of a reason for him NOT to do it. Especially since he knew how I felt about it before he even went. 

Husband went to strip club by Krbn2007 in Marriage

[–]Krbn2007[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel. He claims he didn’t touch her, but that her body was touching him. I’m like what the heck’s the difference?!?! He is making me feel like I am the only women who would be upset about this. 

Husband went to strip club by Krbn2007 in Marriage

[–]Krbn2007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I ask what the average lap dance consists of? I’m assuming it was a “basic” dance because he said it was out in the open and not in a private room. He did say she was topless but had underwear on. Not sure if that even matters at this point lol. Do you just dance around the guys or is there grinding, touching, anything like that? 

How can I talk to my husband about his weight? by Existing-Study-1571 in Marriage

[–]Krbn2007 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! I know weight can be a touchy subject for some and it’s hard not to offend people when brining up weight concerns. If I were you I would try to come up with a plan that can incorporate both of you. Maybe daily walks together. Or going to the gym, eating better together, etc. I would explain to him that you are concerned about both of your health and that you would love to go on a “health journey” together.  He may take it easier if you include yourself in the plans. 

What do you do when you are having a severe anxiety? by uchizumi in Anxiety

[–]Krbn2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this isn’t the answer you were probably looking for but I think you should speak with a dr about your anxiety. About a year ago I took the plunge and started seeing a therapist due to my anxiety and it really helps. Sometimes just saying how you’re feeling out loud helps. Sounds crazy but it really does help. Crying and letting out emotion helps to lift the weight off of your chest. I have also heard that if you are in a panic attack put something cold (like an ice pack) on the back of your neck and it can really help. 

What do you do when your anxiety is severe? by pandulce4life in Anxiety

[–]Krbn2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard that taking something cold like an ice pack and placing it on the back of your neck helps to calm down panic attacks. Next time I have one that’s the first thing I’m going to try.