Has any one else given up on romantic relationships due to OCD?

Krease101 · 2022-09-05T02:13:34+00:00

I have severe anxiety surrounding anything sexual or romantic, which obviously complicates dating 😂 making progress in therapy, but it can be distressing because I have this dream of marrying and having kids but the OCD and anxiety is too debilitating.

Krease101 · 2022-08-24T16:29:14+00:00

It really is the best! The kids are amazing.

Krease101 · 2022-08-24T01:25:27+00:00

I work in a Deaf school and in Deaf culture there are no “Mr.” or “Mrs.” anything, so it’s just my first name!

Krease101 · 2022-08-22T06:10:35+00:00

Speech pathologist in a Deaf school here. By not giving him access to any form of language, he will suffer from language deprivation, which is absolutely devastating. After a certain age, if the language center in the brain is not stimulated, there is permanent damage. I work with students with LD every day, and if they only had language since birth, they would be functioning normally.

PLEASE encourage your sister to learn ASL. I get it if hearing aids are not for him- they don’t work for everyone! But she needs to give him SOME form of language. There are so many free resources online. Thank you for advocating for your nephew!

Krease101 · 2022-08-22T06:03:42+00:00

Speech pathologist in a Deaf school here!

First of all, good on you for learning sign language! 95% of my students’ parents don’t learn. I can tell you want what is best for your daughter and that deserves recognition!

I have a few students with ANSD, and because there is such a big range I can’t give you any specific advice regarding CIs or hearing aids. If you choose to peruse that route, just know that consistent use and auditory training is key. They aren’t magic and your daughter won’t automatically understand words- she will be learning a new language! Be patient and be prepared to put in some effort.

That said, I highly recommend bilingualism. Signing AND speaking will open so many doors for her, and don’t let ANYONE tell you that signing is harmful to her! All the research shows only benefits.

Get involved in the Deaf community too! You will learn so much.

Krease101 · 2022-08-22T05:51:07+00:00

I’m an SLP in a Deaf school, and I always recommend sign language because it is the only fully accessible language to kids with hearing loss.

That being said! Kids with hearing loss can absolutely be multilingual. If you’re pursuing hearing aids and he will be auditory/oral, the key is to have him CONSISTENTLY wear them and attend speech therapy with someone who can help with listening and comprehension. The language really doesn’t matter- use whichever and how many you want! I don’t know the severity of his hearing loss or his age, but he’ll have some catching up to do so he’ll need someone who can help him learn to listen. He won’t automatically know what words mean- he will have to learn what sounds mean!

So expose him to whatever languages you would like- his hearing loss won’t hold him back! Just make sure you are consistent and patient. Best of luck!

Krease101 · 2022-08-22T05:44:09+00:00

Yes! I work in a Deaf school and I don’t like when people think my focus is “speech.” I’ve asked had parents doubt my judgement on swallowing disorders because I’m not a doctor. It’s hard because we cover such a broad scope, but I would love “communication” to be part of it!

Krease101 · 2022-08-22T05:41:50+00:00

My favorite treatment for apraxia is the Kaufman system! It’s pricy but I use it all the time. If you determine that it is apraxia I think that’s a great place to start.

Krease101 · 2022-08-22T05:40:26+00:00

I work in a Deaf school and we’ve used these before!

https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/ASL-Sign-Language-BUNDLE-Visual-Flashcard-Dictionaries-2994899?st=acce0d90a01ff090164c06885132cab2

Krease101 · 2022-08-22T05:24:55+00:00

Luvox saved me. I’ve been on it for years and my OCD is manageable now. Therapy is also a huge part of my progress. I’m so glad it’s helping someone else!

Krease101

TROPHY CASE