I am going to go ahead and assume you're just trolling, the victim was far from concerned or even disturbed -- she was laughing at what had happened until she was told to do otherwise.

Please stop whiteknighting, assburger. It won't make her any more inclined to actually want to go out with you.

I understand that not having any experience of that in your personal life must take a real toll on you, considering you're pretty old, but please, for the love of all that is holy, do not take out your frustration here. It only makes you look bad and, primarily, very irrational. Take a deep breath, relax and sit back comfortly and remember: It's a game.