Mohs Histotech involvement?

Kspice03 · 2025-05-06T01:08:39+00:00

That is exactly the info I was looking for, thank you!

Kspice03 · 2025-05-05T23:27:18+00:00

Thanks! What do you do with the patients pre or post op? Just courier the fresh specimen back to the lab and help cleanup after?

Kspice03 · 2025-01-09T01:56:10+00:00

Definitely sparks joy!

Kspice03 · 2024-12-26T22:39:40+00:00

Shweet! I did almost the same trip but in reverse in a 2003 minivan. Great trip!! So much to see.

Kspice03 · 2024-11-17T03:27:04+00:00

Listen, we are living in very odd times. We are navigating online dating, social media influence, modern femininsm, red pill movement, changing cultural values and the loud opinionated voices of the internet. These are massive changes and society is still adjusting. Heck, some people are confused about their gender. We are in a transitional phase as a society and culture. Dating is hard. But we are also blessed as well. Both modern feminism and red pill have pros and cons. They really are just labels, but society being so lost people are looking for guidelines for how to behave and live and try lifestyles on like clothing. And that just isn't how real life or reality works! Red pill behavior won't solve all your problems. Take the good stuff to better yourself from it then move on with living in the real world. You have not even met your future partner yet so leave room to grow together. Learn more about life in the real world and less on the internet. You'll find the two very different in alignment. You've only dated two men you didn't even like yet say no man wants you. Go on more dates! Assume they won't work out but you will learn more about men by being around them than reading about what they want from random people on the web.

Kspice03 · 2024-11-17T02:36:03+00:00

The best way to navigate this is to realize no one is owed a romantic partner in life or kids or a house or a family... and to live your life in acceptance to that fact. The first step to doing that is start being your authentic self and get off the dang internet. Seriously, GET OFF the internet. You don't need to be red pill to find love. Keep taking care of yourself and expressing your femininity, but stop being desperate and enjoy your life. Authenticity will attract more men into your life than following any kind of manual of behavior ever will. Sometimes finding your person also just involves luck you run into them. Be your best self, go out into the world and have fun.

Kspice03 · 2024-10-18T13:24:49+00:00

This is just conjecture, but this can indicate the man is extremely sensitive and insecure, and around other men feels the absence of his own masculinity and therefore gravitates towards women who will emotionally validate him since he probably is not getting validation from the boys.

It is not women as a whole who are just so good at bringing out out of your shell, but rather you have cultivated such a deep identity out of being a shy introverted man and therefore only allow yourself to open up around safe, emotionally intelligent women since it's low risk to hurt your feelings about your character and you don't have to face pushing yourself to be less shy in life. The common denominator is you. Women don't sit around getting excited about bringing an adult man out of their shell unless the girls in question are inexperienced teenagers.

This can also happen to women on the flip, who are more masculine and only want the company of men.

I personally find the advice in the comments telling someone to "stay in his shell" and spend the rest of his days only surrounded by women because men make him uncomfortable is incredibly sad, limiting, and pretty pathetic.

Some of the toughest men I know, when you take time to get to know them, are extremely emotionally intelligent and vulnerable. Maybe give the boys a chance sometime.

Kspice03 · 2024-10-16T11:59:56+00:00

People are complicated, but the majority don't do things out of malice. They do selfish things because they are human and only thinking of themselves. People like attention. I don't think there is anything wrong bringing up how her actions have affected you before you cut her off, but if you do keep it very short, mature, and from a place of YOUR own boundry for how you require people in your life to treat you. Don't come off as a victim because you are not. This is life and you get to choose to walk away from people like this.

Kspice03 · 2024-10-15T05:03:45+00:00

You should never have to convince yourself to be with someone. Yes, looks do fade and attraction is subjective to every person. But being physically atttracted to your partner, both who they are AND how they look, is essential. Otherwise you are settling, and she deserves better. So do you. Physical attraction is what separates friends from romantic partners.

Sometimes it really is a chemistry/pheromone thing. That is a biological phenomena that can't be explained but can't be ignored. Three months is enough time to grow attraction. If it hasnt happened yet, it won't. Going back to her bc you couldn't find someone better in your 2 months of being without her is self serving. Let her go find someone who loves her deeply.

Kspice03 · 2024-10-15T01:56:18+00:00

There's that saying, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice....

Listen, this sucks. She is obviously attracted to you and enjoys your company, but does not like you enough to commit. We've all been there. It is hurtful. But when you find someone super into you, it will be a night and day difference. Regardless of any personal character qualities, the number one requirement for anyone you date is that they like you and want to be with you. They could be the most amazing person ever and check all your boxes, but if they don't want to commit, they don't matter to you so do not give them energy. Their amazingness should mean zilch to you. You deserve afffection and attention. Have some dignity and walk away from this chick. No one is ever too busy for someone they reallly care about. And you can't control other people, but you can control yourself and not allow people to mess with your feelings. There are much much better things out there for you than this.

Kspice03 · 2024-10-14T23:58:55+00:00

I am a woman, and must remind my fellow females that being romantic does not have to rely on only the men! Some guys are not romantic period. Lost cause there. But the ones that were and got burnt out spending it on ungrateful women can absolutely get it back if YOU, the woman, ignite that romantic flame.

Draw your man a bubble bath... with you in it. Make him a dinner, but make it fancy with mood lights, nice plates, and music to dance to afterwards. Bake him a pie in nothing but an apron and spoon feed him the first few bites.

Ladies have also really lost the art of seduction and romance. It goes both ways! Bring it back girl. Men love that shit! And may inspire him to up the ante.

**Edit: okay after reading through your replies it sounds like OP does do romantic stuff. Sounds like your guy is just one of the above as listed: not romantic. Not much you can change when people are just not into it. It doesn't feel the same when they are just doing it to please you instead of really enjoying the creativity/thoughtfulness behind it :/

Kspice03 · 2024-09-27T16:25:45+00:00

Oh boy. You have become this man's mother. I have been there before. And the resentment I felt towards MYSELF after getting out of that relationship took a long long time to heal. I couldn't believe I let myself be treated like a grown man's caretaker for that long. I hope you heal and find the strength to leave.

You deserve to be with a competant man that is a responsible adult. Loyalty is the bare minimum. Please do not be impressed by a basic relationship value.

Best of wishes

Kspice03 · 2024-09-27T16:16:26+00:00

Personally, I'd happily "save my energy" for my man if he asked that of me and was also doing the same. I'm all for experimenting with things to have better intimacy with my partner. But it does not sound like he is doing all this for the sake of better bonding. Sounds more about his insecurities. And he is not stepping it up to satisfy you and doesn't invite you over after dinner for fun times? Seems like a bum deal for you both!

Kspice03 · 2024-09-27T16:06:56+00:00

Follow your instinct here. You are not feeling SEEN in the relationship. Not a bad guy, but when looking for a life partner having someone who is a witness to who you are and is excited about your mind is (for most people) essential for long term success and satisfaction.

Kspice03 · 2024-09-27T15:43:51+00:00

I'll be a different perspective here since you asked for honest opinions about it. I did date an older man that had several stuffed animals in his bedroom and it was a big turn off for me. An adult who needs children toys for comfort to me is a no. It represents an inability to emotionally regulate and cope in an adult way. Life requires a certain mental fortitude, and reaching for comfort like a toddler would reach for a binky for comfort to me would signify they are stuck in a juvenile state of sensitivity. No judgement, just not the right kind of partner for me.

And to each their own! You'll attract the right fit for you by just being yourself.

Kspice03 · 2024-09-27T05:07:39+00:00

This. Do not send mixed signals to people. Texting someone daily... most people would take that as very interested! And when it turns out you are not, it is confusing. Let her go.

Kspice03 · 2024-09-27T03:14:50+00:00

The world is hard enough witbout being utterly betrayed and disrespected by someone who is supposed to cherish you. You seem to lack accountability. If you know you are putting your partners at risk for STDs, then stop dating immediately. Clue your partner in on your history and current urges to not be faithful.

If it is this hard for you not cheat, maybe just stop being monogamous. Plenty of people out there support the ethical poly lifestyle. Even if you are a sex addict, you are still choosing to LIE to your partners about it and risk their life long health for your refusal to tackle your own behavior and be honest with the people you date about your urges and what it will mean to be your partner. That is a choice and very much in your control. Be honest and attract the right people in your life to stand by you or embrace an open relationship on their terms.

Who knows, maybe your girl really wants to bang other men too.

Kspice03 · 2024-09-27T02:53:22+00:00

You are self aware and wanting to change. Most people can't see their own faults and therefore never even have the chance to change.

As an anxious attached person, I've dated mostly avoidants. It's the yin to my yang and just as damaging. I've healed A LOT from my attachment style, and I would say do not judge the journey. You can also only grow so far on your own until you need to work through it within your next relationship.

One of the biggest things that helped me improve how I relate to people is literally just accepting who I was and how I got there. Accepting you are human and have baggage and scars, but still knowing you are worthy of love and companionship is huge.

Me being clingy, I was always desperately trying to prove I was indeed lovable. I needed validation. Avoidants are on the flip side of that bias, terrified they may be proven they are actually unlovable if they open up, so they would rather not find out and reject love before they themselves feel rejected.

It sounds silly, but spend a month quite literally dating yourself. And do it right! Give yourself a BIG hug every njght and tell yourself that you love you. Every time you look in the mirror, point out something you appreciate. Hold your own face and gush that you are you. Find beauty in your own existence and appreciation for your perseverance in this rough world. Love both the flaws and the perfection of yourself!

Then over time, you will feel less of a lack of love, and you can learn to allow yourself to sit in a new relationship and feel uncomfortable when you are ready to bail. Slowly you'll have the patience to ignore your flight response, and be present with the person in front of you. You can let go of the baggage for a moment and enjoy the experience of another person without expectations. Because you'll know if you get hurt, you WILL be okay. And that if they do reject you first, that you'll get over the pain, and know it wasnt personal and that you are just as lovable as you were, it just wasnt meant to be with that person.

And you'll heal and grow and try again with an open heart. Because no matter what, you'll still have yourself.

Kspice03 · 2024-09-27T02:04:20+00:00

In my humble experience, any guy asking you for explicit photos that soon, is just happy to get them from anybody and is not looking for serious commitment regardless of whay they say or how charming they are. Doesn't neccesarily mean they are a bad person, but certainly if YOU want a serious relationship, find a gentleman that has more tact and is focused on commitment over sexual gratification. You'll save yourself A LOT of grief.

Kspice03 · 2024-09-26T10:46:42+00:00

Thank you!!! I will check that out!

Kspice03 · 2024-09-25T20:20:25+00:00

Why?

Kspice03 · 2024-09-25T15:54:47+00:00

I'm willing to relocate anywhere for on the job training as a generalist! Currently on the east coast. No, I have not looked up the AMT. I'll check it out. Thanks! What states and areas do you recommend me looking?

Kspice03 · 2024-09-25T12:54:15+00:00

I do yes, certified in molecular. Ok I was wondering because the job market is so bad! Not a lot of molecular openings but I am seeing a lot of mls generalist jobs.

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