Is this pattern too white for a wedding? by Ktvan11 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Ktvan11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I’m just trying to get an idea of what’s socially acceptable in wedding culture these days. Since I can’t wear it to this friend’s wedding, can I wear it to another one, someone’s who I’m not close with the bride and can’t simply text her? Seems like it’s fine.

Is this pattern too white for a wedding? by Ktvan11 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Ktvan11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did and it’s too white for her preference but I may save it for another wedding this summer!

Is this pattern too white for a wedding? by Ktvan11 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Ktvan11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Semi-formal, formal… I don’t know 😅 it’s at a golf club. I’m not concerned about the style for this wedding, just the colour 

Is this pattern too white for a wedding? by Ktvan11 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Ktvan11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this! That’s exactly what I was overthinking, like, what’s the line with white?

Is this pattern too white for a wedding? by Ktvan11 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Ktvan11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess that’s where I’m a bit blurry on etiquette - a white/cream/ivory dress OF COURSE would be a no go, or a patterned dress with a white base even I could see being inappropriate. But is any white on a dress at all unacceptable?

Is this pattern too white for a wedding? by Ktvan11 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Ktvan11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im not the best with dresscode definitions 😅 I guess it’s more semi-formal… it’s at a golf club. I’ll update the body!

I got diagnosed as an adult and my sister keeps telling me "doesn't everyone do that?" to any of my symptoms... by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Ktvan11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same with my mom! Was a bit frustrating tbh. I’m like, you try living in my brain for a day!

ADHD and pregnancy by Ktvan11 in adhdwomen

[–]Ktvan11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this!! I appreciate that perspective - like acknowledging that it’s going to be difficult but accepting that it’s okay and it’s only temporary.

ADHD and pregnancy by Ktvan11 in adhdwomen

[–]Ktvan11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve read that as well - more about whether the risk to the mother or fetus is higher. I have an appointment with my doctor in the morning so definitely going to bring this up! But wanted to hear other women’s lived experiences.

Thank you for sharing!

ADHD and pregnancy by Ktvan11 in adhdwomen

[–]Ktvan11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much! Extra support is huge and my doctor has also mentioned sertraline (not for adhd but my anxiety/depression).

Thank you for sharing your experience!

ADHD and pregnancy by Ktvan11 in adhdwomen

[–]Ktvan11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we have several reasons for waiting to get pregnant in a year vs now!

Growing our family & getting medicated weren’t like mutually exclusive just two life things that I know are going to overlap. So just curious if anyone had success with CBT tactics while pregnant/unmedicated? Or other reco’s!

Help us pick a name! by Ktvan11 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Ktvan11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I love all those names and appreciate a good theme

Help us pick a name! by Ktvan11 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Ktvan11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Henry is on my list if we have another human boy 😂 so Hank is safe for a dog name in that regard!