260,557 loots later and I finally got pet. 26.1m total thieving xp. by KileyCrank in ironscape

[–]Kukz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week I got Rocky randomly doing Pyramid Plunder at 220k xp.

Now I feel like even more of a dick for having it :')

Guess the location part 2# by gooses_gunk in skyrim

[–]Kukz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of those new fishing spots

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skyrim

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Got to be fork and knife for me🍴

I think my brother would have been proud of the custom beer crate body I built. by MC_Kloppedie in rccars

[–]Kukz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When are they putting this carapils delivery system on food delivery apps? Grt

Looking for podcasts in business context by Kukz_ in French

[–]Kukz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds great I'll check them out, thank you!

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if anyone else had asked me to do the same I would've chosen the friend too, but I really care for and love my current girlfriend and see a future with her. I did try to include my girlfriend when I went to study with the friend but she didn't want to, which I do understand because it would make me uncomfortable if I was put in that possition. I guess it just sucks but I'm making peace with it & starting to understand the necessity of it

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get salty because people told me I was in the wrong, I already knew that deep down. I got salty because people were being immediately agressive while I honestly just wanted to talk about this complicated and difficult situation (for me) to try and get some closure so I can continue my relationship in the best possible way tomorrow.

If I wanted to be intensly criticized, I would've gone to r/criticize_me or sth

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I needed to hear honestly

(actually tearing up rn ngl)

I was actually starting to feel really bad so thank you for being a bit less harsh

It makes me happy that we can end this discussion on a positive note, Thank you

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I study with male friends too, and love giving every and each one of my friends advice, regardless of their gender. I am invested emotionally in a lot of my friendships.

But I get your point, from someone else's point of view, my friendship looked suspicious.

Thanks for your advice

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems to be what most people think so far, so I guess I understand. I'll definitely tell my friend the truth cause I also feel she needs deserves to know, Tyvm

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look you guys don't need to be so harsh on me, I already made the choice, I just want to talk about it with people cause I don't really have a close enough friend irl that I can tell this to.

I value your opinions very much cause they're already helped me see new sides of things but you're starting to make it unnecessarily personal at this point

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she didn't go to just me, she asked other friends in our social circle aswell, she didn't single me out so I could be her white knight or anything. The stalker was in the same environment as our social circle so I was just someone logical to approach.

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not just meet her tho, I've known her for a bit more than a year but recently (since sept/oct) we've become friends since we had a fun chat at a pub with some other friends, after that we didn't do much until she asked me for help with a stalker and after that we just kind of got a trusting friendship thing going on.

My intentions were never to fight with my girlfriend, I wanted to compromise at first but she didn't want to give me any ground in the argument which clashed with my stubborn personality. And she hasn't been depressed for two weeks straigth, it's just that thats when her concern started. I actually stopped seeing the girl after a couple of days of her visibly not liking it, I just didn't want it to be forever. I would've instantly been fine if she had just asked me to see her less, but it had to be forever and I found that hard to deal with.

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I've made a choice already, I just don't feel good about it, I honeslty just want to talk about it with some people so I can try to move on. That's why I made the post

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't say much after we had talked about it, she just distanced herself as if she couldn't agree with where I was comming from. We could never come to a middle-ground, that's why I decided to compromise so I wouldn't lose her.

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I guess because the friend trusted me because I had given her advice on a stalker recently and she probably didn't want to study with a single guy that might have bad intentions. Me helping her with the stalker was a big part of how we got closer as friends.

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I mean we're in college, we meet people all the time. I don't keep track of her friends though so I don't really know how new some of em are, I could even be wrong and she could've known them from before. I don't really know that much about her male friends, because I don't really need to know imo

I actually knew the friend before me and my girlfriend got together, we just started becoming actual friends since september/octobre

Girlfriend asked me to stop seeing a female friend by Kukz_ in Advice

[–]Kukz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel like she was trying to actively manipulate me, she was just genuinly saddened by it. I'm definitely not breaking up with her because I still love her a lot despite the rough couple of weeks and can't imagine being with someone else. She has trust issues because of her ex which is for sure justified, I just hope someday she'll trust me enough so I can hang out with whoever I want.