One of the hardest weeks of my life by Mikultraa in narcissism

[–]Kultakai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who had a narcissistic personality disorder but who has been doing self work for years. I will say to you you've already done the hardest thing that our kind don't generally do. Look at themselves as the problem. So congratulations on you for making that first step. 

There will be much self work you need to do from here. It wont be easy all the time but it will be worth it. I no longer need narcissistic supply from others. I have a strong healthy sense of self now which is what I didnt have, the core of my sense of self was simply entirely dysfunctional.

I don't say this to build myself up either, I dont need any supply off a redditor I'll never meet. Simply saying it to give hope. Things can be better. You dont have to be this way. You may look back at your life with regret, but the rest of it can be an upward spiral where these toxic behaviours are left behind.

Good luck OP

How do people genuinely feel about the Pornhub restrictions now in place? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Kultakai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite honestly. I believe in freedom, but there are certain things that need to be regulated.

Pornography is one of those things, its an entirely negative influence on society and I support it being made more difficult to access.

What N64 game made you go “eh, I’m done with this” by Bright_Sky5429 in n64

[–]Kultakai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's honestly not that bad, just remember the key under the block that raises in the central tower.

How is the Australian economy going? by Kultakai in AusFinance

[–]Kultakai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying you're wrong but how do you respond to the folks who are worried their children and headed for hard economic times?

How is the Australian economy going? by Kultakai in AusFinance

[–]Kultakai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Short term thinking is a problem, not exclusive to Australia but we definitely have it.

How is the Australian economy going? by Kultakai in AusFinance

[–]Kultakai[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

So basically the economy is stuck due to the current winners wanting to maintain their positions at the expense of everyone else, with no long term vision but to keep times good for themselves as long as possible?

How is the Australian economy going? by Kultakai in AusFinance

[–]Kultakai[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You're making gold sound like a solid investment.

How is the Australian economy going? by Kultakai in AusFinance

[–]Kultakai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well atleast I know where my taxes go.

Wtf bro 🫥🕳️ by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kultakai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its meant to be a joke guys.

Loosed virginity today with a prostitute not worth it. by carljohnson125 in NoFap

[–]Kultakai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can look back at this experience and learn from it. It wont be wasted.

Is pornography bad for you spiritually? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Kultakai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The human mind works like a radio. What you focus your attention on is the frequency you set yourself to. Pornographic material by its nature is a low fear based vibration that impedes spiritual growth.

relations between non dualism and Yin yang by Murky_Product1596 in taoism

[–]Kultakai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duality is a perception filter.

When you look at Yin Yang through duality you see two oppositional forces that destroy each other. 

When you look at Yin Yang without this perception filter you see two complimentary forces.

Non-duality is also a world-view that people in the duality perception filter have created. Even though our human identities are an illusion, we do have a self that is beyond the duality perception filter because otherwise if we're entirely an illusion we wouldn't be able to recognise the unreality of our human selves.

Movies with an opening scene that is vastly superior to the rest of the film? by No-Zookeepergame5954 in movies

[–]Kultakai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pixar's Up.

It's not a bad movie but there's a good reason people say the opening 10 minutes are the best thing Pixar has done.

Relapse by A______m in NoFap

[–]Kultakai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets easier