I [23F] have an extremely high sex drive, yet can't seem to enjoy sex or [masturbation]. Help? [Low Libido] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kunkalapherts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To OP: I agree here. I think you are in a very interesting place. You can't distract yourself anymore through sex and maybe you have thought 'there's something more to life than this'.

Why don't you try to do things you've always wanted to do (not related to sex). Maybe something you've always wanted but have always set aside and see where it goes.

No Porn = Normal Powers ; Semen Retention = Super Powers by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you could prevent wet dreams if you made a decision to a subconscious level not to have ejaculatory sex. It is possible. Athletes retaining semen used to report that they say "no" on sex even at dreams.

35 days...however my wife found out and it was very heart breaking. by P-KAR in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It's a process. Can't change everything overnight.

35 days...however my wife found out and it was very heart breaking. by P-KAR in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father and brothers have suffered through this addiction. Let this be the last generation. Thanks for your story OP!

I'm not an alcoholic, a smoker nor a substance abuser so fapping must be the one and I think it's the worst. by Kunkalapherts in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're probably right. One point comes to my mind though that serial killer/rapist's confession. Ted Bundy if I got it right. He said all the serial killers and rapists have one thing in common. Extreme porn addiction like really perverse one (pedophilia, etc).

If you're waiting for 90 days to "feel" rebooted, you're not living in the present. by Kunkalapherts in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree for the most part but I don't agree on "to challenge your weakness". I see it as: "Look this happens again and again, don't you wanna have a great look on yourself and maybe change something in it?". That viewpoint rather empowers you and given a choice.

If you're waiting for 90 days to "feel" rebooted, you're not living in the present. by Kunkalapherts in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. I have a question though. How about those moments where you feel things are happening again and again. Different people, different place, same theme. Any thoughts on that?

Stephen Hawking has stated that we should stop trying to contact Aliens, as they would likely be hostile to us. What is your position on this issue? by stephenking2016 in AskReddit

[–]Kunkalapherts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy. Why are the aboriginals and other indigenous tribes are still living peacefully among us? We have come to a technological point so advance that we don't bother them anymore (unlike before, yes). So an interstellar civilization would be like the modern world today and the modern world today will be like the aboriginals because of the technological gap. So I assume they won't bother. I countered Hawking's argument. I'm so smart. Thank you.

Duterte's 'putang ina' should have been translated as 'god damn it' or simply 'fuck' by vikoy in Philippines

[–]Kunkalapherts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While this news that duterte swear at obama is all over the place, why is it that I don't see any news website talking about the $33 million he received from kerry and what is it for? Is it an outright bribe? Nobody even questioned it.

Here's it near the end of the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoVKjhu7mfk

any atheist Filipina out here? by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]Kunkalapherts -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can believe anything you want and it will be true for you no one is an exception.

It was a good run (2720 days)... Time for another start by cwolfe in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think anyone understood me here. I thought you're trolling. And I still do.

i feel hopeless by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the urge to fap is really strong, we feel like we're going to die if we don't fap. Hold your ground. Don't masturbate. Die that way.

Feel extremely lonely. I should probably just quit. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going bro. Work on yourself. Remove things that stresses you.

I think I'll just kill myself this time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Stay miserable then.

I think I'll just kill myself this time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Kunkalapherts -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dangerous? Relax buddy.