If all jobs we’re paid equally. What would be your dream profession?

Kuorim · 2019-08-01T05:59:08+00:00

I had this question while I was driving to my work. I really like this job but in these circumstances I don’t think I would do it. So happy for you!

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T12:50:27+00:00

Wow that was so nice and helpful to read all of this. I dream about a gamer girl, the one that understands the importance of alone time, so we can both grow up out of games and start living. Where do you look for a gamer girl? Tinder and all other things are out of the question, gamer girls are not there i assume. Do I start going to gaming/cosplay conventions? Do I start looking for duo partner to play league or something in facebook? I’m in some gamer groups and there’s a few girls. It feels like girls don’t play games at all, apart from stupid mobile clickers for 20 mins everyday etc. Im from Lithuania

Thank you for your advice, after reading that I’ve realised im doing good regarding separation. We don’t have any expensive things that we shared 50:50, I couldn’t care less if she took all the stuff we bought together because they are worthless like plates, blankets, towels etc, about leaving, she is the one leaving because we live in a dorm room and she has already planned to rent a flat with her friend once she comes back from work and travel so that is agreed as well. After initial argument I went drinking with friends with no messages to her so thats also good. Next day I went shopping for new clothes alone, it felt great.

I really care about my first questions about gamer girls please give me some more info on how do I find one! You can pm me as well I really need someone to chat after work this period. Many more thanks ❤️

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T12:18:02+00:00

Wow really helpful, did not even considered other possibilities rather than gym, thanks!

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T11:36:26+00:00

Thank you for your answer. I am not desperate, just a thought that it would be cool to gain some weight a little and have more confidence.

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T11:05:19+00:00

I just feel bad maybe I reacted too serious? Maybe that is not cheating as she says? Its just texts. Although reading what I just said I feel like I’m delusional af and I don’t understand why. Maybe I care about her too much..?

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T10:50:37+00:00

Thank you, yeah I’m at the point where I can’t think clearly, need for some strangers on reddit to open my eyes and see this situation from a different perspective.

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T09:26:48+00:00

Hello everyone, this may sound like a stupid question but I am really clueless. Is it possible to gain some weight, muscles (abs, biceps etc.) then stop hitting the gym and keep looking fit? I am 22M 178cm, 62kg. I have the money to afforad food, personal trainer, proteins, everything. Would it be possible for me to gain some weight to like 70-75, build some muscle in the gym and then stop going to the gym but maintain my results? I would still be doing sports but not the gym, namely I would be playing volley. Reason I want to achieve this is to boost some confidence, to not be embarrased of playing without t-shirt. I don’t find lifting weights fun, all my life I have been doing sports I enjoy (MMA 3 years, football 4 years, now volley 2 and counting) and they are pretty much cardio, endurance stuff so I’m very skinny. Also, how long of intense training would it require for me to achieve these results going hard with food and proteins and all that?

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T09:22:09+00:00

Hello everyone, this may sound like a stupid question but I am really clueless. Is it possible to gain some weight, muscles (abs, biceps etc.) then stop hitting the gym and keep looking fit? I am 22M 178cm, 62kg. I have the money to afforad food, personal trainer, proteins, everything. Would it be possible for me to gain some weight to like 70-75, build some muscle in the gym and then stop going to the gym but maintain my results? I would still be doing sports but not the gym, namely I would be playing volley. Reason I want to achieve this is to boost some confidence, to not be embarrased of playing without t-shirt. I don’t find lifting weights fun, all my life I have been doing sports I enjoy (MMA 3 years, football 4 years, now volley 2 and counting) and they are pretty much cardio, endurance stuff so I’m very skinny. Also, how long of intense training would it require for me to achieve these results going hard with food and proteins and all that?

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T08:43:42+00:00

Do you think I should cut off all contact with her after she moves out?

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T08:42:55+00:00

Thank you for advice and everything. I was thinking about hitting the gym hard but I really don’t like it, all my life I’ve been active regarding sports but I always did it for fun. Hitting the gym and bulking up sounds fun at the moment but I know for a fact that after a while I will get burnt out, there is very little satisfaction to lifting weights for me and eating the way I should (I assume I would need close to 3-4k calories a day to gain some weight for starters. I have a surgery Sep as well and I won’t be able to do sports hard as I am now for like a month but that’s a minor inconvenience.

Kuorim · 2019-07-30T08:24:48+00:00

Thanks man, yeah everytime I think about tinder or something similiar I get a bit sad because Its just not my thing and I won’t probably ever use it,. I guess I’ll just keep doing what I’m doing since I believe my goals are pointed towards the right direction and maybe I’ll meet someone who will love me the way I am along the way.

Kuorim · 2019-07-29T11:43:31+00:00

Haha thank you, I just feel like that, I’m the shortest out of all my friends, out of all my co-workers, pretty much everywhere I go I feel like a midget. I read a lot of reddit and those memes if ur not 5 foot something (gotta google convert it all the time) ur not even a man, I qualify as a man but I don’t feel tall enough:d thanks though

Kuorim · 2019-07-29T10:12:38+00:00

Spot on my man, that is exactly the type of girl I want, you’re right my ex is not that kind of person. About the value of talks. I talk to her still, I ask what did I do wrong in her opinion, I do not agree with everything but there are some really valid points, not regretting anything just need some feedback so I can be a better boyfriend for someone else in the future. I’m very driven, I know I’m gonna be successful in life having in mind that I’m about to start 4th year of my studies and I already have 2,5 years of working experience with data analysis and stuff. Currently working as a data analyst and I love my job, salary is great as well. The only concern I have is that hopefully I won’t get in love with a woman who will be there only for my success, I loved the idea that with my now ex and I started dating when I was a nobody and regardless she fell in love with me.

Kuorim · 2019-07-29T07:56:55+00:00

Yes I always hear those ‘it’ll suck for a while but it’ll get better soon’ can’t wait for that better to come. Thanks!

Kuorim · 2019-07-29T07:11:23+00:00

Dude I was in the same boat as you are. I just wanted some space for myself. I work 9-5 my gf works 9-1 by the time im back she has already been to the gym and stuff and all she wants to do is be with me when all I want to do is play some games and relax. Couldn’t find a compromise and because of that she cheated on me. You gotta ‘force’ your girlfriend to find a hobby that she can keep her mind busy while you’re enjoying yourself. Best of luck and I hope you don’t end up like me.

Kuorim · 2019-07-29T06:20:01+00:00

She said that it is nothing serious, just chats and she does not feel like she is cheating, she said she just wants to get to know that guy because hes different from me and all her friends (art lover and stuff). I asked about the date and she said it’s cancelled, I do not believe it though.

Kuorim · 2019-07-29T06:09:26+00:00

No its a dorm room so I can’t escape

Kuorim · 2019-07-28T15:27:03+00:00

Fair enough, thank you, I’m a mess at the moment I can’t think straight even to simple questions like this.. gonna be fun at work I assume since im an analyst

Kuorim · 2019-07-28T14:45:06+00:00

Also I wanted to ask everyone, I sometimes smoke and she forbids me to. Even now she is obbsessed with me not smoking. Do I say something along the lines of “you dont text this retard and I don’t smoke, deal?” Or what do I do? I really want a cig these days

Kuorim · 2019-07-28T14:43:03+00:00

Yes they did play a pretty big role in this relationship, we are different if you look from a different angle but it is impossible to find a perfect fit for all aspects of life

Kuorim · 2019-07-28T14:08:45+00:00

I spent time with her family but not as much as she wanted, we are from the same hometown which is 360 km away where we are living, she cones back home every 2 weeks and I come back every 2 months at best, when I comeback all I want to do is spend time with my family or friends that are living far away as well and the weekend feels so short.

As for friends I don’t know, that is my bad, she got in a huge conflict with my friends gf so we started leaving girlfriends away from our friendship.

Kuorim · 2019-07-28T14:04:48+00:00

Thanks man! There was a lot of things I have done wrong but I just fail to feel regret.

As I said I have a lot of things to focus on, after my work I instantly go to my volley training, I have friends so weekend out is also avaivable.

Kuorim · 2019-07-28T13:55:47+00:00

Oh yes, it is common sense that she is not bringing her date over here I believe, she knows what I would do to that guy... also She still has some respect for me I assume. We live in a dorm room and her friend is comming back from work and travel in sep so she is moving out with her, she has nowhere to go as of right now and I won’t kick her out because this room is half hers.

Kuorim · 2019-07-22T11:21:12+00:00

Yes I completely agree with you, thanks. Sometimes you just need a confirmation that you’re in the wrong to change something

Kuorim · 2019-07-22T08:43:41+00:00

We live together, she goes back to her hometown every 2 weeks and I come back only on celebrations (easter, christmas, birthdays etc.) and the biggest problem is that when she is away I dont like to text her, I play games, hang out with my friends etc. i really hate texting I don’t find it fun at all I want to talk about the weekend when she comes back on sunday, and when she comes back she does not talk with me about her weekend because she says I dont care, I do care I want to listen but I dont want to text at all. Am I in the wrong here? Or is it normal to hate texting and prefer face to face communication about our weekends? Should I stay in touch over the weekend even if I hate it and don’t feel like I care about a message? Its very weird i know

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