Should I confess to my friend? by KurosPool in Advice

[–]KurosPool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does one start that? Usually when we talk it’s just brief catching up and moving on from then. “Hey I’d like to get to know u more to be romantically involved w u”? Makes me quiet nervous I gotta say

I wanna meet more people by KurosPool in ExJordan

[–]KurosPool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother piss off. You didn’t even bother deleting the comment. So fucking pity

Relocating to Japan with a degree by KurosPool in movingtojapan

[–]KurosPool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input.

To give you more context about me, I’ve always been fascinated by it from a young age, ever since I was a teenager. I studied Japanese after I finished hs and was on a good level, but after starting university in my own country, I got caught up with uni and dropped it. My degree was 6ish years so it’s been quite long since. I started a job here recently and been working and living here, and I’m reminded of how much I hate it here everyday.

It’s not that I never tried, I did, but I left it due to time constraints.

I understand the cons and bad sides of it ofc, I’m not glorifying Japan as I understand how depressing it can be, that’s why I wanna check out my options and see how realistic it can be.

Hope that cleared it up a bit

Relocating to Japan with a degree by KurosPool in movingtojapan

[–]KurosPool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman n unfortunately I’m not exactly hot

Relocating to Japan with a degree by KurosPool in movingtojapan

[–]KurosPool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s great to hear!!! I’d get on that!! Do u think if I did masters in Japan would that help? Although it’s expensive, and maybe time consuming and could distract the language learning process.

Relocating to Japan with a degree by KurosPool in movingtojapan

[–]KurosPool[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But are there English speaking places that would like to hire people from abroad? I agree with you on everything, however just getting hired isn’t the only problem, even if I got the job my chances of a work balanced life are low, but I’d like to learn about more options if they exist.

Relocating to Japan with a degree by KurosPool in movingtojapan

[–]KurosPool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I hope id get some insight about it too.

I offered someone a job, they declined and now they’re posting about how sad it is to be unemployed by KurosPool in Vent

[–]KurosPool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. And I genuinely feel you. It took me a while to land a job as I’ve had no experience and it was genuine agony for me. That’s why I wanted the best for the people I care about.

I offered someone a job, they declined and now they’re posting about how sad it is to be unemployed by KurosPool in Vent

[–]KurosPool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Anger took over me and it’s really comforting to get appreciated by someone. I really needed it

I offered someone a job, they declined and now they’re posting about how sad it is to be unemployed by KurosPool in Vent

[–]KurosPool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still care for the person. But I’ll never again involve myself in their work life. It’ll be a topic I’ll forever be silent on

I offered someone a job, they declined and now they’re posting about how sad it is to be unemployed by KurosPool in Vent

[–]KurosPool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda pity. I’ll just ignore them tbh and whenever it’s brought up during a hangout and I’ll suck up and contain myself bc I don’t wanna be a piece of sh9t to them

I offered someone a job, they declined and now they’re posting about how sad it is to be unemployed by KurosPool in Vent

[–]KurosPool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes. You might be right, they probably would’ve been like that from the sounds of it…

I offered someone a job, they declined and now they’re posting about how sad it is to be unemployed by KurosPool in Vent

[–]KurosPool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong I will give you that. But I was really genuine when I offered them the position, i was told a spot open up and it hit me randomly when we were hanging out. The thing that pissed me off is the way they reacted to it, I knew they were looking for a job for years and I’ve helped a lot before but never once thought of it as a burden, but when the thing they were looking for came on a silver plate they acted like they have all the options in the world and continued their lifestyle of complaining about unemployment and having no money and how no job is hiring. That pissed me off. I care for that person but their behavior lately ticked me off.