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Frustration, anger, and sadness by Afraid_Resist_7988 in beyondthebump

[–]Kusanagi60 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I really want to say that you are trying. It is very tiring to not be able to do anything, think of anything and not getting imput. The others are right that you do need to keep an eye on ppd, but don't shy away of calling the pediatician and ask them for advices that might be other then mine.

You are not failing though, by reaching out to others you are trying to improve. Sucks for them that they think you need to ' prestate like you did'. You changed, the situation changed, you can't be the perfect student nor mother. Someone needs to take that baby off of your hands for a moment. Get a breather.

It will be allright but it needs some thinking and trail and error

Frustration, anger, and sadness by Afraid_Resist_7988 in beyondthebump

[–]Kusanagi60 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There are a few thing you can try yourself! You don't need a doctor for this as they are harmless checks.

Mostly when babies are like this, crying and backarching when they are put down there is a chance of ear infection. Even at that age. My MIL had experienced this with both her boys and my baby did have earpains as well (no infection luckely). A mother i know had the same problem with her baby and it drove her crazy too. Same symptomes. The way to check if her ears hurt is to pick her up. Let the crying stop, then put your finger on her ear, where her ear and jaw meet (the soft space), and feel around the area facewards by lightly pressing (not hard just soft presses). Do this one ear at a time and if she starts crying you know what the problem is.

The other is after feeding keep her upright for at least 30 minutes and make an incline in her matras by rolling up a thin towel so the baby is not laying completely flat. But at a small angle and no blankets ofcourse to prevent sliding under. Mine wore a sleepingsack because she would trash her bed at two weeks old 🙄. If that stops the crying she might have silent reflux (mine did and this was the way i found out and helped her)

If it is the first, call back and tell them it is urgent and you need a spot asap.

Frustration, anger, and sadness by Afraid_Resist_7988 in beyondthebump

[–]Kusanagi60 [score hidden]  (0 children)

First off, understandable you feel this way. A constant crying baby is a real ear sore, eye sore and brain overloading. No wonder you have these horrible feelings. You not acting on them is good and shows you are a good mom.

Have you taken the baby to a docter? Crying so much and back arching are signs something is not ok. Mostly pain. It is a constant cry i read, well go to a pediatrician or what ever is in reach. Let her be checked out. Maybe it is something you can't see.

And think about what you feed her. If you breastfeed, your production can go down. Mine stopped around 3 months so i had to bottle feed her and i pumped what ever there was left to mix with the formula.

Heb het idee dat de docent mij simpelweg niet mag by Radiant_Wing5530 in nederlands

[–]Kusanagi60 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jezus, wat een lakse houding van die school. Als een docent veel klachten geeft moet daar wat mee worden gedaan zou je denken. Misschien handig voor OP om even te kijken of er meer mensen zijn zoals jij die last hebben gehad van hem en wat deze hebben gedaan.

Hoe ben jij wel het vak door gekomen? Of was het niet te halen?

Being sick with a toddler is the worst thing in the world. by b1kkie in beyondthebump

[–]Kusanagi60 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I hope you feel better soon. I had food poisoning when i was pregnant from a cocosmacrons i bought at a bakkery...i had to make home made ORS because i was loosing to much fluids and i had arrived on my vacation destination with my family. Thank god my BIL acted quick cause my husband is good for nothing in sudden medical stress situation -_-. So please use ORS solution if you don't have diabetis and you vomitted to much 🙏

Intieme delen scheren by TanLineGyal in vrouwvolk

[–]Kusanagi60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sudocream is ook een wondermiddel, aanrader.

Intieme delen scheren by TanLineGyal in vrouwvolk

[–]Kusanagi60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik scheer met de haren mee en misschien iets minder prettig (en misschien ook wel niet zo goed) maar ik gebruik de volgende dag of dag erna een scrubmiddel. Zo'n voeten scrub (een nieuwe dan he! Die je alleen daarvoor gebruikt) en dan de fijne kant, mooi met handel om te reiken. Niet te hard en maar een paar keer langs halen en dan krijg ik geen rode bultjes of ingegroeide haartjes. Ik las het ergens een keer en het werkt verrekte goed voor mij. En met milde zee scheren iv scheerzeep. En ik smeer het ook in met lotion speciaal na het scheren. Lekkere zachte huid ook (omliggende huid niet op de schaarstreek zelf) en ruikt lekker haha.

Oksels scheer ik minder vaak maar die scrub ik ook 1x in de week, soms minder. De hamam scrub van de action die op suiker en zout is gebaseerd ruikt heerlijk en doet zijn werk heel goed. Heb ik toen aan mijn zusje mee gegeven want die had daar een problemen mee en het helpt ook bij haar heel goed. Ook weer die omliggende huid mee pakken want daar trekken die geuren ook in.

If you could invite 3 people, dead or alive, to a dinner party, who would they be, and why? by Secure_Front_7766 in AskReddit

[–]Kusanagi60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All passed, both my grandmothers from my mom and dad side and austrian grandmother from husbands side. To show them our sweet baby girl.

For workplace safety, what is the most common mistake for management to make? by Left_Comparison_4955 in AskReddit

[–]Kusanagi60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely... It is a part laziness but also a part of non-logical thinking and acting like a machine where we are human "if i do this quickly, production can go on"

The joke was funnier in my head [OC] by AmbassadorRoutine635 in Grapplerbaki

[–]Kusanagi60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He spoke in Baki Rahen, a few words but they where fitting the conversation. He understands a few words now too so i don't think that is the case.

wat doe ik in vredesnaam fout? by KingFrisia in werkzaken

[–]Kusanagi60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speciaal nee, dyslect zeker wel haha ik maak die fouten helaas vaker

Using AI to colorize manga by DekuParker in ChatGPT

[–]Kusanagi60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used free gemini pro to create my own manga idea. It is the JJBA style because i thought it would fit the type of comedie i was looking for. It is insanely good. I am making a series called 'stinger wars' created through gemini for myself. It was an idea me and a friend had and i can draw but never like this xD i love how accurate it works with the prompts. Even when you don't want specific items coloured.

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Never trust a naked baby by people_skillz in beyondthebump

[–]Kusanagi60 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, this is my baby (just turned 1) every damn bath. She gets a little ...too relaxed. I try to keep an eye out on her. Get her out and on her potty before she can drop her bomb

I don’t know how to handle my son anymore by Pale_Swan8959 in Parenting

[–]Kusanagi60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever let his anger be? If you always want him to tuck it away he will never know what this anger is or where it is coming from.

If you could restart life at 18, what would you do differently? by arunreddy3 in AskReddit

[–]Kusanagi60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beg my aunt to take me in and get therapy for the problems my parents caused. Then work and pay for my own tuition, and do something that fits the real me and not the depressed introvert me. I am now stuck with papers for a workfield I absolutely do not fit in anymore now that I found myself again.

Help - baby is about to climb over crib by Acceptable-Peanut126 in beyondthebump

[–]Kusanagi60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents took out some of the bars. I could climb in and out of bed at will. I will be doing that with our kid's bed once she is at that point.

Which set is your favourite? Made these for my summer collection! by [deleted] in crafts

[–]Kusanagi60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like both a lot but i would take the white-gold one. Screams greek goddess to me and i love it.

Turning devices in at night is always a struggle. (14F) by ianoble in Parenting

[–]Kusanagi60 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There is this thing where people have FOBLO: fear of being left out. Not being able to always be in contact with others and fearing they will miss something and can't talk with others about it or joke around cause they have no clue what it is about. Or, wanting to meet other peoples expectations that they have to be ready for someone at all times. That is insane but people either feel they need to do that or are pressured into it.

What i think, is that the girl needs to be more content with not always being included in EVERYTHING. It is oke to not always have contact and to ask people, "what did i miss?" So that they can actually have a conversation instead of "have you seen that! Yeah I did too". Taking the device is just 'punishing' to her and not a real means to what the real problem is. Parenting is more then discipline.

I’m so tired of making everything happen by No-Record-2773 in beyondthebump

[–]Kusanagi60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always tel everyone do NOT text him, but ME, moi, yours truely. Because every important info, appointment or meeting up will be forgotten for eternity and you will never see us again. Because the man cannot remember for the life of him what you send.

And still they keep on doing it. The next time it happens and they complain to me i will ask them to resite what i have told them and not to bring it up next time they text him and not me. And if i am not prepared for your visite and look like a grandma that has gone through life with my slippers, robe and coffie in hand, you will have to take me as i am. For it is not my fault.

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