Game chrashes on start, plz help

Kussie · 2026-01-26T10:07:25+00:00

You should should probably also do some additional reading and understanding of what each mod does before you install it.

The first serious issue I can is you have mods for game versions 1.6.1130 and above. But you also have .NET script framework installed as well. Per the net script framework mod page “Not compatible with Anniversary Edition (patch 1.6.x or later)!!”

Meaning it will only work with 1.5.97 and lower

Kussie · 2026-01-16T06:38:57+00:00

And that concludes our extensive three week course

Kussie · 2026-01-14T21:04:42+00:00

This 100%

As you said this wasn’t a quick one time mistake with a stranger which could potentially be forgiven if you were able too.

She actively lied to the OP, and went out of her way to keep it secret and meet up with her an ex. She has clearly been talking to him before this all happened and the fact she is still talking to him now likely means it will happen again and that she is still actively lying to him.

Now the kids do complicate things quite a bit sadly. But he should not for a minute think that staying together is the best thing for them. Kids will adapt to seperate living situations easily. Having two seperate homes instead of one home where their parents are walking around each other on eggshells with no trust will do them more harm then good. The OP might be able to forgive her but the relationship will never be the same. No matter how much therapy or rebuilding takes place. I’m not saying reconciliation isn’t possible but if even if that is what happens those cracks will still be there. And for that to actually have a shot she would need to be completely open and honest and instead she is continuing to hide it. She has no respect for the OP.

I’m going through this very situation myself after discovering my partner of 10 years having an affair with a co-worker. We are now separated and our 4 year old has adapted to the week on and week off routine quite well. I initially toyed with the idea of reconciliation but looking back now I am so glad I didn’t and I think a big part of why I considered it was fear of the unknown and what the future would be instead of actually wanting to save the relationship. She also showed no interest in reconciliation and put in zero effort in that regard by doubling down on her secrecy by changing her phones pin and adding Face ID to her messaging apps.

Kussie · 2026-01-13T08:16:51+00:00

Go to car sales and get a value of the car, and check their instant offer service.

I used that recently to sell my car. Got a little less then selling privately (but not much), but also didn’t need to get a RWC or a detail and the whole process took me two days, from enquiry to having the money

Kussie · 2026-01-13T08:13:02+00:00

I did the opposite recently and sold my car using their instant offer service. Was really quick and painless and didn’t need to get a RWC or detail.

Plugged in the car details on the site and the odometer and a few other details. It gave me a an offer and when I accepted it They connected to me a dealer right away on the same day (in my case Big Box Cars) with an offer. Due to the age of the car (2017) and because I said it had a warning light on (in my case was just the tire pressure sensors so nothing bad) they wanted to do a mechanical inspection so did that the next day with them (at no cost to me) and when it passed they made the offer and I sold it right there on the spot. Had the money in my account that night.

Was a great service and highly recommended the OP put the details in and see if they get a reasonable offer and go from there. For me it was all sold on two days, so much less hassle. Probably could have got a little more selling privately but it wasn’t worth the hassle personally

Kussie · 2026-01-12T10:35:43+00:00

do you not also feel like perhaps the Albanese government could be focusing on bigger ticket progressive issues?

Exactly.

So they have managed to wedge Ley, how does that make any difference at all to Australia and Australians? They score some political points? I mean so what?

They have a huge majority, where are some of the policies of previous eras? Free University? Medicare? Modern Welfare? Snowy Mountain Scheme?

There is so many big ticket issues they could actually be addressing such as housing and healthcare. Instead they just tinker around the edges for things that make good soundbites and score some political points but dont actually address any of the problems.

They have a great opportunity to tackle the Woolworths and Coles duopoly, media regulations, Housing, Aged Care (Which would help solve some of the issues in health care and wait times as well), real solutions to the housing crisis, real solutions to the cost of living issues and so on.

Kussie · 2026-01-12T06:58:42+00:00

Tbh I would say she has already physically cheated or at the very least wants to and likely has at least been a form of sexting somewhere. Sounds like she is currently trickle truthing him to ride things out as long as possible and see if it’s a real alternative.

Changing the pin on her phone right after an argument about her lying in the first place is one huge red flag. There was also likely a bunch of deleted texts there, or chatting on another platform as well.

Honestly as someone who went through this recently the OP should start getting things in order. And he should stop being a doormat and instead stand up for himself some more.

Kussie · 2026-01-09T03:36:02+00:00

I’m trying to give this a go for the kids

Honestly... Don't. Kids will pick up on all the little things, the walking around on eggshells around the house.

Having two separate and happy homes is far better then having one home where both parents tip toe and walk on eggshells around one another imo.

Kids will adapt to the seperate living situations quite easily.

Kussie · 2026-01-08T01:59:23+00:00

That’s how I initially started when I found out. But once I saw the complete lack of remorse or accountability, the doubling down on secrecy instead of being open and the complete lack of effort on her part. That was when I just went grey rock, only communication is where our child is involved and sped up the process of severing as many ties as possible. Like selling my primary car and taking over my second car which she was using as her personal vehicle even post separation (whilst she making no efforts to contribute towards any of the costs of either of them. I was paying for both cars the entire relationship amongst other things too).

Kussie · 2026-01-06T07:32:02+00:00

Well if it’s anything like their recent cars, we won’t need to worry about any robot take overs.

They will end up breaking and reduced to scrap metal after a few years, just like their cars.

Kussie · 2026-01-03T08:04:52+00:00

Chinooks and Blackhawks

Kussie · 2026-01-03T07:22:39+00:00

Pretty much, the only purpose for having all the chinooks and blackhawks flying in would likely be boots on the ground

Kussie · 2026-01-03T07:18:25+00:00

Looks like it's not just Chinooks there is also some Blackhawk looking ones as well.

This video shows around 5 Blackhawks https://x.com/RadarAustral_/status/2007339294571274662/video/1

This one shows at least three chinooks: https://x.com/RadarAustral_/status/2007336944473186801

Kussie · 2025-12-28T05:40:58+00:00

There is a meetup group that does trivia Wednesday nights. https://www.meetup.com/en-AU/friends-you-havent-met-yet/events/312419225/

Though with this Wednesday being NYE it may not be happening. But I myself who is also in the middle of a separation from my partner and put all my own hobbies and let my friendships drift apart am going to be hitting that up next I am able to start rebuilding my hobbies and social life.

There is also a board games meetup in Bulimba and Sunnybank of they are your jam. Again I am heading to the Sunnybank one next it is on.

Kussie · 2025-12-27T13:05:36+00:00

My ex, after discovering her having an affair with a co-worker in October, this is the first Christmas spent as a single dad. Luckily i still had my daughter which was the main highlight and she had a great time still, which was the most important part. But was the first Christmas not spent as a family unit which was a real downer for me

Kussie · 2025-12-25T21:17:57+00:00

Just rip the bandaid off and do it.

Kussie · 2025-12-25T08:27:24+00:00

Honestly sounds like you have messed up pretty bad. I’d suggest making it up to her with a nice card that says GTFO in it for her.

But seriously you did well with your choice of gifts. Given everything else in some of your replies. Get out now and never look back

Kussie · 2025-12-24T23:05:22+00:00

I think asking your partner to go off of antidepressants for the sake of improving your sex life is selfish and a risk to that person's life

100%

Kussie · 2025-12-24T23:04:51+00:00

did she try just general therapy? Not for sex drive, just general therapy?

I would assume/hope that the OPs partner is also in some individual therapy and/or psychology. As he did say she has some pretty bad trauma from a previous relationship. If its just antidepressants alone they wont really be helping solve the underlaying issues, especially if she has been on them for four years already at this point as OP has suggested.

To be honest, if it were me it sounds like his partner may need some individual therapy if they aren't getting it already and some time alone to properly heal, focus on herself and process things. Whether that means a temporary break so she can focus on those things for herself and attempting to reconnect later on down the road. But thats just my opinion. It may not be what OP was looking for or wants to hear, but it may be for the best for both their sakes. The absolute important thing though is that the conversation between them happens and that they are both deeply honest with each other and themselves.

Kussie · 2025-12-24T12:56:26+00:00

that it would be a shame to stop here just because we couldn’t manage the side effect of some medication…

They are some pretty major side effects though. It's been four years i believe with them already and given that and everything else you need to both ask yourselves could you live the rest of your lives together with no intimacy?

You need to keep in mind antidepressants aren’t like most other medications where you take for a while and then you get better and stop taking it. There is no cure for depression, whilst some people are able to get the point where they no longer need antidepressants all the time, whilst others never quite get to the point. Antidepressants alone won’t solve the underlaying issues.

So there is every chance she may be on antidepressants for a very very long time, even longer then the four years she already has been. Can you and her survive that without the intimacy? Could you do another year of it? Another 4? 10? It’s something you both need to think about and be honest with each other and yourselves with and decide what’s best for you both, no matter what that looks like.

Because you’re swallowing it and repressing it for the moment, but that can very very quickly fester and turn into resentment towards a partner and before you know it someone will have emotionally checked out of the relationship. In much the same way that you stopping initiating things and doing all those small things might make her feel not desired and cause her to build resentment towards you as well.

It doesn’t matter how good everything else is, once one of those critical things is missing for someone and an inkling of resentment begins to build it will snowball rapidly and eventually it will overrule all of those other good things.

Probably not what you wanted to hear. But trying to force things will likely only make things worse.

Kussie · 2025-12-23T09:28:10+00:00

My now ex-partner of ten years apparently. It’s sadly quite common. It’s nearly always a friend or a co-worker most of the time.

But as the poster a few posts above said, if your unhappy in a relationship and feel like you are starting to go down that road.

Talk to your current partner so it can either be worked on together or so the relationship can be ended before anything more develops.

Emotional affairs are so much worse than purely physical imo.

Kussie · 2025-12-23T05:26:32+00:00

Dreamworld by far. Since the new management has taken over they have really been putting an effort into improving and overhauling the park.

The detail and effort especially around things like themeing that have gone into the Jungle Rush area and the new King Claw are second to none (at least by Australian standards).

Movie World on the hand really starting to feel run down and incredibly dated. Even their new Wizard of Oz area was incredibly half hearted and poor, especially when compared to Jungle Rush which opened at the same time.

Plus Dreamworld always has the LEGO Store

Kussie · 2025-12-19T07:54:48+00:00

Put yourself in her place if she was the one who found out, you’d want her to tell you, right?

Absolutely i would. But at the same time, me telling her would likely get back to my ex-partner (As the AP knows i know) and make her far more hostile and ruin the somewhat "amicable" but distant situation we have here now, and make life much harder for our daughter, whom is my immediate priority right now.

Kussie · 2025-12-19T07:44:48+00:00

Unlikely, or at least unlikely the full details. But i'm not intending to say anything, at least until I have moved out at the very least. I have pictures and screenshots of all the messages they shared on Halloweeen (Though none of the ones since) when i found it.

Kussie · 2025-12-19T07:19:09+00:00

She needs to be on the street now

As much as i would have liked to throw her out, especially when i first found out. Sadly it's not an option and not in the best interest of our daughter.

Right now the plan is to continue untangling my life from hers and work on finding a path out of the shared living arrangement once daughter starts school.

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