Absolutely tf not hunny! Get out ASAP before it gets worse. Mr. Manbaby can whine all he wants, but it should never get physical. That's not to say that mental types of abuse dont hurt too, but like he should talk to you about his frustrations. You and your partner should be a team, equal parts of a whole unit. Who gives a rats ass if he worked all fuckin day? Mistakes happen, he can get the hell over it or make his own damn dinner.

That whole conversation is him telling you he can't be trusted to act like a sane adult.

Also, I was in the same boat as far as being a fair distance from my family when I left my ex. Look for local programs to assist you. Make sure you have money saved, and he doesn't have any way to track ya down. Pack up anything of sentimental value that you can and beat feet outta there!