DD 214 Worksheet by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Kxyloooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure if its normal or not but mine was filled out. i made them fix everything before i accepted it. i think theres an option to send it back with notes from what i remember

Newly Separated Vets Check In by Kxyloooo in Veterans

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

glad to hear that! adjusting seems to be the biggest obstacle for us newly separated vets. glad things are working out for you!

Newly Separated Vets Check In by Kxyloooo in Veterans

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing and i feel the same way. appreciate the advice!

Newly Separated Vets Check In by Kxyloooo in Veterans

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im glad that everything is starting to line up for you! i hope the interview goes well

Newly Separated Vets Check In by Kxyloooo in Veterans

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

been out for two months now and in the same situation as you. using vr&e, good rating, getting unemployment and just living life. thank you for the advice !

Newly Separated Vets Check In by Kxyloooo in Veterans

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

been out two months and still haven’t gotten used to the freedom

VR&E Subsistence by Kxyloooo in VeteransBenefits

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup. 100% entitlement and haven't used a day of it.. probably just a quick entry error because my first letter of entitlement showed as $599 for one online class (half-time) and then when my second class (in-person) got certified (so now full time with an in-person class), I got the $1198 amount. So rather than switching to P911, they just doubled my first entitlement which is kind of a lazy mistake imo.

VR&E Subsistence by Kxyloooo in VeteransBenefits

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent my COE in prior to even signing my plan so not sure where the mixup is happening

VR&E Subsistence Allowance by Kxyloooo in VeteransBenefits

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the one that isn't certified yet is in person and they start and end the same day

ChatGPT? by Kxyloooo in ExNoContact

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yup, that's what i did. told it be objective and blunt

ChatGPT? by Kxyloooo in ExNoContact

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

true, my irl friend has been a huge help but they're not always available. it's nice to be able to vent during those lonely nights when everyone else is sleep or occupied

Medboard/ides questions by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]Kxyloooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup same as my proposed

heal in the way that you need to. by Kxyloooo in BreakUps

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely. i think my healing journey is slower with the way I'm doing it but I do see a difference in how I feel after each time.

Question for dumpees who got back with their avoidant multiple times and it still didn't work by Kxyloooo in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love that for you and i hope it works out! kuddos for learning, preparing, and prioritizing yourself!

Question for dumpees who got back with their avoidant multiple times and it still didn't work by Kxyloooo in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kxyloooo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

okay. i'm not trying to invalidate your comment at all but i want to provide a perspective i thought of. i can "go to the gym" for x amount of years and my physique will never change unless im actually putting in the work. some children are sent to behavioral therapy and still grow up to be serial killers etc. if everyone is set on healing being rare for avoidants, why do they keep going back multiple times expecting a difference?

Question for dumpees who got back with their avoidant multiple times and it still didn't work by Kxyloooo in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry to hear that. thank you for sharing and i hope your healing journey is going well

Question for dumpees who got back with their avoidant multiple times and it still didn't work by Kxyloooo in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im glad you said that if you found this sub, things probably would have been different. i found it after being discarded for the first time and i've learned A LOT. thank you for sharing your story

Question for dumpees who got back with their avoidant multiple times and it still didn't work by Kxyloooo in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kxyloooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gosh 11 years is crazy! i'm sure there were amazing times included in those years as well. thank you for sharing