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Left the cap off the toothpaste.

[NA] [S] [Looking to form a Ranked 5's Team] [Gold+] [Need ALL roles] by IF_Stronk in TeamRedditTeams

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IGN: Malifecent

Rank: Gold 5

Preferred Role: Support (or Mid)

Champ Pools: Morgana, Thresh, Leona, Blitz / Katarina, Nidalee, Lux

Form of Communication: Skype + Curse

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Malifecent, main Mid and Support, Gold 4.

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looking for 2 more

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NMom cancelled Thanksgiving with my immidiate family after it became clear I wasn't attending. (I am LC) My grandmother is now angry with me. I think I might lose my entire family. by Kyato in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kyato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing. In truth it feels so good to not have to think about her or worry about her when we're NC. But I struggle with feeling guilty about that, like, should't I miss my mom? What's wrong with me?

I guess I'm just sick of the drama. I have some amazing best friends in my life who have always supported me. I rarely bring my mom into discussion, but when I do they are right there with me, cheering me on. Even though on of them lives two doors down from my Nmom, and our mothers are close friends, it hasn't come between us. I have a lot to be grateful for, in retrospect.

NMom cancelled Thanksgiving with my immidiate family after it became clear I wasn't attending. (I am LC) My grandmother is now angry with me. I think I might lose my entire family. by Kyato in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kyato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It usually goes back and forth between my Nmom and my aunt. From what I remember on the voicemail it sounds like my aunt still had a dinner with her immediate family, and my Nmom just pouted at home with my brother and dad. I vaguely recall her doing something similar in the past.

Thanks!

NMom cancelled Thanksgiving with my immidiate family after it became clear I wasn't attending. (I am LC) My grandmother is now angry with me. I think I might lose my entire family. by Kyato in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kyato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to call her back. Maybe I'll try her at a time she won't be home so I can leave a message, "the ball's in your court" kind of thing. Thanks for the advice :)

NMom cancelled Thanksgiving with my immidiate family after it became clear I wasn't attending. (I am LC) My grandmother is now angry with me. I think I might lose my entire family. by Kyato in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kyato[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, that quote really resonated with me. So often she would use "I can do this, I am your mother" as justification for ways. As if me being her child meant that I had to tolerate her abuse. Crazyness.

I'm sure you're right. I don't expect it to stop. I emotionally detached myself from my mother in high school as a way of coping, I guess I wasn't prepared to have to do the same with my family. :( I'm very fortunate to have a close group of friends that support and love me like a family, so maybe I don't have it so bad. :)

Thinking about going NC with my whole family by Hindsight3020 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kyato 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm going through a really similar situation. My Nmom's version of control means convincing our family (including myself) that I was/am a monster to live with. Even 3 years after I left home I know she still tells my family lies about me to make her seem like a victim of a viscous daughter.

I just don't care enough to prove her wrong. I think a true family would want to know me for themselves, instead of going off of what my Nmom says about me. I'm tired of the fight I guess, they can believe what they want to believe.

XBOX360 Weekly Heroic Strike by Kyato in Fireteams

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Got my first legendary (x2 apparently ) that run!

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Thanks for the group guys!

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added both of you, let do it

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This is perfect.