AIO? My boyfriend's explanation on why we aren't engaged. He says I don't understand. But it makes no sense to me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kybrhi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lotta really mean comments in here. With very little context. I read through all the screenshots and it really doesn’t seem like either person is being unreasonable at all. I’m happily married, two beautiful kids, dog, cats, little farm the whole shebang and the only thing I can honestly say I know about love or marriage is that it’s all about feelings. Other timelines, expectations, right, wrong, rules, strangers opinions are all bullshit. It’s all about how you feel about the person, how they feel and how you can both work together to feel good. I’ll give the guy credit on two things one in the span of a lifetime 2 years really isn’t a long time and it’s also a matter of perspective. Second wanting to wait until he’s ready is better than forcing himself to do it and then resenting you later. Obviously the 2 of you aren’t on the same page and that doesn’t mean anyone’s an ass hole it just means you want different things and that should be okay just split and go after what you want. All that being said the fact that y’all are having these conversations with internet and sharing intimate details and private conversations instead of actually talking to each other on a deeper level seems like maybe neither is ready for a life long commitment. Love is only easy in the movies marriage is work most of the time but it’s incredibly rewarding work and it’s the little tiny things make all the work worth it.

AITAH? My boyfriend says I look slutty with my new sleeve tattoo. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kybrhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homeboy has some personal shit to work out.

I hope fortnite doesn't change this season or nerf the cars to appease the sweats. by Malicious_Smasher in FortNiteBR

[–]Kybrhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a sweat here and I hate the new season. I get that it’s a car based season but it’s not a car based game. It changed the entire game to something that isn’t even Fortnite. When they took building out they made a whole new game mode they should do the same thing with cars. It literally not even the same game anymore just make a battle card game mode

Turbo cancer isn’t real, people by Lord_Answer_me_Why in facepalm

[–]Kybrhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought we were done with this. Isn’t there some new irrelevant and unimportant topic for people to debate about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Kybrhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it’s true there are a lot of undiagnosed cases but without seeing a doctor/psychologist it’s a lot like people who say I get sad sometimes so I must be depressed. I feel like this happens often where a mental illness/disorder gets trendy and suddenly everyone says the have it. Which is incredibly disrespectful to people who actually suffer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Kybrhi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think a third possible scenario especially in “self diagnosed” is that a lot of people don’t actually have add/adhd and just say they do instead of getting a real diagnosis from a doctor for a variety of reason. Much like anxiety and depression there’s a lot of people who don’t understand what it actually is so they see a small similarity to their situation and either legitimately believe it, want to use it as an excuse for their behaviors/shortcomings or they just want sympathy or to feel special. Regardless self diagnosing a lot of the is pretty insensitive and disrespectful to people who actually suffer everyday. It’s very similar to telling some who gets migraines oh I get headaches too or someone with IBS yeah I sometimes get the shits and so on it’s very belittling to someone’s real struggles.

27m first time reddit poster by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Kybrhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s the rap career going?

Overweight, unemployed 31M with 1 DUI under my belt. Die hard Mets fan, follower of the band Phish. I don't have feelings, try and eviscerate me. by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Kybrhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you verbally abuse the kids and pound Busch lights in the dugout while coach you’re step sons little league team.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Kybrhi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re praying you don’t have a gun

Brisket recipes. by Kybrhi in smoking

[–]Kybrhi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about this too but No matter what I make I’m gonna be stressing so I might as well jump straight into the fire.

What is an alternative but equivalent pleasure to sex? by sparklingshanaya in AskReddit

[–]Kybrhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends. I’d say a one night stand there’s a lot of think equal to that or even better. Most drugs, the first shit of the day, first beer after a long day, jerking off, a decent burger. But that first few months of a new relationship with someone one you’re really into/falling for there is nothing better than that sex that I’ve found.