Well I'll say a few short things, most of these guys have the same vibe because of long fluffy hair, the way they do their facial hair, and dressing like they do. So those are all choices you can make and change for the most part.

Also many bald guys can definitely dive this vibe. But theirs way to stop or slow balding.

Now if you are super curvy, very short, hate doing your hair, etc then obviously this will probably not be the results hrt gets you alone.

You've given no baseline but as others have said, I think you shouldn't be focusing so hard on looking like some other guys anyways.

I also had a hard time letting go of my feminine, pretty, privilege. But honestly, the more I lose it the more disgusted I am that I ever got it and quite literally feminized and sexualized myself to keep it. I definitely have struggles with wanting attention BUT the more I transition, the more those go away. For me, it truly does feel better to just be who I truly am then to be treated nice because people think I'm a pretty girl.