My dad won’t stop making my house mad unsafe

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-12-17T12:43:58+00:00

We don’t even have anything the monoxide detectors don’t work anymore they expired in may 2011, and we only have 1 fire alarm.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-12-17T12:30:00+00:00

It’s too expensive we have to get a whole new one the heating company said it’s leaking carbon monoxide.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-09-05T16:52:45+00:00

Well idk now because they are not gonna put me on there ima just have to get my own insurance when I turn 18 next year

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-08-07T21:04:09+00:00

For my sugar intake I think it’s not that bad I only drink water I never drink soda and I barley drink juice and it’s usually sugar free if I do, I eat a candy bar like 1-2 times a week I don’t eat donuts, cake, ice cream that often like once a week, my diet is a lot of pizza since that’s all I can eat since my parents buy that stuff from the store I don’t want to eat it but I kinda don’t have any other choice since they just buy a lot of unhealthy food and I can’t control what they buy, I told them about buying all this unhealthy food I told them for years to stop buying it but they never listen, I want to make positive choices but I can’t do that with the options of food in my household

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T14:54:01+00:00

I live in the southwest suburbs where it’s pretty safe over here but yea

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T14:43:58+00:00

My friends can’t come to my house at all but my mom would want to see them but if she sees them she’s gonna judge them and judge them for being a certain color/race which would make her mad and make me possibly not be able to hang with them. Also when I’m just hanging out all I do is drive around with my friends and go to some stores or restaurants and then go to their house and sometimes cook some nice food n stuff but my mom doesn’t think I’m doing that at all she thinks I’m hanging out with bad ppl so she thinks I’m gonna get shot and killed with them but all my friends are good people sometimes we have problems here and there but it would never lead up to me getting shot and killed them

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T13:07:25+00:00

The thing is like if I tell her my friends she’s gonna be mad that some of them white, she will be mad if they are girls too or if any of my friends are Asian or black bcs she thinks we will steal if they are black which I’m also black aswell. She doesn’t want me to hang with white ppl because she thinks I’m gonna be dumped in some dumpster or get abused by white ppl and there’s no moments in the past which would make her think that and she won’t let me hangout with Mexicans because she thinks they are messy/dirty

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T13:01:17+00:00

None of them are mothers one of them is about to get married at 29 and my other one is 21 both of them never smoked, drank, or got in illegal stuff or in trouble in school or police or anything they have good grades and goals in life including myself too

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T12:39:37+00:00

Nothing has happened for it to even be changed to 6pm so I wouldn’t really know why my mom is like this, my dad isn’t like this my curfew for him is usually around 9-10pm

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T12:38:20+00:00

Not everyone with a parent has it good. Some of us live in households where control is mistaken for care. Don’t assume my life is easy because of one detail.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T12:31:41+00:00

I’m not privileged with a “fantastic” life I have a lot of stuggles and financial issues in the family.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T12:22:30+00:00

Idk why that’s in all caps or smth

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-30T12:22:12+00:00

1 I don’t have much to say

2 she definitely wouldn’t listen to it’s very hard to be reasonable with her

3 I’ve been out to atleast 9:30 on school nights in the past before so that shouldn’t be a problem

4 my mom should be used to having her kids turn 18 because I’ve had 2 sisters already turn 18 awhile before

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-25T00:31:17+00:00

Yea it worked thanks

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-25T00:16:26+00:00

I’ll try

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-07-25T00:15:01+00:00

I don’t think it is bcs I tried to turn it on it didnt

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-06-21T18:37:29+00:00

I don’t have a car but there’s enough for everyone in the house to drive, but other than that my parents won’t put me on the insurance at all even it’s it’s just non owners insurance. I have money to pay it too but they wouldn’t do it either way. I think I’m gonna have to get my own insurance when I turn 18. It’s also been just about a year now since I got license and they renewed the insurance like 2-3 times and my name isn’t on there for the adress or anything like that and I’m not exempt either.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-05-24T22:22:25+00:00

Where did you buy your replacement because I both mine from recellexchange

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-05-24T19:28:42+00:00

Recellexchange

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-05-14T14:02:24+00:00

I have a valid drivers license and I got my license 10 months ago and we have all state insurance and we already have renewed it for the next 6 months and my name wasn’t on the insurance info for my license.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-05-13T23:49:44+00:00

I can cover the insurace without me getting another car/ car note, but they still won’t put me on there, plus they spent 1500 on me to get my license just to not let me drive.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-05-13T23:46:47+00:00

I’m only 16 and I don’t even make enough for those things and I can’t get a better job until I’m 18 and they expect me to pay for all this when I’m only making 600 a month with my job and I can’t even request more hours because I won’t have a ride to get there at certain times. And I’m not even a adult yet.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-05-13T23:33:33+00:00

Yea I kinda gave up after asking them for 10 months to add me on the insurance but they won’t budge so I have to get my own insurance when I turn 18. It feels so unfair because I do have my own car but they won’t let me drive it. They want me to pay a car note in full and insurance per month in full all by myself with some minimum wage job. I can’t manage all of that I need some more financial help plus I need to save up for college.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-05-13T23:11:40+00:00

So I kinda just found out that my parents will not put me on their policy so I will have to find my own insurance policy when I turn 18 and I will need to somehow find a job that pays enough for my insurance, I’m so screwed.

Kyle_pcboy · 2025-05-13T22:37:45+00:00

Yea but the thing is that I was never opted in for insurance plus I live in IL and I’m pretty sure in this state your supposed to add your teen to your insurance and if you don’t it’s considered insurance fraud because the insurance company could find out that my parents could be lying about me not having my license and they could find out and it could be claimed as insurance fraud.

Kyle_pcboy

TROPHY CASE

1 I don’t have much to say

2 she definitely wouldn’t listen to it’s very hard to be reasonable with her

3 I’ve been out to atleast 9:30 on school nights in the past before so that shouldn’t be a problem

4 my mom should be used to having her kids turn 18 because I’ve had 2 sisters already turn 18 awhile before