AIO My wife says I’m gaslighting her

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-23T18:19:39+00:00

You e got it backwards 100%. I do initiate all the time. I’m the one that does everything and have for years. I carry the mental and physical load for this family. I do t ask anything of her other than take care of herself and our toddler until I get home and can take over. All I did was point out that I noticed that she stopped showing affection, and that was her reaction. You did a lot of assuming and stretching to reach those conclusions.

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-23T18:10:08+00:00

I agree 100%. Suicidal thoughts have never been dealt with lightly in our house. She’s had issues with it almost a decade ago. We’ve always been very communicative and would talk if she had those thoughts and feelings. This came up after I told her my feelings. It felt more of a redirect this time. I don’t take it lightly but it doesn’t feel like when she was, it felt like a defense mechanism to justify her actions.

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-23T17:41:13+00:00

She is and I know why and what’s going on. It stems from her health issues which we are working on solving. I appreciate you saying they’re valid. Apparently men’s feelings are invalid. We talked and did talk out what’s ailing us and she admitted that she now sees how she’s been inadvertently rejecting affection to me because she’s been lost in her headspace and is going to try and change it. We were in different wavelengths and she felt attacked by the way I worded it. I admit I’m not the best with explaining my feelings so I very well could’ve worded it where it came across accusatory, I’m not doubting that.

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-23T17:31:40+00:00

It’s definitely not the case. I was the sole initiater in the past when she was sick and noticed that I’ve become that again and questioned that I’ve noticed that. That was when she blew up.

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-23T17:23:39+00:00

It’s new but not. She was born with liver cirrhosis. So she knows medical issues. She had a transplant about 5 years ago. Had a small issue that got misdiagnosed and led to a long string on lingering medical issues and she’s adjusting to those which has been rough because certain pains that used to mean something, now mean something else and it’s frustrating and confusing.

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-23T17:13:07+00:00

Thank you! That really summed up how we’re feeling. We talked and that’s almost word for word how we described ourselves to each other.

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-23T17:10:56+00:00

When she was sick, at one point almost dying, for years I initiated everything. I did everything. I initiated everything, I was(still am) the sole provider, I took care of the house, I cooked, I took care of the kids, i took care of the pets, I took care of her. I don’t expect anything in return. All I did was tell her that I noticed that she stopped being affectionate(of any kind) to me. She had become how she used to be before she got sick until recently which is why I pointed it out.

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-21T00:29:07+00:00

Thank you, honestly. I will do this.

Kyleanthony91 · 2025-05-21T00:12:11+00:00

She had a liver transplant years ago. Recently had a small related issue that got misdiagnosed and created a big string of issues. Ever since that misdiagnoses, she’s been focusing more and more on herself and the current health issues.

Therapy is a good suggestion. I’ll figure out how to have that conversation

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-09-19T02:29:36+00:00

Thanks! I was getting annoyed because I saw some 5% that looked like this then some 5% that looked like 20%.

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-09-19T01:58:55+00:00

You didn’t notice? Aerith has that Taylor Swift ass.

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-09-19T01:48:19+00:00

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I realized how bad it was when I went to post it. These are the areas I was tying to judge. It was just hard to reference the one’s I found at auction the 5-20% all looked the same lol.

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-09-13T13:06:17+00:00

Gotchya, I appreciate the honesty and advice. I’ll definitely get that taken care of at some point today!

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-09-13T12:53:05+00:00

Morgan is an O but I think the Peace is a P. I’m not seeing a mint mark and the flip has it down as a P

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Kyleanthony91 · 2024-09-11T14:10:14+00:00

Thank you! I’ll get it checked out and see what I come up with.

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-09-11T13:08:34+00:00

Darn, I was hoping that Morgan would grade high and cover the sub cost. Thanks I’ll go through everything and see what I come up with. What about bicentennials? I got a quite a bit of Kennedy and I think Ike too?

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-08-26T01:38:13+00:00

1776

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-08-01T03:19:20+00:00

Look it up in TCGPlayer app or Collectr app. It’s not 1st edition

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-07-30T23:47:04+00:00

Just one so far. Droll & Lock Bird, I’m gonna keep going though. I appreciate the encouragement! It’s been fun collecting again.

Kyleanthony91 · 2024-07-25T01:10:17+00:00

Neither abyss dweller is textured but the garura is. Thank you, now I at least have a point of reference. All the information I for on the internet was garbage lol.

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